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I'm a teenage g i r l who has been suicidal for 4 years.
I don't know what to do. I h a t e life so much because I have no reason to live. All I ever do is schoolwork and running around to different things. And I get yelled at. NO ONE loves me or cares if I draw another breath. No one.
If I had a significant other who was actually NOT an I wouldn't be suicidal.
I'm considered "obese" (5'3" and 169 lbs) and I'm SICK of going on diets, losing weight, and gaining it all back because of stress. So DON'T reccomend that I *try* to lose weight, because I'm sick of that. So don't even mention anything about losing weight.
I'm not fat because I'm a couch potato. I'm fat because I was born that way. I've never been thin. And I'll die a fatass. Just like I am now.
The things people say and the looks I get are just too much. "OH MY GOD SHE'S SO FAT" and other like that. I'm so pretty that I could get a boyfriend if I were thin.
How would you reccomend that I ? I need to do it really soon because I don't have a chance at getting a boyfriend. And I want to die because of it.
If you don't have L O V E in your life, you should die. Like me. NO one loves me so I'm going to next sunday at 12:00 pm if SOMEONE doesn't call me to ask me out. I'm sick of living and there's no reason to go on like this.
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DOn't take offense, but you need help. No one should be thinking this kind of stuff at your age. Please don't kill yourself. People care about you, though they may not show it, but they do, deep down. So think posotively and stick through. You only have a couple more years in high school before you're free to do whatever you wanna do. Good Luck!
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Isn't annoying when people type in run-on sentences and don't punctuate? It makes the question/statement difficult to understand and read. I can understand when people sometimes misspell words; but I hate when people don't even attempt at making themselves seem somewhat intelligent. It is bothersome when people type a response or question like its a text message. No, I'm not an English teacher if you're wondering. I am a sixteen year old female that is in high school. (link)
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Well then, don't read them if it bothers you so much.
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I'm not sure that advice is EXACTLY what I'm looking for, but I'd like to understand something. Love seems to have a different impact on everyone who feels it. (This is about romantic love.) Why do you think love is important? What does it do for people? What is the point? Fulfillment? I have heard that no two people can ever fully understand each other, but we all spend years trying to find that one person who can understand us. Why ? (link)
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Well, for most people it's the feeling of belonging to people. They need that feeling.
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okay,
big mistake, i know.
im pregnant, i have been for 72 days.
i took extacey.
just once.
is my unborn baby going to die?
i didnt know that could happen, my friends told me it could, and if so is there anyway to save it?
thanks (link)
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The best way to goo is to a professional doctor. They will be the only ones that can give you true advice. You wouldn't necessarily need to see them in person, but you could call over the phone, then it won't be so embarassing. Hope it all works out in your favor! =)
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I've already started thinking about Christmas gifts instead of procrastinating and waiting until December to order/get them. Last year I did this and my gift to my boyfriend did not get here until a day or two AFTER Christmas..lol. My question is, I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now and I have no idea what to get him. Last Christmas, I got him an Emerica (that's the brand; it is commonly worn by skaters) hoodie. This year, I'd like to get him something different. I'd prefer to buy something rather than make it. He skates and is very interested in videogames such as Halo and Tony Hawk's American Wasteland (this is all on the Xbox). Any ideas of what to get?
Thank you=) (link)
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You could order him a Tony Hawk skateboard or new skater shoes. Hopefully this helped. =)
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Hey there,
I hate the fact that the only place I have for comfort is the net, lol! I am afraid to tell anyone else! I am a 21 year old gay guy and my bf is 18, we have been dating for 8 monthes now and have had a mass of high and lows.
He has the worst temper and shouts at me for the silliest things, and threatens me with breaking up, killing himself,not loving me, hating me when we argue.
