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Shyness
Well, there's this girl that I REALLY like, but like I can't talk to her because I'm too nervous. I kinda broke up with my girlfriend for this girl. I think she knows I like her, because my ex-girlfriend was friends with the girl that I like. So now, I don't know if I can talk to her. Me and her hung out before at the mall, we had a blast, but I can't stand for a girl to say she doesn't like me when I like her. Advice for talking to her?
Thanks in advance.
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Hey.
I am like you in that I can't stand it when a girl says she doesn't like me when I like her. It hurts every time.. but somehow I learn to deal.
Just be confident with every second. Be confident with your words, with your actions, and with your expressions. A girl likes confidence.
A girl also likes a guy who isn't shy, but not too outgoing. You're probably in between anyway- so "Just Be Yourself!" would be fitting.
I'm sure you're a great guy- so just be kind- and your conversation will flow naturally!
Sorry this answer is a bit late.. my mom stole the computer from me while I was answering and I couldn't get on until now.
--Jack
(15/m)
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Well, I think you might need some prospective from a girl. I was in a similar situation and things kind of have a way of working things out. In my situation, my best friend got dumped by her boyfriend.here's a little warning: best friends are completely protective over their best friends. I was really mad at her boyfriend for awhile until I knew the reason he broke up with her: me. I secretly liked him for awhile but didn't do anything because of my BFF. So, in my situation all things worked out in the end and my BFF completely understood when we got together. But, your situation might be a little different. Chances are, if your ex's friend doesn't know you like her, she thinks your scum for breaking up with her friend. But, if she likes you, she's pretending to think you're scum until she finds out if you really like her.
Now you have already come this far in dumping your girlfriend. My advice would be to tell her friend that you like her and then see what happens. overcome your shyness and complete the job! You never know until you take a risk! As for talking to her, call her up on the phone if your a nervous wreck or if you're feeling a little bit more brave that day, talk to her face-to-face. Tell her how much you like her and maybe she'll feel the same way too. If you guys have fun together, that's a good sign.
Hope I helped!
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Well if she likes you you don't have to worry about it, you'll only know if you ask,just ask it wouldn't hurt but she maybe kinda of thrown off cause she knew you were dating her friend ,most girls don't really like that kind of thing but if she likes you then so be it. Start off by saying hey, hows it going and then have your regular convo. Talk about things you normally would talk about then carefully bring up the question to her,ask her if she likes you ( I say talking before bringing it up cause it can startle her if you just go right to the question) Do you ever think we could be more than friends? And if she doesn't like you just be appreciative that she is your friend, its better than not having her as a friend at all, and that would really hurt. Best of luck to you :)
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girls dont ike when a guy is shy about liking her. .they like when guys can just straight up tell her how you feel. it seems like she likes you, so go for it!
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You just have to do it. I know it's hard but there's no other way. Plus, even if she DOES reject you, at least the next time you'll know you can do it again. life is about taking risks. hold your chin up, practice what you're going to say, and go for it. :]
-You_Got_Advice
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