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im scared of getting hurt and losing someone i love.
17/f I love this boy with all of my heart but i hate it when he goes out in public without me. Its so hard to trust him. We have been together for almost a year now and it has been absolutely amazing. He was my first. I lost my virginity to him. But im scared of getting hurt. I always cry when he goes out with his friends or in public without me being with him. I get scared. I mean he has cheated before. I just dont want to get hurt or lose him and i dont know how to let go of my fear. Help?
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I understand how you feel, sweetie. But you have to come to a realization that guys will do terrible, heart breaking things to their girlfriends because that's just how men/boys are. You can't let this one guy, who I totally believe you may love, control your life like this. You have to become somebody who knows that their boyfriend is trustworthy. If you they are not, then you need to end it the relationship. I dont know exactly how long it has been since he cheated, but if you have that much suspision and you care that deeply about you getting cheated on again, then just end the relationship. You are still 17, in highschool! You can't count on guys for doing the right thing everytime, because they wont! So remind yourself that guys are going to do bad things, and you can't do anything about it. If you feel like he's cheating, or he's going to - break it off. There are other fish in the sea, even if he seems like the one.
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