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Why does it always happen to me


Question Posted Thursday July 19 2007, 7:40 pm

ok well last start at the start new year friend holds party the girl i really like and every1 at the party knows i like her is there we kissed it was good but then the next day talking to friends i hear that my suposevly best friend had gone through with her after i had kissed her i was to angry as we were all pretty much drunk so it was annoying but it was ok but when i went to ask him about it he was like nothing happened untill he finally aplogies to me so i kind of forgiven him and we got back on with our lives. well after that me and the "girl" we like kiss like every party and that. so last week people were asking why i didnt ask her out so i had decide to do it tomorrow ( were going to the pictures together ) so we were at party on tuesday and like had alot to drink and we kissed again as per usual and my best friend was kissing her friend so it was all good untill i went away to shops to get midnight snack with a couple of friends and when we got back it had quiet down abit so we stayed for a couple of hours then left. well tlking to a friend who was at party and he was saying u hear about my best friend and the "girl" and i was like no he was well they supposely did it when we went to the shops. so know i no i dnt no what to do. ave decide not to ask her out and just try and totally forget about her but what about my friend do i confront him and find out his side or what please i need some advice thanks

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phatdopelove answered Friday July 20 2007, 12:55 pm:
When you go to parties and are drinking this can play a factor.Your supposed best friend is just looking for a hook-up, and he sees this girl as an easy target so he goes to her. He possibly sees no wrong in it because you and the girl are not dating. And do you know if this rumor is really true? Ask your best friend. Maybe, the info this guy told you could be wrong. See what your friend says, and if it is true, I'm sorry isn't the girl for you, she seems to be not looking into a relationship and you are. You need to find a girl who values your time with her and is looking for a relationship, not hooking up. Call me judgemental but it is true, girls who are like this are usually not the girlfriend types and they are just the kind of girls that guys only look to as a hook-up and nothing more. Last tip, if you decided forget about her like you said there is really no need to confront him,if you totally forgot her it would be silly to tell him off and you just have your best friend saying "what does it matter, you forgot about hr anyways?. She's not worth the argument. So the best thing, you forgive but you never forget. This guy is not really trust-worthy, make him a friend but not a best friend, hes the type of guy you hang out with but not sharing other things with. Hope I helped.

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runawayxlove answered Thursday July 19 2007, 8:53 pm:
hey, alright well both of them arent being good friends to you at all. that girl knows that you two are best friends im sure, and obviosuly she just doesnt care. those types of girls like hooking up better than relationships and im pretty sure that if you asked her out, she would cheat on you, maybe even with your best friend. as for your best friend, hes a man whore. he knows that it upset you the last time that they even kissed (never mind had sex). now i know that we dont know if its true yet, but im pretty sure that if its not, that something as little as kissing at least happened between them. so all in all, your friend is a hoe. he will keep stealing your girls/hookups. as for that girl, she will end up with a disease one day.

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