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ok. i have a problem. i used to be the girl who did whatever was cool. you know? but now i've had a boyfriend for like a yr and a half now and i've changed how i look at things. i used to be into rap and pop (what is cool wehre i live) and now im changeing into a hard rock & emo music. and now everyone at my school thinks im weird or something. is there like anything i can do about that?
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You could avoid those people who think you're "weird" because you aren't a robot like the rest of them. Find a group of friends who understand you and like you because you're interesting, not because you follow the crowd. Just be yourself, you know?
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Nothing but ignore them.
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You can't really don't much about that. Some people change. And sometimes when they're in relationship with a person they evolve into being part of that person you love. You kind of change yourself into that other person. That person you're dating is like your other half.
Seek to him/her who you're dating for support, thats all you need, and thats all that matters, and all you have to do is be yourself. You have to learn to accept youself that way, and if you can accept yourself, trust me people will except you in the long run. Its all about self-acceptance to yourself, not accepetance with everyone else.
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You cant do anything about the way people perceive you. The only thing you can do is accept yourself for what you are and be confident about it. Who gives a sh*t if kids at school think you are weird. You go ahead and think they are weird right back. Just worry about yourself and focus on wether or not you are happy. If you are...roll with it. Once you graduate, you'll never see those kids again. And dont let the area or anything else make you. YOU DEFINE WHAT IS COOL. Not the kids at school and not where you live. Start thinking for yourself. And if other people dont like it, tell them to f**k off. :)
Good Luck!
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