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anyone know how much chemical peals are? thanks in advance
The average cost of a chemical peel in the U.S. is $600 bucks, prices vary widely depending on the procedure and overall economic conditions where you live. It depends on how much you want done, a full face runs between $3000-4000, that's pretty pricey! Be sure and check what other associated fees are involved before getting it all done.
ok. i have a problem. i used to be the girl who did whatever was cool. you know? but now i've had a boyfriend for like a yr and a half now and i've changed how i look at things. i used to be into rap and pop (what is cool wehre i live) and now im changeing into a hard rock & emo music. and now everyone at my school thinks im weird or something. is there like anything i can do about that?
You can't really don't much about that. Some people change. And sometimes when they're in relationship with a person they evolve into being part of that person you love. You kind of change yourself into that other person. That person you're dating is like your other half.
Seek to him/her who you're dating for support, thats all you need, and thats all that matters, and all you have to do is be yourself. You have to learn to accept youself that way, and if you can accept yourself, trust me people will except you in the long run. Its all about self-acceptance to yourself, not accepetance with everyone else.
ok, well i'm REALLY bad at showing my personality at first,i'm mostly shy until you gett to know me. soo, my semi-friend is asking me to hangout with her on saturday(sleepover) but idon't know,because i'm scared its not going to be fun and i'll bore her! i'm not good with just hanging out with one other person, how do i get out of my shell? should i go? any tips on this?
ps-i've known her for awhile only from school. i don't know if i should go for it? thanks!
You should go, this can help break barriers.
A friend invites you, you should come because
if you don't she might think you don't like her
and will not invite you to another outing again.
++ Your thinking negative things already, like
"it's not going to be fun" think postitive.
You maybe nervous to go but don't be, if all the girls are nice I'm sure you'll be fine. It may take you awhile to adjust but it will all come natural. If they're telling stories you should tell your stories too, like something embarrassing that happened to you, don't be scared to tell it, they may laugh but they're laughing with you not at you. People will get to know you better, and think you're a cool person to hang out with.
People love a person who has an outgoing personality, or a really good sense of humor.
Use it. You can also come out of your shell by creating your own fun. If your more comfortable at your house, call some friends and invite them over to your house or something. You can be a host too. People are attracted to people who have an outgoing personality and they attract people like bees are to honey. Hope this helps!
does any one know where i can get some cheap fake eyelashes that dont look really fake and plastic-y?
At wal-mart for about $2.00 and there is more fake eyelashes to that cost a little more like $5.00 that comes with an adhesive or so, go for the ones that say natural.
And when you put fake eyelashes, put a touch of mascara on them to make them look natural but be careful not to pull the eyelashes off!
If you had to choose between CosmoGirl and seventeen magazine...which one would you choose? and WHY?
I want to prescribe to 1 of them, but I really like them both. Help?? I need opinions!
if you have other favorites, please tell me! But if it HAD to be between those 2, which 1 would you choose and why? thank you very much!
sorry if this isnt exactly "advice", it's more of an opinion type question.
I have prescribed to both. In both of the magazines I had a paper that where you can get them both for $15 for a yr. But I got mine last
yr. for $12 since it was near christmas. I prescribed both because, I like them both and it would cost less to buy both of them from the newsstand. 17 has good dieting tips and exercises and also good fashion tips while cosmogirl has interesting stories and accurate horoscopes. So I have both magazines, so it wouldn't be so hard to choose, they're both great magazines to have.
okay im 16/f and i met this boy he's 22 on myspace and he lives in the same city where i live katy,tx and i met him and seemed really nice. but i mean he still is nice and i've gotten to know him over the week. and we started dating. but i feel like he doesn't really like me. because like on myspace he'll tell me im beautiful and on the phone he'll tell me that plus i love you. but the first time we met we were dating he just hugged me and kissed me. but he didn't say i love you and that im beautiful. and i sent him a message on myspace that if he really likes me that he needs to start showing it. he just read my message but didn't say anything. oh and i called him like 10 times today but he doesn't pick up. i've noticed that when i call sometimes he won't pick up. and we're suppose to meet at the park today around 3. and i don't want to break-up with him so what should i do? And also and whenever i talk to him he's like uh huh okie dokie or yeahh. i don't feel like i can talk to him or connect with him. what should i do?
