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hey there, i'm missy!the names missy, i'm 16 years old growing up in chicago. i hate when people judge me, so dont. if you steal my picture, i'll fucking hunt you down (; anyways; i'm really great at giving advice. probably because i've been through a lot of shit in my life. from the time i could remember until one year ago, my parents were both huge alchoholics. i basically taught myself everything. dont write sympathy notes to my inbox either, because i hate that. i'm always really nice to everyone and i dont judge people the first time i see them. i find that wrong to the furthest point! every person has their own story, so i choose to listen (: my boyfriend of two years is darren. darren is my life. honestly, he completes me in so many ways. he's the only person that makes me completely happy. i truly love him. so ask me as many questions as you need, i'm not a fake bitch and i dont give you phony answers. have a nice day (:
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I am a freshman in highschool this year, and there is the boy (he's a senior) who is obsessed with me! He just moved her from another state, and he sits by me in health. I was flattered at first by all his cheesy lines and sweet compliments, but after mentioning several times that I have a boyfriend and turning down his date offers he won't give up. He even got a copy of my schedual and waits outside all of my classes. I believe he has some slight mental issues, but nothing I know of for sure.
I really don't look forward to health because it gets awkward trying to deal with him. I've attempted over and over again to let him know I have a serious boyfriend and I'm not interested but I'm not sure what else to say =\
Help! I want to be nice.
Sounds very awkward and weird. If I were you, I would definately tell him to give you space and to leave you the hell alone. I'm serious! You need to show him that you are serious about him backing off of you. What he's doing is weird. It would be different if lets say you were flirting back! But you're not, so this guy is a creep. If he wont stop bothering you, tell the teachers to change your schedule.
17/f I love this boy with all of my heart but i hate it when he goes out in public without me. Its so hard to trust him. We have been together for almost a year now and it has been absolutely amazing. He was my first. I lost my virginity to him. But im scared of getting hurt. I always cry when he goes out with his friends or in public without me being with him. I get scared. I mean he has cheated before. I just dont want to get hurt or lose him and i dont know how to let go of my fear. Help?
I understand how you feel, sweetie. But you have to come to a realization that guys will do terrible, heart breaking things to their girlfriends because that's just how men/boys are. You can't let this one guy, who I totally believe you may love, control your life like this. You have to become somebody who knows that their boyfriend is trustworthy. If you they are not, then you need to end it the relationship. I dont know exactly how long it has been since he cheated, but if you have that much suspision and you care that deeply about you getting cheated on again, then just end the relationship. You are still 17, in highschool! You can't count on guys for doing the right thing everytime, because they wont! So remind yourself that guys are going to do bad things, and you can't do anything about it. If you feel like he's cheating, or he's going to - break it off. There are other fish in the sea, even if he seems like the one.
i like junk food too much to lose weight for long =[ i always eat way too much in a day. but i want to lose weight so bad. especially from my face. TIPS PLEASE.
I know this answer isn't quite what you were
hoping you would hear, but it is the best way to
help you and if you want to lose the weight bad
enough, you'll start eating right!
If you are that focused on losing the weight,
for example - off your face, then you need to
start setting goals for yourself. Get an unused
notebook & start writing everyday-goals for your
eating habits. For example -
Breakfast; Bagel, without cream cheese.
Lunch; Subway Sandwich
Dinner; Stirfry.
Try not to eat snacks in between. Also try to
see if you can follow your goals without slipping
up in a day. This is going to be hard, but I have
heard from a lot of Celebrities that they write
down how great they feel after excersizing or
eating well, that way if they aren't in the mood to do anny of those, they can read their note(s)
they left and they will get enough power to just
do whatever they are doing to lose weight.
Good Luck to you.
how can you make a guy your friends with benefits with,
see you as more than that,
getting him to like you?
tthanksatonn!
I personally think the friends with benefits thing is pretty pointless because you guys both must not actually love eachother and its only for teh sex. But I cant change your mind about it so to get him to like you - dont be as easy
as you might be right now. Tease him a bit and just hang out with him like with other people. Be yourself, make jokes, and just flirt a lot.
Miiiiiiiiiiisss (=
i'm so confused.
this one like, guy, timothy wants to titty f*** me.
so i'm like, ya sure.
but i'm totally not so sure how to start it and stuff.
he said he should be on top for that one or else it'll be too difficult.
so what exactly IS it and what do i have to do... expecially to make it pleasurable for him?
thank you!
Titty fucking is when a guy gets on top of you,
and puts his penis between your boobs/in your
cleavage & slides his penis up and down. There
is pleasure for both the guy & the girl, so to
make him feel pleasure, show him that you are
enjoying it. Now that you know the meaning, make
sure this is something you really want & that
you are maturely ready(: Hope I helped.
Miiiissssss =)
15/F
OK, so I just got my period today and I have a yeast infection. ((!!!!)) My mom said that if I don't have itching inside my vigina I shouldn't put the cream in it. So I'm not.
What stinks is I'm going to the Lake of the Ozarks with a friend and her family and mine.
So my question is...can I use a tampon?? since I just started???
