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i wanna be outgoing
i'm a pretty outgoing girl around people i feel comfortable with, but when im at parties i have a hard time just going up to people n talkin to them.. because im not the "popular one" but im in the middle n the people at the parties i go to are the "popular ones".... how can i be more confident with myself to talk to them? please help i really just wanna have fun at parties n talk to everyone.. n be liked by everyone.. and im hopin it will help me find a guy
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the next time you go to a party try to go a little late then when you get there just stand next to someone and ask them so how has the party been going so far my name is ________
but you shouldn't care what people think of you especially if you don't know them
and if you find a girl you like start a conversation say anything that might be interesting like the party or something that everybody watch on tv a popular television show believe me it's a good way to start a conversationg with someone
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everyones outgoing towards people they know, but thats not outgoing, that's reserved.
outgoing is having the ability, not to mention, confidence to go up to someone just to say hey.
it's really easy to hop into someone's conversation, example (your C):
A: do you like potatoes
B: why yes i do like potatoes
C: sorry to barge in, but have you ever had CHEESEY POTATOES!?!?
i know that's not the example you were looking for, but switch up the convo, keep the people you're meeting on their toes.
any guy likes an outgoing girl.
you only think you're in the middle, until you start "becoming" popular in your mind, this will give you an opportunity to get the confidence to walk up to people.
also, dont be afraid to compliment someone on their shoes, or shirt, and ask them where they got it, that little kind of stuff are great conversation starters, and will leave them thinking "what a nice girl"
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I would just go up to them, and say hey,
how are you? Then - compliment them. If
you do, they'll know that they you're nice
& you'll get more respect from them.
Then start a conversation about maybe the
latest gossip! It'll keep you and whoever
talking for a while and you can share your ideas
with them. Just keep smiling, greeting, & com-
plimenting and you'll have a lot of friends
AND MAYBE A GUY (;
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