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It's all just too much.
My boyfriend, of 2 years, just recently broke up with me, well like 6 months ago. He never really allowed me to let go, so I never really did. But finally we started drifting apart, and then he messages me & tells me that he wants me back.
I had met a boy, and we had been "talking" & I thought I liked him, until my ex tells me that, then everything this boy did, completely annoyed me. Well, my ex found out that I was talking to someone else, so he stopped talking to me, for about a week or so & me & this other boy grew closer, so we started dating. Well my ex comes back & I cheat on my new boyfriend, I told my boyfriend & he didn't get really mad, which bothered me. He let me get away with it, because he said he didn't want to lose me.
Now my ex rarely talks to me, because my boyfriend threatened him. & I want my ex back so bad. But I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. We've almost been together a month & he's super attached & so is his family. But I've been having to make up excuses to just not see him because he KILLS me. I just want my ex back, but I don't know what to do.
I can't break up with my boyfriend, because he's too attached & I've tried before & it just doesn't work.
I know this is long & confusing, but I really need help.
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you really need to let your boyfriend know you still have feelings for your ex no matter if you break his heart or not
but if you continue to cheat on him all it's going to do is hurt him even worst
after you break up with him and he don't want to let you go tell him he need to move on and tell him he deserve someone better
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personally i think your ex sounds like a big tease. from what you said its like he wants you only because you have someone else. (jealousy?) your boyfriend now sounds like he really needs you and wants you and hasnt mistreated you at all (from what i know)i think you should give your ex a break and see how it goes with your boyfriend. i understnad where you are coming from ive been in a situation like before, so im no juding you or anything just form past experiences i think it would be best ot be with your boyfriend, he might have seem annoying because now you can pick out all his flaws and compare him with you ex. like i said beore i think you should cut things of ith your ex and"patch" things up with your Boyfriend
hope i helped :)
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dont beat up yourself about this
if you really want your ex. back then tell your new bf that its just not working and you want to break up but still remain friends. and if he threatens you call the police or tell your parent. hope i helped
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Your boyfriend sounds to me like the better guy. I think he will be more worth while to stick with. Suck it up girl, and when his grandfather dies, you need to really be there for him, especially if him and his grandfather were close. It will be a hard time for him, and he will need you. Don't be the stupid one and lose a great guy. Trust me, I have let to many perfect guys get away for someone I thought could be better. Sometimes I don't feel close with my boyfriend, but I know how much he cares for me, and it's hard to find someone else like that. Also, if he needed me, no matter how bad I felt, I would be there for him.
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