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i have about just-past-shoulder-length hair and a side bang. i am really tired of wearing it down all the time. i need some good hair styles. can u help?? i dont mind trying new things so just tell me some cute, possible, and kind easy things to do with my hair, please =]
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-Put half of your hair up in a ponytail and leave the side bangs out.
-Take your side bangs and clip it to the side but make it stand up a little and leave the rest of your hair down. (Sorry if it sounds a bit confusing & also your hair has to be straight for it to look right).
-You can put your hair in two low ponytails.
-Scrunch your hair and leave your side bangs straight.





What would you wear with a white babydoll topthat flares out a lot at the butt/hips area? There is a seam under the bust area with a little bow on the side. Its SO cute and I want to wear something that compilments it!! (link)
Jeans would look really hot with it. And also flip-flops.



I have to write a Sonnet for English(14 lines each line has to be 10 syllables) and i really need some help on a topic... anyone have a good topic idea?

*thanks (link)
A good thing to do while you are trying to write a poem, story, sonnet or whatever it may be is to listen to a song that inspires you. A song that gets you in a certain mood, something you can relate to. You can write a sonnet on:

Love
Friendship
Betrayel
Deception
Temptations

Write about something that is based on you. Something unique, something you can relate to. Think about how you feel or how you want to feel.

If you need any more help, drop one in my inbox.




Im Graduating on the 6th of June and i need help to figure out a song. What song should it be? I want something about saying goodbye and probably upbeat but slow is cool. (link)
Vitamin C - Graduation song
Eve 6 - Here's to the Night
Greenday - Time of Your Life
Sarah McLachlan - I Will Remember You
Good Charlotte - Movin On
The Verve - Bitter Sweet Symphony
Jimmy Eat World - The Middle



does anyone know what this song is called and who its by ?



A singer in a smokey room
A smell of wine and cheap perfume
For a smile they can share the night
It goes on and on and on and on (link)
Journey - Don't stop Believing.



my ex moved 1000 miles away almost 2 years ago. we had lost touch for a while... now we talk all the time. it's like he just popped into the picture again. I really love him... what should i do? or say? (link)
It's normal to feel this way considering your ex moved so far away and you guys haven't spoke in a while and now things are going good between you too. You may think you still have feelings for him but it may just be all the memories taking over your mind. You may be missing what you guys had. I say let time take care of it. If it's meant to be then something will happen; and if it's not then just stay friends and try not to loose touch with each other.



hey! So heres my question, I am in 8th grade and my school has this "end of the year 8th grade formal"-ish thing. I just recently(as in like the last 3 days) started going out with this really great guy, and we are going to formal together. He is very nice and really sweet and isn't a perv like most 14 year old guys. So anyway, at this dance I think I might be wearing a strapless dress, and because im kinda skinny and dont have much boobs(im in like the biggest size you can be in a A cup, small I know ok geez) Do you think a strapless push up bra will make it look like i have more boobs? I know this guy wont care casue he is really nice, but I dunno I just want to look "sexy" haha. thnx so much! -marsbars (link)
Strapless push up bras actually won't make a big difference at all. I think that you would be better of wearing a different kind of dress. What I suggest is to buy a dress that you tie behind your neck and with that kind of dress you can wear a strapless push up bra. Since most dresses that tie behind the neck are low cut, the strapless push up bra will make it seem like you have more cleavage.



has anyone ever gotten a wax while on their period and having a tampon on.i want to get a wax this week and i just got my period 2 days ago and i want to go in 2 days and i dont kno if its possible or if professional places do it while your on your period..im just curious if anyones done that b4 (link)
Most places do do it while you are on your period but im warning you it hurts twice as much compared to getting it done while you don't have your period. If you still wan't to get it done while on your period then just call the place up and ask.



okay i wicked love summer dresses but i dont no where to find them besides alloy i really want some cute ones can people please give me the store name or websites or link or soemthing please i rate high (link)
http://www.mandee.com/nshop/product.php?view=listing&groupName=dresses&mem_of=dresses%20[amp]%20suits

http://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/ProductList.aspx?DeptID=597&PCatID=28159&CatID=28163&CatTyp=DEP&RefPageName=CategoryAll.aspx&RefDeptID=597&RefCatID=28159&cmAMS_T=U3&cmAMS_C=C4&mscssid=55c3a54d1dfb14f79a98164c255e0ad70xMnVNoV5aYoxMnVNoV5aYW200B48118395540BADA23304F3C37C8EA4900612723&CmCatId=597|28159

http://www.forever21.com/category.asp?catalog_name=FOREVER21&category_name=Dresses&Page=1

Hope you find something you like.



hi im 13/f. i was wondering if anyone knew a good deodorant or antiperspirent. i sweat under my arms all the time even when its cold and its embarrasing in school can someone give me tips on what to do about it? ill rate high thanks in advance (link)
Get Certain Dri. It's around $7 but it works really well. You can get it in almost any pharmacy. You apply it on at night before you go to bed and it closes up your pores so you barely sweat. In the morning just apply any regular deodorant like you would normally do.



