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why can't i...?
my boyfriend and i have been having sex for several months now. he does everything right, and lasts a long time, but i can not orgasm. he is the first person i have been with and i have never experienced an orgasm. the entire experience is pleasurable but i never climax. what could be wrong with me? we both try very hard. and eventually i just get really sore and tired so we have to stop. what could be the problem? any tips?
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if your not hitting ur climax maybe you partner just isn't stimulating the g- spot enough. try this position get on your hands and knees then put one hand over the other on the ground then rest your head on your hands. it's kind of like doggie style but your head is on the ground your man will be able to go deeper than he has ever gone and i just might be the stimulation u need.
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Well i guess many people may go through this, but i would suggest that write down a detail version of sexual scene maybe some you may have seen from movies. Just before you try next time, have a read, and see if you feel turned on.
there is another thing you can try. before you have sex, make him kiss you starting from your face, down the neck, arms, and you know what i'm trying to say... there must be something that mite work. (p.s, the above tips i read them in cosmopolitan, so lets see if it works),
if you dont orgasm it doesnt mean you're love for him is lessening so dont stress about it too much. well i seriously hope these tips work for you.
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There's absolutely nothing wrong with you, you just have to discover what can really stimulate you. Are you comfortable? you may not be and you need another way to help. There is alot of girls who have trouble reaching an orgasm, so don't worry you're not the only one, not very many girls reach orgasms. Try these to help like masturbating, maybe this can help you climax?or clitoral stimulation with a sex toy or vibrator, gels can help stimulate. Tell your boyfriend what feels good and doesn't, maybe this will help. Hope this helps!
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