Well it was just the first time yall met, and I'm sorry to say but don't you think its way too early to say I love in a relationship? Especially if yall just met face-to-face.And you may not want to hear what I have to say but I think he's kind of playing you off. Here or the signs.
1. You met him off myspace
2. He's already saying I love when yall haven't met face-t-face yet.
And you may think you're the only one but maybe he's not the only one he's sending these "sweet" messages to.
3. You call and he doesn't pick up. If this guy really likes you then he would drop whatever he's doing and pick-up, or he could be working.
4. You feel like you don't connect with him.
He's 22 and your 16. Age ain't nothing but a number I know, but look there is a gap. And if
he's leaving you out, and if he's not doing more than connecting with you or getting to know you he maybe just wanting to see what he can get out of you. If he really likes you, he would take
the time he has to get to know you.
4. How many times have yall really met? Have you met any of his family? Has he told you anything personal? Has he asked you personal questions
about you and not about sex? If he hasn't mentioned any of this to you then he's most deffinatley hiding something.
5. To me, he doesn't
sound like hes really interested in what you have
to say because you say he only uh-huh or yeah
one worded answers usually mean hes not interested. He may look to you, to only
get physical. If he makes silly excuses why he
didn't call then drop him.
Don't give him that power, give him the reality check and make him see what he's doing wrong. I know you don't want to break-up with him but you may have to. It sounds like to me he's not really worth your time. Stop talking to him
and delete him from your myspace. It will be a little hard but it will be better. You can find someone that you can connect with and date, but it will take sometime. Guys who're usually
on the computer are cheesy and have something to hide from you. How about meet someone who isn't on myspace or has an online profile. They'll be
much more interesting, and I guarentee have much more interest in you. And they won't have
anything to hide. Guys who're on the computer tell lies and have secrets. Be patient, and wait for someone whos worth your time. Go out with friends have fun, don't notice how you DON'T have a boyfriend, and soon a guy will come to you totally unexpected and you'll be happy that
he's given his all to be with you.
You're not giving yourself a reality check, maybe
because you don't want to see it for what it really is.You have to give yourself a reality check sweetheart and save yourself from heartache. Sorry so long, I just wanted to help you out, hope this helps!
What is the best mascara you've ever used?
Maybelline Intense XXL in waterproof black it works wonders and has a beautiful finish.
my boyfriend and i have been having sex for several months now. he does everything right, and lasts a long time, but i can not orgasm. he is the first person i have been with and i have never experienced an orgasm. the entire experience is pleasurable but i never climax. what could be wrong with me? we both try very hard. and eventually i just get really sore and tired so we have to stop. what could be the problem? any tips?
There's absolutely nothing wrong with you, you just have to discover what can really stimulate you. Are you comfortable? you may not be and you need another way to help. There is alot of girls who have trouble reaching an orgasm, so don't worry you're not the only one, not very many girls reach orgasms. Try these to help like masturbating, maybe this can help you climax?or clitoral stimulation with a sex toy or vibrator, gels can help stimulate. Tell your boyfriend what feels good and doesn't, maybe this will help. Hope this helps!