Only answer if you have one.
I just bought an iPod nano and when I imported my music a few songs I didn't want on there got on there. How do I remove them from my iPod?
Please explain step by step; for I am quite confused. (link)
I have an iPod nano and what you do is open up your itunes. Find the song in your library and just delete it. After update your iPod and the song will be gone.



does anybody have any fun hair ideas i could use tonight without having somebody else do it for me? my hair goes down to about my shoulders and wont scrunch so i straighten it alot! thanks!! (link)
Try out this site, maybe you'll find something you like :

http://www.seventeen.com/beauty/hairguide/spc/0,,625851_630832,00.html


hello advice givers. does anybody have the motorolla razor phone? because i kinda want it but i heard it gets bad within like 3 months, is this true? if any one that has experienced with this phone, let me know if its worth buying (link)
I know so many people that have that phone and from what they have told me it's not worth getting it. It gets dirty within seconds no matter how many times you wipe it. You would be much better off with another phone.



16/F,This guy told me that he really likes me and I really like him too. But, the strange thing is that we're both really different and we don't have much in common. He is outgoing and is part of the whole popular crowd and mostly enjoys partying and getting drunk all the time. I'm the direct opposite of him cause I'm mostly a shy person and I'm not the crazy party type. Everyone tells me that itz cause of the whole opposites attract thing, but I can never understand why does it work that way?
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I think it works that way because you kind of learn from the other person because of the fact that both of you are so different from each other. I can't really explain it but being different is not a bad thing at all. When two people in a relationship are different, that gives both people the chance to try/do things they normally wouldn't do. I also think that when two people are in a relationship and they are different from each other it brings them even closer.



My best friend just told a huge secret of mine. Do I have the right to be angry?

The secret wasn't that big of a deal but it kinda meant a lot to me.

Thanks in advanced! (link)
Of course you have the right to be mad at her.
You trusted her with your secret and she went ahead and told someone. That's basically losing the person's trust and being betrayed.



I just registered to this site, and this is my first question type thing, so i dont really know what to put as my "subject" or what to put it under.

so.. this weekend, im goin to see some1,&i want to look good, so i picked out an outfit& everything, the only thing is.. i got my period this morning and i dont wear tampons,and the pants im wearing are pretty tight, but i dont want my underwear line to show?and i dont want to pick another outfit,so if any1 has any suggestions on what i should do.. i would really appreciate it... sorry if its a stupid question.! (link)
I suggest you were boyshorts. you can get them almost anywhere and they are really comfortable when you have your period and the best thing about them is the lineing doesn't show.



http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y14/candyshopchick/stephyanddanny020.jpg

yea thats me i wanna get highlights in my hair. i dont know what color. i know i want blonde but what shade? and i want a different color to what should i get.. everyones opinion matter. and i will rate everyone a 5.


p.s pictures r recomended (link)
I have dark brown hair as well and I have blonde highlights too. I think something in between caramel blonde and golden blonde would look really nice.



ok i want to start downloading songs but i like so much music i dont know what songs to download....can someone plz tel me some good songs.
(p.s. i listen mostly to 104.1 ,and 97.9 if that helps.) (link)
Ashley Parker Angel - Let You Go
Bowling For Soup - Girl All The Bad Guys Want
Bratz - So Good
Cartel - Say Anything (Else)
Cheap Trick - I Want You To Want Me
From First To Last - Emily
Garbage - Why Do You Love Me
Hawthorne Heights - Saying Sorry
Head Automatica - Beating Heart Baby
Homegrown - You're Not Alone
Quietdrive - Maybe Misery
Something Corporate - Konstantine
Straylight Run - Existentialism on Prom Night
Senses Fail - Burried a Lie
The All-American Rejects - Move Along
The Afters - Beautiful Love
The Afters - I Want You Back
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus - 20 Hour Drive
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus - Cat and Mouse
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus - Disconnected
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus - Face Down
Waking Ashland - Rumors
Waking Ashland - Let Go
Depeche Mode - Precious
Beth Hart - Leave The Light On
Bon Jovi - Run Away
Bon Jovi - Born To Be My Baby
Gavin Degraw - We Belong Together
Haley James Scott - Halo
Jack's Mannequin - Dark Blue
Jennifer Lopez - He'll Be Back
Lalaine - Did You Hear About Us
Lisa Loeb - Stay
Mandy Moore - Yo-Yo
Mary J. Blige - Be Without You
Natalie Imbruglia- Torn
Beth Hart - Leave The Light On
Nick Lachey - What's Left of Me
No Doubt - Spiderwebs
Black Eyed Peas - Pump It
PCD - Beep
R. Kelly - Burn It Up
Saving Jane - Girl Next Door
Shakira ft Wyclef Jean- Hips Don't Lie
The Go! Team - Huddle Formation
Wheatus - Teenage Dirtbag



my aim sn is not letting me on my computer my cell phone. it's only that sn, because when i went on my other sn it let me on. when i try to sign on a message says "AOL service temporary unavailible". any ideas??

thanks!! (link)
I just had the same thing for the past half hour. I don't know what is going on but I logged on perfectly fine just now so keep trying.



How do you wash mascara off of your eyes? I dont know how to do it and it is really annoying becuase then I get eye problems. Thanks ♥ (link)
What I do is just take a cottonball and wet it with make-up remover not that it's soaking but just the right amount. Then you just gently wipe your eyelashes. I do it to the side. (sorry if that doesn't make sense). If you don't have make-up remover then just wet the cottonball with water and wipe your eyelashes gently.
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