Hello,
my name is Tameka and im 19 years of age 2006 graduate from Southeastern High School of Technology Automotive Engineer and Design
i love to give advice and if there's anything that i can help anyone with i will try my hardest and to the best of my ability
GOD BLESS
E-mail: ladytremendous@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Age: 19
Member Since: July 22, 2007
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what are other ways to get pleassure and give pleassure with out him sticking it in ?
- Bre 14/f (link)
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try intimacy go out watch a movie and hold each other show each other that your relationship is more than just sex
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hi,how do i say to my girlfriend 2 dress nice so she can meet my parents with out been rude?..im 17 by the way (link)
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just say as if it was just a thought that came to your head say:
hey my parents wants to meet you so dress real good so they can be impressed
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So me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year. We hardly ever fight, and love each other. He's the best boyfriend I could ever ask for, and he's completely devoted to me. Only problem is ... I don't know if I'm as in love with him as he is with me. Some days I feel like I am, other days I feel like I'm not.
Every time he gets drunk, he proposes to me. I'm 18, and I'm not ready for marriage. So I tell him that, and he gets really offended (probably because he's drunk). He always tells me that I'm the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with, but I don't know if I feel the same way about him.
Should I tell him this? Should I wait for a while and see how I feel about him when I'm more mature? I want to love him as much as he loves me so bad, but I can't seem to! (link)
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I think you should try that because
if he loves like you say he does then you should be with someone who is devoted to you maybe you do need sometime to really get to that stage where he's at
if you lose someone who thinks the world you then you will have so many regrets and it is really hard to find a man to love you like that
so try stick it out
and ask yourself if you actually see a future with him and if so then maybe he's the right one for you
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i want my finger nails to grow longer. is there anything i can do?? oh and can i make it go faster? (link)
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to make me nails grow
it sounds wierd but
when i wash dishes
i put bleach in my dish water
and that help my nails grow
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I'm imature. Let's say that first. Second, I laugh whenever I hear the words, balls or get in there and stuff liek that. I mean I kinda know what sex is, but not exactly. I'm NOT asking for you to tell me. I don't want to know its gross. The problem, my friends know what it means and they think it's cool. It's gross. My friend writes poems about sex. i want to know what to do! I hate it when they talk seriously about this stuff. What can I do?! HELP ASAP!!!!!!! (link)
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let them know that you don't want to hear that kind of talk around you because your not ready for that yet
but only say it when they come to you and want to talk about it
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I know this sounds corny and pathetic.
I'm 16/F. I've known this guy since 7th grade, I'm going into 11th this year. We've always had this vibe between us, he would constantly flirt tease me, and he just gives me the signs that he likes me. But he never asked me out, I'm starting a job soon and he works there too, and I'm hoping, how do I show him I still like him, or that I like him, because I can be cold sometimes, because i'm weird liek that. What specific things really show a guy you care & like them?
The really corny part is, he makes me so nervous, and I dont get nervous around guys, he makes me stomache all blahfladjfd, and he is the only guy I've liked, and the reason I've liked him so long, is because he's showing me hope that something could happen. If I was positive nothing would happen, then I would stop liking him.
And also, last year we had like no classes together, but we sat by each other in seminar, and thats when we kinda talked, and flirted.
I dont know, I sound so pathetic. But I need advice.. (link)
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i bet his feeling the same way you are now he's just as scared as you are
but if you want to be with him and it is hard for you to say you like him
just come out and say it real fast first you have to take a deep breath then say what you need to say
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Arghh! So pissed off.
I want caramel highlights in my hair and my DAD !
won't let me and i really want them i have tried everything i told him everyone in my school dyes there hair and he goes well thats them what can i say or do ='[
Thanks much. (link)
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you should listen to your father because he wanna make sure you make the right decisions and life and all he doing is his job and that making sure you don't turn out the wrong way
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Was it bad for me to ask my boyfriend to get condoms? So that he could try them on. He said he knows how to do it but he never tried.. So I made him buy some to practice putting on so he doesn't rip it or anything.
It seems a little weird.
Can the condom tear when you put it on? (link)
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yes it can rip and it can rip during intercourse
so you must be carful of the ones he get must be the ones that's his size
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What's something that i could do for a guy who is a nerdy, star wars loving cutie, that plays hard to get? I need to do sumthing so irresistible for him (link)
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first you can try to get to know them and have him to hang out with you as a friend and teach him some new activities
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Ever since the beginning of the school year, I've have the biggest crush on my friend's baseball coach. This guy is the sexiest man alive. He exceeds them all I'm not even kidding.