And will it hurt?
thanks so much!!
Yes, you can use a tampon. But make sure you
have talked to your mom about how long to keep
it in there, the directions, and what kind to buy.
The only chance of a tampon hurting if its not
all the way in, or if while you are putting it in, you are placing it somewhere else. So just
read all the directions and you wont feel a thing!
hi,what do you do to make a good kiss..any tips?? thanks
Kissing all depends on how you deal with it.
You have to be mature, ready, and calm at any
point. Unless you're all three, then you wont
be able to relax and feel that good kiss that
your capapable of making (: So just take it slow
and kiss the person. You'll be fine and
both you and your bf/gf will be happy!
im redecorating my room this weekend and im so happy! i have no idea what to do though!!
i kind of want like a vintage theme but still chic. not even a "theme" but just make my colors based around that. any ideas of what color i should paint my walls and dresser and what color bedspread i should have... taht kind of stuff! also some good decorating ideas like magazine colodges... thanks so much.
A sort-of popular color to make your
room look "chic" is just tomatoe red.
It matches surprisingly a lot & it's
very cute. Colors could include blue,
black, white, yellow, or orange !
Go to kohls/target/JCpenny/Sears/Carsons
to find bedspreads. I would just get
either wooden dressers/cabinets or just
plain white =) For decorating, make a
friend/family/celebrity album... on your
wall. Put up lots of pictures from
cameras, older albums, & magazines...
Also, you can put up signs from stores,
or write your own quotes on construction
paper. If you need new furniture, go to
IKEA. They have everything (:
GOOD LUCK !
i want to delete that stupid "my photos" album on my myspace pictures. i tried deleting all pictures from it, but it still shows up. any help?
Unfortunately, you cant delete the
" my photos " album, its just an album
that will always be there. Not really
a big deal, just dont add photos there(;
I need new friends. School is coming in 26 days and I need to know how to make friends. What's a way to approach that?
Well, start out by apoligizing to any
old friends you had so theres no drama
going on in your life anymore.
If there is drama, that will only make
more people dislike you. ( FOR REASONS UNKNOWN )
To make friends, definately try out for
sports, clubs, activities, and go to a
lot of summer parties to meet new people.
Start conversations with people & just
be yourself. If you do act yourself, ppl
will notice the positive side in you &
you will have a lot of friends.
Good luck (:
He walked into the band room yesterday for our freshman band thing and i thought Holy Shi* he go hot over the summer. He used to be pudgey and short now hes like tall and toned. OMG he is really hot and i actually get butterflies around him. I know i like him and he likes me as a friend.
Is there a way that dosen't involve asking him straight out if he likes me? and if he does and we go out then we break up will it change our friend ship?
I was in your position last year &
we are still going out to this day.
A good way to find out if he likes
you is see if he flirts with you &/or
ask his best guy friend if he does
so he can tell you. If you guys
did break up, it might change your
friendship, but if you did breakup
just make sure you guys both get over
the reason why you did breakup that
way it can go back to how it was
before the whole dating process.
Good luck. (:
my best friends boyfriend likes me. hes also best friend with my boyfriend. he flirst with me all the time and i do back but im really uncomforable with it. bc im scared my boyfriend will find out. he said i dont have to talk to him or flirt if i dont want to and he wont either. but i dont want to sometimes. i feel kind of uncomfortable flirting like i do with my boyfriend like i do with other guy. because we talk about sex and stuff. i would talk about with my boyfriend but i dont think that hes like that. what should i do with this other guy? and how would i try to talk about with my boyfriend?
Well, if your willing to lose your best friend
& boyfriend over this cheating loser,
then the choice would be to go out with him.
But I dont think you'd want that,
so i would tell your boyfriend that
he's flirting & that its making
you really uncomfortable. Your bf,
will tell him to lay off of his gf=)
And for your best friend, if shes a true
friend, she'll hopefully have enough
brains to tell him its over because in
a way, he is cheating =)
And for your relationship w/ that guy,
I would say to ignore him & resist the
feelings you might have for him.
If you end up hooking up w/ him er sumthin,
only bad things will come =/
hope i helped.
ok?
so im friends with these kids right. and yeah.um.
they have like all these different bonfires and im NEVER invieted and i feel like shit because im not invited and its not like they dont know that im mad. i mean my away messages are always nasty when they have a party or whatever. so yeah i dont know how to like fix this problem and its bugging the hell out of me. okay thanks for the help bye.
15/f
Either get the guts to tell them face
to face, or find new friends that will
include you because these friends arent
"friends." And since i dont know how
(in the past) how nice and trustworthy
these friends were, I would just have to
say tell them flat out because what they
are doing is pretty mean & if i were
you, i as well wouldnt like that.
And if they still are treating you like
this, get together with another group=)
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This site is for getting advice.
Not for asking simple google questions.
Use the site for the right ways.
thanks. ♥
my and my boyfriend make out all the time.
how would i make a move to do more? 14/f
While you were making out, move your
hands down towards his *private*.
Dont exactly do it in a teasing way,
like, have a serious look on your face.
