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okay.. my boyfriend and i have been having sex for like two weeks now. and i just got my period. my boyfriend told my older sister that i'm not a virgin anymore. my sister has been telling on me for stupid shit lately. my mom walks into my room and she's like "you know you can get pregnant while on your period, right?" i was like "yeah" and she's like "you don't have sex right?" and im like "no i don't" and shes like "uh-huh" and walks out of my room. what do i do?! i'm scared to shit?!
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maybe you and your boyfriend should lay off for a bit. let your mom regain trust in you (if she lost any). tell your boyfriend not to tell your sister anything or just talk to your sister and tell her not to say anything to your parents about that because its personaly, maybe shell understand. sorry if i dont help
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Does it really matter now.. i mean your mom obviously knows about it.. just admit it whats the worst shes gonna do? everyone does it sometime or later!!
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you need to ask your bf why he did this. that's not right of him
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hey sweetie * well don't lie to your parents..about anything. they are there to support you not be completely against everything you do. and if your close to your mom, then she will listen to what you have to say and understand you a lot better. come to her in a mature manner about it, and tell her that yes u had sex with him, and that you were sorry about not telling her before. then maybe she can take you to put you on birth control or w/e so at least your safe. ;). and about your boyfriend, if i was you, i would tell him to stop telling every one especially your sister about what you two do. because thats your guys' buisness, not your sisters. or your parents. and if he really cares about you and your relationship he won't tell your family what happens between you two! well hope i helped. besta luck! and be safe. and dont hesitate to ask me nething else if ya need to !! merry x*mas darlin! <3 brittany
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Talk to your mom. She knows you're lying. You need her support to go to the gyno and to get birthcontrol pills and all kinds of things. Being honest with her can make your life simpler or more difficult. She may freak and try to keep you from your boyfriend, but it doesn't sound like she would to me. Be brave and tell her you want her advise and support. Good luck, girl!
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try not having sex that always works for me
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First of all, why the hell would your boyfriend tell your sister something so personal like that? You having sex is no ones business but you and the other person's. Now, if you're underaged and you get pregnant then obviously it's your parents problem. You're sister has no right to be telling on you for stupid crap like that. Talk to your sister and have her not say anything to your mom. Also, tell your boyfriend not to EVER share that kind of information with your sister anymore. If I was in your position I would dump the boyfriend and tell your sister that what he said wasn't true. Your sister has no right to be sharing that kind of information with your mother. You really need to talk to your boyfriend and your sister. You need to tell your boyfriend that he's a moron for saying anything to your sister because it's <b>none</b> of her business. As for your sister, just ask her not to say anything to your mom and if she has said something tell her to tell your mom that it wasn't true and that she was just mad at you. That's seriously the meanest thing a sister can even do. I have a brother and yeah we have our fights but he would never share that kind of secret with my parents. You're obviously not pregnant because you got your period so you have nothing to worry about there but you shouldn't have sex while you're on your period. Statistics show that you are least likely to get pregnant any time that is 18 days before your next period. Always use a condom as well though. You just need to talk to your boyfriend because he was a fucking moron to say anything to your sister (sorry if that was rude or anything but he really is an idiot for saying anything to your sister because your personal life is none of her business) Hope this helped.
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Talk to your sister and ask her why she's doing this! Tell her she needs to mind her own business. Or be like, if you don't stop, I'm going to throw a heavy rock at you! Lol, I'm j/k, but you know what I mean! Maybe ask your bf to say something to her, too, cuz she might get embarrassed if he says something and stop. Good luck!
Happy Holidays!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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