Anyways, at first I thought this was just a based on looks crush on older teacher type thing. And it was but now I'm not so sure.
My friend had wrecked his car so he needed rides home from practice everyday and when I'd go to pick him up, I’d talk to his coach. We'd talk for like 45 min while the guys were showering and getting clean and stuff. He is sooooo amazing. I really think I have actual feelings for him now.
And I know how ridiculous this sounds because I'm 17 and he's 31. He's single so that just makes it worse because at least if he were married or in a relationship I could get over it quicker.
What should I do? I've tired just trying to stop talking to him but it doesn't work. Then I just think about him all the time.
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don't do it because of the age
you might like him but
you don't know what kind of person he is
he could be someone who take advantage of little young females and treat them bad don't get involved with someone who 14 years older than you
it could lead to something dangerous
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ok usually i always like somebody that never likes me back or they do but i dont find out until i stop liking them so ive pretty much had a bad love life and i thought it was crazy that any girl could get butterflies just thinking about somebody until it happened.... i really like him and i dream about him a lot and they're sexual dreams and i dont know what to do about it cus i heard some stuff about him like he gives head to hoes and he gets into too much shit w/ older dudes so i was like im not into that stuff but i keep on having dreams and i be real happy when i see him and i think he got a little tenderoni on the side and he dont wanna let me kno about it but we not really talkin but i wanna but i dont know if he feels the same way too cus he might have mixed feelings for me and i dont kno if i should tell him and look stupid or keep it to myself and just not let him kno and let it follow me for the rest of my life cus i neva got butterflies before... is that love? (link)
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you are probably in love but it seems like you have doubts and that is sayin you are not sure if your in love or not if he does things that you don't like and you know he probably won't change so you need to make sure
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To all people who babysit, how much do you usually charge per hour and do you charge like a dollar more per each extra child? (link)
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say if you only had one child it should be 5 dollars an hr. and you should double the money depending on how many childern there is that's one way
another way is depending on hours you are with kids and how kids there actually is
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My names Megan and I'm 16. 2 summers ago I lived in Maryland and me and this guy Matt really liked eachother. We were both kind of shy and never hooked up or went out or anything, but we talked online and told each other we liked each other. The summer after that, I moved and I forgot all about him for the most part. Now, 2 summers later, I CANT GET HIM OFF MY MIND. And the thing is, he left for a church mission and he won't be back for 2 years. I talked to him right before he left and it brought back old feelings I had for him. I can't call him because he doesnt have a phone and I just don't know what to do. I'm not sure if he still has feelings or not. How can I get him off my mind until I can see him in 2 years? (link)
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megan i think you shouldn't wait for him come back because your just wasting time wait for him
but it's okay you have feeling for him you need to find out online if he feels the same about you and if there's no way you can get in contact with him you need to move on with your life
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i'm a pretty outgoing girl around people i feel comfortable with, but when im at parties i have a hard time just going up to people n talkin to them.. because im not the "popular one" but im in the middle n the people at the parties i go to are the "popular ones".... how can i be more confident with myself to talk to them? please help i really just wanna have fun at parties n talk to everyone.. n be liked by everyone.. and im hopin it will help me find a guy (link)
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the next time you go to a party try to go a little late then when you get there just stand next to someone and ask them so how has the party been going so far my name is ________
but you shouldn't care what people think of you especially if you don't know them
and if you find a girl you like start a conversation say anything that might be interesting like the party or something that everybody watch on tv a popular television show believe me it's a good way to start a conversationg with someone
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I'm trying to get closer to my friends because they are not making effort.. because we go to different high schools.
But I'm seriously out of ideas what to do. I usually never hung out with my friends out of school until a few years ago. So I'm somewhat clueless on what to do.
I know there's a park, movies, the mall.. but what else is there to do or go? (link)
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if you and your friends can't hang out as often then maybe talking on the phone can help it and maybe in the conversation over the phone ask them what they are doing on the weekend or something and ask them to hang out with you
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ok,they say the best advisors before going on a date are girls so i was wondering what to do on this particular date.First off,I need some tips on my appearance.I'm not saying i should transform or anything,but do you girls have any tips on how to give a better image.anyway,i'm 17,hawaiian/asian and here's the link
http://www.friendster.com/user.php?statpos=bc&uid=47042234
the pic with my black hair is the latest,so yeah...i'm free to any suggestions,either cutting my hair or other stuff.
