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he's making me mad.
okay im 16/f and i met this boy he's 22 on myspace and he lives in the same city where i live katy,tx and i met him and seemed really nice. but i mean he still is nice and i've gotten to know him over the week. and we started dating. but i feel like he doesn't really like me. because like on myspace he'll tell me im beautiful and on the phone he'll tell me that plus i love you. but the first time we met we were dating he just hugged me and kissed me. but he didn't say i love you and that im beautiful. and i sent him a message on myspace that if he really likes me that he needs to start showing it. he just read my message but didn't say anything. oh and i called him like 10 times today but he doesn't pick up. i've noticed that when i call sometimes he won't pick up. and we're suppose to meet at the park today around 3. and i don't want to break-up with him so what should i do? And also and whenever i talk to him he's like uh huh okie dokie or yeahh. i don't feel like i can talk to him or connect with him. what should i do?
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You arent together yet. You're probably suffocating him. You met him once, you cant expect him to actually say "I love you" with any real conviction. Its alot easier to say that stuff over a myspace message thats not even neccesarily in real time.
Hes not going to act the same in person as online. He has to get used to you. Callin him 10 times a day and him not answering is a sign.
You should probably move on.
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i did the samething you did Im 19 and the person i was talking to from myspace was 24 he told me the exact same lines he told you then he started acting all crazy
Don't fall for it he is nothing but talk to get some pay attention to those signs cause it means he's really not interested in you the way he should forget about him stop calling him don't try to meant anyone on the internet because they can be a pervert or something try to meet someone by going to the mall or hang out some place where everybody hang out at
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You need to talk to him, tell him how you feel. See what he says and whether or not he takes your thoughts on board. If he doesn't you need to hink long and hard about whether or not he is worth your time.
The key thing in any relationship is communication, you must talk to him, if he doesn't answer your phone calls speak to him face to face.
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Well it was just the first time yall met, and I'm sorry to say but don't you think its way too early to say I love in a relationship? Especially if yall just met face-to-face.And you may not want to hear what I have to say but I think he's kind of playing you off. Here or the signs.
1. You met him off myspace
2. He's already saying I love when yall haven't met face-t-face yet.
And you may think you're the only one but maybe he's not the only one he's sending these "sweet" messages to.
3. You call and he doesn't pick up. If this guy really likes you then he would drop whatever he's doing and pick-up, or he could be working.
4. You feel like you don't connect with him.
He's 22 and your 16. Age ain't nothing but a number I know, but look there is a gap. And if
he's leaving you out, and if he's not doing more than connecting with you or getting to know you he maybe just wanting to see what he can get out of you. If he really likes you, he would take
the time he has to get to know you.
4. How many times have yall really met? Have you met any of his family? Has he told you anything personal? Has he asked you personal questions
about you and not about sex? If he hasn't mentioned any of this to you then he's most deffinatley hiding something.
5. To me, he doesn't
sound like hes really interested in what you have
to say because you say he only uh-huh or yeah
one worded answers usually mean hes not interested. He may look to you, to only
get physical. If he makes silly excuses why he
didn't call then drop him.
Don't give him that power, give him the reality check and make him see what he's doing wrong. I know you don't want to break-up with him but you may have to. It sounds like to me he's not really worth your time. Stop talking to him
and delete him from your myspace. It will be a little hard but it will be better. You can find someone that you can connect with and date, but it will take sometime. Guys who're usually
on the computer are cheesy and have something to hide from you. How about meet someone who isn't on myspace or has an online profile. They'll be
much more interesting, and I guarentee have much more interest in you. And they won't have
anything to hide. Guys who're on the computer tell lies and have secrets. Be patient, and wait for someone whos worth your time. Go out with friends have fun, don't notice how you DON'T have a boyfriend, and soon a guy will come to you totally unexpected and you'll be happy that
he's given his all to be with you.
You're not giving yourself a reality check, maybe
because you don't want to see it for what it really is.You have to give yourself a reality check sweetheart and save yourself from heartache. Sorry so long, I just wanted to help you out, hope this helps!
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try giving him a taste of his own medicine, next time you see him on myspace, or online, dnt say anything..see if he starts a conversation..just stay calm, dont ring or text for a few days and see how it goes, you dont want to seem to desperate or needy do you? and if he is really interested in you then he will text to see whats wrong....I HOPE. but take care and dont worry too much, there are other guys, your only 16 now and you will find more guys.
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