hey everybody. well my friend who I'll call Hannah who I met in fifth grade and I were super close. We had the same best friends. Then in sixth grade Hannah moved into her moms house in a different and deserted all of us completely. She made new friends which is normal but then she forgot about us except for one girl who I'll call Emma that I'm not even friends with. Now we're all going into eight grade and Hannah might be moving back. My friends are all going to forgive her with the exeption of my best friend Rachel but she'll probably forgive her pretty quick cause shes to nice to hold a grudge. I don't know what to do cause I'm still really hurt about her forgetting about us so is it totally wrong of me to not want to forgive her without at least an apoligy. I mean do you really think it would be normal for us to just go back to being best friends after all that has happened. I didn't find out from her that she might be moving back, I found out from another girl in her town! Any help would be great. Sorry it's so long ♥
You can forgive but can never forget. I don't think yall will just go back to being the best friends. Friends grow out of their groups and like to make new friends but I don't think she forgot about yall, she just likes that she has some other friends to hang out with. I think yall will be friends but just not hanging out as much, just maybe the occasional hey hows it going how are you doing type of thing. It'd be safe if you just keep it that way, like if yall run into each other in the halls just limit how yall talk to each other, like hey hows it going and go back to your group. It maybe hard to get used to, but it is common that friends sometime other friends to hang out with.
ok so theres this guy that my friend likes i have liked him before and this weekend we were hanging out alot because we all went on a trip it was for a tournament thing so this guy was flirting with me there and my friend was getting mad cuz she liked him but the truth is i do too...well he told me he liked me and now i dont know what to do because i dont want to her my friend but she also likes 3 other guys...please help
Look at it this way, you said she likes 3 other guys?, shes got other options of guys to choose from, it'd be diffrent if she only liked ONE guy but she likes THREE. Ask her who does she like the most out of all three? If she answers the guy you like then weigh out this , what is more important to you both, yalls friendship or a guy. Don't ever let a guy become a friendship.
She may be jealous that he likes you, but you can't help that and neither can he she can't stay mad you that'd be silly, it's just being selfish, also, has he ever liked her or mentioned that he liked her?. Ask him, if he hasn't then dont worry, so I say go for him.
Okay well there's this guy that I really like. And he really likes me too. But the only problem is I don't talk. Like we'll be on the phone.. and I can never think of anything to say. He always says the "how was your day" basic things so I can never say those. And then when I say weird off-the-wall things he's like "uhhh okay?" so there is nothing to talk about. WHAT CAN I DOOOO????
Awwe yall both shy. Maybe to help loosening up is to not talk on the phone. Some people feel awkward and don't like on the phone at all so instead have another way of communicating like AIM or YAHOO talk on the computer. Most people feel comfortable that way than talking on the phone. And when you do talk ask questions, that are NOT only one worded answers like yes and no. Doing this can help strengthen a conversation and leave out an awkward silent moment. Also, don't ask alot of questions this can make a person feel uncomfortable, what you want is to make them feel that you are a comfortable person to talk to. And the best best thing is to lighten up relax, yall have a sense of humor? Use it, don't be afraid to, it helps the tension between you two go away. Say something funny, or just imagine him naked lol that works for me. Then he'll ask what are you laughing about, tell him. Use questions that can tell a story, I'm sure he he'll have his own story. Like your most embarrasing moment, or something funny happened to you. Oh yeah, maybe yall should plan to go out to the movies together, see a comedy, then yall could talk about it in the end. Hope this helps.
Hi. I'm Female and 14 and my boyfriends 16 in october. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now, I know that isn't that long, but i have been thinking about having sex with him. He keeps talking to me about it and he said he doesn't want to rush me into anything i don't want to do and he will wait for me, but because he is going to be 16 soon and I am going to still be 14, he can get arrested for having sex with me. (I'm from England and the legal age for sex is 16, if anyone didn't know) He therefore said he doesn't want to have the risk of being arrested so we can either have it before october or wait until i'm 16, which is over a year. I'm stuck :( How do you know when your ready for sex? I think i am, but i aint sure... Can you be ready? I'm confused, How do you know? And can anyone help me out with my situation?