p.s:I know every liking is individual so i'm not asking for a perfect image,just makeover tips for this date.thanks (link)
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just look very handsome wear a nice black tuxedo
and make sure on your date you bring flowers or something its a very good impression and be a gentlemen all day
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ok so theres this guy that my friend likes i have liked him before and this weekend we were hanging out alot because we all went on a trip it was for a tournament thing so this guy was flirting with me there and my friend was getting mad cuz she liked him but the truth is i do too...well he told me he liked me and now i dont know what to do because i dont want to her my friend but she also likes 3 other guys...please help (link)
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i think you should go with him neither one of you go with him so give it a try your friend might be mad but if she's a true friend she should be happy for you and she needs to try to go with one of those 3 guys she like
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My boyfriend, of 2 years, just recently broke up with me, well like 6 months ago. He never really allowed me to let go, so I never really did. But finally we started drifting apart, and then he messages me & tells me that he wants me back.
I had met a boy, and we had been "talking" & I thought I liked him, until my ex tells me that, then everything this boy did, completely annoyed me. Well, my ex found out that I was talking to someone else, so he stopped talking to me, for about a week or so & me & this other boy grew closer, so we started dating. Well my ex comes back & I cheat on my new boyfriend, I told my boyfriend & he didn't get really mad, which bothered me. He let me get away with it, because he said he didn't want to lose me.
Now my ex rarely talks to me, because my boyfriend threatened him. & I want my ex back so bad. But I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. We've almost been together a month & he's super attached & so is his family. But I've been having to make up excuses to just not see him because he KILLS me. I just want my ex back, but I don't know what to do.
I can't break up with my boyfriend, because he's too attached & I've tried before & it just doesn't work.
I know this is long & confusing, but I really need help. (link)
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you really need to let your boyfriend know you still have feelings for your ex no matter if you break his heart or not
but if you continue to cheat on him all it's going to do is hurt him even worst
after you break up with him and he don't want to let you go tell him he need to move on and tell him he deserve someone better
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Okay.. My aunt who is in her 50's lost her son last summer.. he hase a little girl about five years old.. and live next door to my aunt. anyway she still have thoes days where she hase doubts and want her son back. he die age 36 and luckima i can't spell it. and thing is that she so sad sometimes i wish that there something i tell her help her and she can have good days and enjoy it to.. plus abou little girl she very smart. she only 3 year old she lost her daddy. she remebers him and everything.. she stay with my aunt 3 days week becouse her mom goes night classses. she seem doing okay. she already know him for 5 years since they had little girl. anyway I love and enjoy talking to my aunt. we very close. thing is my qustion is there a site or a saying that help little.. plus i was wondering maybe little girl maybe harder for her to bcouse she look just like her daddy sometimes my aunt get her up in the moring and sining to her and calling her my little the son name and stuff. but i don't know what or to say. i mean sometimes she says thing to me and stuff i feel bad and drag down. i mean she like me being happy and stuff but i don't understand why she keep doing that to me. around me she knows that drag me down i know that i care so much tha i will listen but thing is i want my aunt back, and want her treat me like she always treat me and sometimes i feel like she treat little girl better she dose to me and her other grandchild who her other son little girl. i know it going to be hard.. (link)
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you need to tell your aunt exact what you feel and how it's effecting you
sometimes it's okay for her to feel the way she is and all you can do is comfort her and let her know she has you in her life
you can also try telling her something funny that happened to you try becoming a friend to your aunt as well i might help her more
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okay im 16/f and i met this boy he's 22 on myspace and he lives in the same city where i live katy,tx and i met him and seemed really nice. but i mean he still is nice and i've gotten to know him over the week. and we started dating. but i feel like he doesn't really like me. because like on myspace he'll tell me im beautiful and on the phone he'll tell me that plus i love you. but the first time we met we were dating he just hugged me and kissed me. but he didn't say i love you and that im beautiful. and i sent him a message on myspace that if he really likes me that he needs to start showing it. he just read my message but didn't say anything. oh and i called him like 10 times today but he doesn't pick up. i've noticed that when i call sometimes he won't pick up. and we're suppose to meet at the park today around 3. and i don't want to break-up with him so what should i do? And also and whenever i talk to him he's like uh huh okie dokie or yeahh. i don't feel like i can talk to him or connect with him. what should i do?
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i did the samething you did Im 19 and the person i was talking to from myspace was 24 he told me the exact same lines he told you then he started acting all crazy
Don't fall for it he is nothing but talk to get some pay attention to those signs cause it means he's really not interested in you the way he should forget about him stop calling him don't try to meant anyone on the internet because they can be a pervert or something try to meet someone by going to the mall or hang out some place where everybody hang out at
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