Last nite we got into an argument, things got heated, and he pushed me, so I decided to walk away to let him calm down, then he came runing up behind me and stuck his fingers into my arms, it was the most hurtful thing! I tried tyo walk away and he wouldnt let me, so I end up beatinghim upo basically, in self defence, I wasnt gonna be shouted at and physically hurt for no reason! Again I tried to walk away and he grabbedme, wouldnt let me go, my arm wasin agony, and he was screaming at me in the middle of town, so I turned round punched him a few times, and kicked him when he was on the ground. He was scaring me, I am not a violent person, but he was hurting me and wouldnt let me go.
Then he screamed "I AM GONNA KILL MYSELF!!!!"
After I cooled down, regardless of what he did to me, I went back to him, he spat in myface and started beating me up, to which I didnt do anything back, then started screaming he was sorry for hurting me before!
What am I meant to do? Was I wrong in defending myself? How canlove be like this? Idont wanna leave him, but how can things get sorted? (link)
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He has no right to hurt you in any way, emotional or physical. You need to leave him before something worse can happen. If you feel guilty about, ignore it. It's pretty much a trap. He shouldn't be hurting you like that and he's using you for anger issues. I personally, from the sounds of it, think he needs counseling or you both could get couple counseling. I hope everything works out for you both. Remember he doesn't deserve you. You're better than him, and never tell yourself less than that. Good Luck. ;)
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so i like this guy who likes me back. he`s never admitted it but i have a strong feeling he does and my friend was with me last time i saw him and she is convinced he likes me too. i can`t get him out of my mind, but i know i shouldn`t like him. he`s in his 20`s and i`m 15. he is friends with my older brothers, who highly disapprove of me dating. also, i see him very unoften. the last time i saw him, other than this past saturday was the begining of june. but i can`t get him off of my mind and every time i see him, he makes it harder for me to forget it. should i forget him or should i wait and see what he will do? but he`s older than me, so should i just forget him? (link)
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Right now the age difference seems a little too far apart so you may want to just forget about him now, but later on in life, when you're both older and more mature, look each other up and see how it works. Good Luck!!! =)
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Okay
so on a regular day
I eat a redcued fat peanutbutter and banana sandwhich , a protein shake
a peice of chicken , some green beans and corn
and an apple and some cantelope.
And I work off about 400 calories in exercise.
And I dont eat past 6 or 7.
Is an okay diet?
And also i only drink water. (link)
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you may loose weight to quickly, so you need to make sure you have a whole meal for dinner at least, so you won't end up going anerexic. Hope this helped.
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okay, i'm getting a new cell phone and i cant decide between the chocolate, the motokrzr, or just a regular flip phone with a camera and all that good stuff. which one works the best ? (link)
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probably the regular flip phone. It will probably be more efficient.
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hey everyone ok im a 15/f and i have a crush on this guy at my school... i juz met him last week and we talk and stuff.. and hug well sometimes i dunno what to say to him! so what should i say to him and does anyone have any flirty tips? cuz i really like him.. so please help me! (link)
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just try to keep a cinversation going and try to be around him a lot. Then maybe he'll get the hint.
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for a little over two months and he hasn't kissed me yet. We hold hands, hug, and he always has his arm around me, but it hasn't gone any further.
I've tried kissing him, but he just sorta stood their and didn't kiss me back. So I felt super dumb, I tried asking him, but he sorta changed the subject. What should I do? (link)
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Even though you already tried confronting him, you either need to confront him again and not let him change the subject or, just let it keep going on for another monther and if he hasn't tried kissing you by then, try again. hope I helped.
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Well, I wasn't planning on going to this Halloween event, but I am because my boyfriend just asked me. The problem is that I have no costume, and I'm not creative like that. I want to look cute, but not skanky.
Does anybody have any ideas for a 19/F who has short hair and is a little on the heavy side? I'm not wearing anything slutty, and I'd prefer a more creative and unusual idea. It has to be easy to make and come by, and I'd really rather not buy it, because I'm a penniless student.
I'm incredibly nerdy (and so is my boyfriend), so anything that's kind of nerdy is a good thing. (link)
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try being a pirate or a goddess! =) hope i helped
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My life is seriously messed up so if your gunna help please be serious about it.