Well if you're not sure, you may not be ready to have sex. You'll know when you are ready. In my opinion, if you really were ready you wouldn't be asking yourself or any advicenators this question. Your young, and this relationship hasn't been long enough for you to make that decision, so your best bet is to wait, cause you don't know if this guy is really worth it to lose your virginity to. And trust this, sounds crucial, but true. Some girls who have lost their virginity at this age have regretted it, because they found out that this guy wasn't really who they thought he would be. But if he is willing to wait for you and isn't pressuring you he can be that mr.right. My opinion would be for you to wait and when it comes that time when you're 16 maybe it'll be spectaular for you , because if he's patient enough to wait for you, then maybe he's the one. :P
I dont know if this is normal or not..
but like it seems like one of the sides is longer and sticks out further than one side..
i dont know if thast normal.
it almost looks like its coming out from the middle.. but its not. its jsut weird.
Everybodys is diffrent, we girls all have the same body parts but all of our vulvas (thats what the whole thing is called it inc. your lips,vagina & clit) come in a variety, shapes, and sizes, don't sweat it.
ok well last start at the start new year friend holds party the girl i really like and every1 at the party knows i like her is there we kissed it was good but then the next day talking to friends i hear that my suposevly best friend had gone through with her after i had kissed her i was to angry as we were all pretty much drunk so it was annoying but it was ok but when i went to ask him about it he was like nothing happened untill he finally aplogies to me so i kind of forgiven him and we got back on with our lives. well after that me and the "girl" we like kiss like every party and that. so last week people were asking why i didnt ask her out so i had decide to do it tomorrow ( were going to the pictures together ) so we were at party on tuesday and like had alot to drink and we kissed again as per usual and my best friend was kissing her friend so it was all good untill i went away to shops to get midnight snack with a couple of friends and when we got back it had quiet down abit so we stayed for a couple of hours then left. well tlking to a friend who was at party and he was saying u hear about my best friend and the "girl" and i was like no he was well they supposely did it when we went to the shops. so know i no i dnt no what to do. ave decide not to ask her out and just try and totally forget about her but what about my friend do i confront him and find out his side or what please i need some advice thanks
When you go to parties and are drinking this can play a factor.Your supposed best friend is just looking for a hook-up, and he sees this girl as an easy target so he goes to her. He possibly sees no wrong in it because you and the girl are not dating. And do you know if this rumor is really true? Ask your best friend. Maybe, the info this guy told you could be wrong. See what your friend says, and if it is true, I'm sorry isn't the girl for you, she seems to be not looking into a relationship and you are. You need to find a girl who values your time with her and is looking for a relationship, not hooking up. Call me judgemental but it is true, girls who are like this are usually not the girlfriend types and they are just the kind of girls that guys only look to as a hook-up and nothing more. Last tip, if you decided forget about her like you said there is really no need to confront him,if you totally forgot her it would be silly to tell him off and you just have your best friend saying "what does it matter, you forgot about hr anyways?. She's not worth the argument. So the best thing, you forgive but you never forget. This guy is not really trust-worthy, make him a friend but not a best friend, hes the type of guy you hang out with but not sharing other things with. Hope I helped.
16/f
i've known my best guy friend since we were 12 and recently he asked me to give him a blowjob. we aren't dating but i really really like him and we are both single. when i think about doing it i want to but i'm scared. i've never done it before and i dont know if i should spit or swallow (even though i think guys prefer swallowing) and i'm scared i'll gag or throw up. we also never get privacy at our houses... but we've never needed it like this before. he said we can do it in his car but i still dont know. what should i do?
Well you seem pretty unsure of yourself, and if your unsure that usually means that you're not really ready for that type of thing, its seems like you are being pressured by him. Don't give in to pressure cause if you do that just makes you vunerable (easy) for anything. Yall are best friends too, are yall ready to take this to the next level, make sure that it is stable if you decide to do it cause once a best friendship turns into with benefits it could change the way how you look at each other forever. Friendships last but when you turn it with something sexual, your friendship changes. Make sure he isn't using you just so he could get that from you. It kinda sounds like hes asking you out of desperation. But anyway, if you decide to do it, use a condom, even though it may suck but better to be safe than sorry and do it somewhere where yall have privacy like at the movies at night, lol sit all the way in the back or in the bathroom. lol. Wherever yall feel comfortable. :)
Well, there's this girl that I REALLY like, but like I can't talk to her because I'm too nervous. I kinda broke up with my girlfriend for this girl. I think she knows I like her, because my ex-girlfriend was friends with the girl that I like. So now, I don't know if I can talk to her. Me and her hung out before at the mall, we had a blast, but I can't stand for a girl to say she doesn't like me when I like her. Advice for talking to her?