Or take his hands and move them like on
your lap.
If he still just thinks its *playing*
then just tell him on AIM er sumthing.
Tell him, you want to move forward =)
Most guys wont disagree =)
My names Megan and I'm 16. 2 summers ago I lived in Maryland and me and this guy Matt really liked eachother. We were both kind of shy and never hooked up or went out or anything, but we talked online and told each other we liked each other. The summer after that, I moved and I forgot all about him for the most part. Now, 2 summers later, I CANT GET HIM OFF MY MIND. And the thing is, he left for a church mission and he won't be back for 2 years. I talked to him right before he left and it brought back old feelings I had for him. I can't call him because he doesnt have a phone and I just don't know what to do. I'm not sure if he still has feelings or not. How can I get him off my mind until I can see him in 2 years?
I can only hekp my saying, find a boyfriend
that you feel a lot of feelings for.
Go to some parties, and find a nice guy =)
Once you have another boyfriend, those feelings
are gonna be forced to be forgotten.
And that will make you happier because you
cant stay hooked on a guy for two years.
Thats just a waste of time(;
I hope everything goes well.
K so i dated this guy for like a month untill yesterday, hes realllly hot & cool to hang with... & tues. night we went out to a really nice dinner with the people he works with. We wore dresses, suits, ect. & after his co workers went to a cabin on a lake 2 hours away.. I didnt go kas i need to get home kas i live an hour away. anyway... i told him to be good & all & it seemed like we were ok ...but then the next day he texts me that he cant b with me anymore kas he got drunk & lost his virginity to some other girl.. i didnt really get all that upset..i didnt cry or anything.. i was just like ok.. thanks for telling me see you at tcu in the fall... so now were not talking & this friend of the family was like well you can still b with him if you want ...its just sex..no big deal.. & now im confused...i dont want to be with him anymore...but do i have the right to b mad at him? it was only a month but we were exclusive? bleh it makes me so frustrated..anyway any advise on my situation? thanks
I would be mad, but since he's totally not
worth your sad feelings, then dont even worry
about him anymore. He's obviously not a trust
worthy boyfriend, or person @ that!
Move on from him & find a nice guy who will
treat you right & respect you (:
So it's summer which means for sports I sweat and break out more. Wondering if there is any really good working creme or face masks that work to elminate the break outs.
I play softball so I understand your condition
completely. It sucks, doesnt it. But lucky for
me, I know how to help.
Now, I cant tell you exactly how to be PREVENT
the breakouts but i can tell you how to get ride
of the zits. As soon as you get home, make sure
you use a good acne soap. For example, proactiv
is great. If you use it 2 times a day, continuously, you'll see the results after a
breakout! If that doesnt work, before you
put the proactic ( or ACNEfree ) on, wash your
face with just water. Water can wash out the
oils on your face and help clean along w/ the
acne fighter. Hope i helped (: *
I have this friend, ok, lets call her x. And her boyfriend, J. X and J have been going out for a month. They are both 14. X is very primiscous and likes to make out and stuff, which is fine with me. Like, they kissed the first day they were going out. They go over to eachothers houses all the time. And x (my best friend) said she would never lie to me. She knows how conservative i am. I think having sex at 14 is disgusting. I told her that and she said, dont worry im still a virgin. Then, j's best friend told me that they have had sex like, four times since they started dating. I havent told her yet, cuz she'll get mad. I havent talked to her since i heard about it, i wanna tell her, but i dont wanna loose my bff. WHat should i do? HELP!!!
You need to ask her about it. She really
shouldnt get mad over that. Just ask her
in a way that shows you aren't discusted
because then she'll be able to admit to it.
And if she is still mad, then just tell her
its her life not yours and you'll be her
friend no matter what !
(:
i think i'm in love with a guy. i've only seen him 3 or 4 times. we haven't done anything, we're not going out or anything. but whenever i see him, my heart jumps. and i think about him nonstop. i could even imagine spending the rest of my life with him, even though i'm not even interested in long term relationships. i know he's single, and he's 3 years older than me..:-\
but i was at the beach with him and whenever i came out of the water we would always sort of look at each other like we both knew we liked each other, he sometimes teased me at this waterpark like splashing and stuff. i've never liked a guy this much. i cant ask him out, please dont say to because i have too many reasons why not to. but i just want to know how i can make him like me even more. i know its being myself, but any small tips to get HIM to ask me out. my heart aches for him all the time, its like i need to be with him, even though hes older than me and im not even allowed to date, but i would do anything for this guy. if i like someone, i still look at guys at the mall and stuff like girls usually do, but now i dont--at ALL. i only think about him, before i sleep, when i wake up. I need tips so he'll ask me out!!
I dont know if your exactly in love,
this might just be a huge crush.
Or maybe even an obsession.
But nobody can tell you, you're in love.
Your heart will know (:
Some tips are :
Keep talking more, find interests you guys have.
Give him your phone number.
Make him laugh.
Plan a day to hangout with a group of friends.
Basically, the more you talk to him & hangout
with him, the more he'll get to know you.
And if your the girl for him, then he will ask
you out.