ok so theres this guy that my friend likes i have liked him before and this weekend we were hanging out alot because we all went on a trip it was for a tournament thing so this guy was flirting with me there and my friend was getting mad cuz she liked him but the truth is i do too...well he told me he liked me and now i dont know what to do because i dont want to her my friend but she also likes 3 other guys...please help
phatdopelove answered Monday July 23 2007, 11:48 am: Look at it this way, you said she likes 3 other guys?, shes got other options of guys to choose from, it'd be diffrent if she only liked ONE guy but she likes THREE. Ask her who does she like the most out of all three? If she answers the guy you like then weigh out this , what is more important to you both, yalls friendship or a guy. Don't ever let a guy become a friendship.
She may be jealous that he likes you, but you can't help that and neither can he she can't stay mad you that'd be silly, it's just being selfish, also, has he ever liked her or mentioned that he liked her?. Ask him, if he hasn't then dont worry, so I say go for him. [ phatdopelove's advice column | Ask phatdopelove A Question ]
mattiemiranda answered Monday July 23 2007, 2:02 am: You kind of have to ask yourself which person is more important. Your friend or this guy? If I were you, I would talk to your friend and see what she thinks about you liking him. If it's going to cause your friendship to end, then you have to decide which person is more important. If he likes you, and you like him then I would say that you should go for it. But I would definitely talk to your friend first!!! [ mattiemiranda's advice column | Ask mattiemiranda A Question ]
duckydork14 answered Monday July 23 2007, 1:48 am: well you dont want a boy coming between you and your friend-Tell her how you feel and whats going on and she if you can agree on something. She might understand and she might not. [ duckydork14's advice column | Ask duckydork14 A Question ]
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