Thanks in advance.
Well if she likes you you don't have to worry about it, you'll only know if you ask,just ask it wouldn't hurt but she maybe kinda of thrown off cause she knew you were dating her friend ,most girls don't really like that kind of thing but if she likes you then so be it. Start off by saying hey, hows it going and then have your regular convo. Talk about things you normally would talk about then carefully bring up the question to her,ask her if she likes you ( I say talking before bringing it up cause it can startle her if you just go right to the question) Do you ever think we could be more than friends? And if she doesn't like you just be appreciative that she is your friend, its better than not having her as a friend at all, and that would really hurt. Best of luck to you :)
14/f
Lately I've been stressing over everything in my life and its getting to the point where I'm starting to get depressed more often and moody. I'm stressing over trying to get into a top highschool where only a few get chosen......stressing over this boy who has a girlfriend but I just can't seem to get him out of my head no matter I do he's all I think about....stressing over issues in my home I feel like I can't go to anyone for help because I feel like they get bothered with my problems. I don't know what to do how do I handle my issues normally without depression or mood swings or stress?
Don't be stressed you're still young, you can add years to life.
1. Focus on the postitive things, not the negative, don't dwell on all the things you do have to do all at once, you seem to be focusing on it all and it causes stress on you. Take a look at things step-by-step.
2. Don't focus on that boy who has a girlfriend, hes a waste of time, and a loser and hes obviously too dumb to see you as a great person.
Focusing on one person gets boring, your 14 and still learning you have the rest of your life to fall in love. Theres other boys out there who like you, you just haven't paid attention to it. Put yourself first, only you can really make the depression go away.
3. Open up your feelings or talk about it with a close friend or a family member, but don't over dwell in your problems so much thats what can drive people away from you because they don't wanna be dwelled in your own sadness, people like to be around happy people. You can be happy.
4. Stay active, it'll be hard to do but once you get yourself motivated you'll be happy. Try to keep the stress out by creating routines day by day, try something new and diffrent, take a walk in the evening that can refresh you and if you have it take a cd player, or ipod with you to listen to, listen to upbeat music that can get you moving this can help you get motivated. Call your friends up to go out to movies or the mall.
Surround yourself with happy outgoing people , and happiness and laughter is the best medicine.
:)
My discharge smells disgusting. I'm not sexually active and my mom thinks nothing is wrong with me so she won't take me to the doctor. What can I do?
Well if the discharge smells you shoould go to the doctor anyway to treat, you could have vaginitis. Its really important, but if you can't go to the doctor right away you can wash yourself with a non-deodorant soap to help, douching is a way but it can irritate it. Hope this helps.
How can I make rice taste more interesting?
I like to eat it with sugar on it, but I
know thats probably not very healthy!
You can warm up the rice and put salt and butter on it, it tastes really good, and you can put kikkoman's soy sauce in it, I do that every once and ahile, or fry your rice and put soy sauce in it so you have fried rice, or you can put cajun sauce in it thats good too. lol.
i need a cute way to word i love you and think your the most amazing person ever to my boyfriend as if i were going to write him a letter..kinda like in a paragraph or so..im not really good at these things but i just really have to tell him..this is strange i know but whatever. im just stuck and lost for words!..thanks!:)
How about a hundred ways to say I love you in 100 languages its not a paragraph but its creative way http://www.columbia.edu/~sss31/rainbow/i-love-you.html or heres a link to some poems that say I love you, http://www.poetryamerica.com/i-love-you-poems.asp oryou could buy a card with a song in it that says I love you. Hope this helps any. :)