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I wish I know what to say and help My aunt
Okay.. My aunt who is in her 50's lost her son last summer.. he hase a little girl about five years old.. and live next door to my aunt. anyway she still have thoes days where she hase doubts and want her son back. he die age 36 and luckima i can't spell it. and thing is that she so sad sometimes i wish that there something i tell her help her and she can have good days and enjoy it to.. plus abou little girl she very smart. she only 3 year old she lost her daddy. she remebers him and everything.. she stay with my aunt 3 days week becouse her mom goes night classses. she seem doing okay. she already know him for 5 years since they had little girl. anyway I love and enjoy talking to my aunt. we very close. thing is my qustion is there a site or a saying that help little.. plus i was wondering maybe little girl maybe harder for her to bcouse she look just like her daddy sometimes my aunt get her up in the moring and sining to her and calling her my little the son name and stuff. but i don't know what or to say. i mean sometimes she says thing to me and stuff i feel bad and drag down. i mean she like me being happy and stuff but i don't understand why she keep doing that to me. around me she knows that drag me down i know that i care so much tha i will listen but thing is i want my aunt back, and want her treat me like she always treat me and sometimes i feel like she treat little girl better she dose to me and her other grandchild who her other son little girl. i know it going to be hard..
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you need to tell your aunt exact what you feel and how it's effecting you
sometimes it's okay for her to feel the way she is and all you can do is comfort her and let her know she has you in her life
you can also try telling her something funny that happened to you try becoming a friend to your aunt as well i might help her more
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You Aunt is in a lot of pain and will never get over losing her son. You are obviously close to her. Try to find a support group for parents who lost their loved ones to cancer (there are tons and they know exactly how they feel). Tell her you love her enough to be concerned about her. Offer to go with her the first time. You might be surprised how your offer can reach her. Then, consider doing Relay for Life next time and raising money in honor of your late uncle. Your aunt would be honored and touched and it would be something positive you could share that would bring you together. FYI - I lost an uncle, a grandfather, and, recently, a grandma to cancer. I've been there.
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