First off, i am 15/f. Ok, so im currently seeing this guy. He is 18. We have been together for a year and a half now. Things between us have been very bad and we took some time apart to re-evaluate our feelings. We decided to give it another try with some changes.
Before, i was quite dependent on him and we saw eachother everyday, and if we didnt see eachother he would call. This obviously isnt that healthy in a long term relationship so it was a thing that was changed. Now, we dont see eachother hardly at all. I had noticed from the time we did spend together that it wasnt the same. I was beginning to get the impression he didnt love me. I wasnt feeling it, if you get what i mean.
So i talked to him about it. He said he had closed off his feelings for me a long time ago, when we were having problems because it hurt him too much. He said it would take time for him to love me again.
All through this, I have been talking to one of my ex's a lot. We have become quite close and he wants us to get back together. He's been interested quite a lot during the time ive been with my boyfriend, but nothing has ever happened. I miss him a lot and i think im interested. He thinks im single because... well. i was angry at my boyfriend and he was treating me badly at the time.
Now, im left with a boyfriend who doesnt love me, an ex who wants to be with me... all this is on top of other problems that dont come under this catagory.
Basically at the moment, i feel life is pointless. I have no reason to get up in the morning, no motivation. You guys have to help please xoxoxox (link)
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Okay, first of all you need to cut it off with your current boyfriend,you can't stay around if he doesn't have those feelings for you. Second is I wouldn't go out with your ex either because there was a reason you both broke up a long time ago. so I would break it off with both of them. Hope I helped.
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Hello.
So im 14/f, and in the 9th grade.
So I have this boyfriend right, his name is Joey.
Then there's these 2 other guys, Ian and Tim that I like, a lot.
Well, Joey is like in LOVE with me, and it's pretty annoying at times.
Well Ian is just, I don't know, theres something about him that I absoutly love, and want and hes sooo hot..
And with Tim, hes just so funny, hes not that cute though.
Well I know with relationships, personality matters the most, but looks are a huge plus.
Now to the real problem...
I really like Ian, and i've been talking to him on the side. And like Joey hates Ian, and I have no idea what to do... Me and Joey argue all the time. And I have no idea what to do, so please help, if you were in my position who would you go out with ???
Please answer fast !!
Thanks in advance.
-Brittany
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well, if you like this other guy and you and joey ar e arguing all the time, leave him but do it gently. tell him you're sorry but DON'T tell him the reason why. if he asks, tell him it's your own business.hope i helped!
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After i wash my hair, i either let it air dry, or blow dry it. Either way it dries nice and straight. But sometimes when i sleep on it, it gets waves or kinks in it and ruins it. Are there any products or anything i could use so it would stay straight til morning? Thanks (link)
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pantene is what I use and it keeps it straight. hope it helps.
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Hi. I'm fifteen years old and i'm a female. I've had my naval pierced for about a year now, and I have my ears pierced twice in both ears. Now however, i'm wanting to get my tongue pierced. I've been wanting it done for about 3 months now, and i've done my research. I know the positives, the negatives, and all the care needed. I've done so well with all my other piercings, and I know I can take care of my tongue if I get it pierced. The problem is, my mom won't allow it. I don't understand why? She was ok with all of my other piercings and I don't understand why this one is any different. My question is, what makes this piercing any different, and what can I say to her to make her change her mind?
Thank you all in advance. (link)
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well, the ear is the easiest place to get pierced so i'm assuming that she's nervous that if it doesn't heal, you could leed to death and infecions and also afraid you'll look like a hooker. sorry if i told you stuff you already knew and i'm sorry if i offened you in some way. -luv ya
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So I'm thinking of getting colored contacts, but I have two questions!
1) How much more expensive are they then normal ones?
2) What color should I get?
I have really dark brown eyes, & dark brown hair,
I'm thinking of maybe some greens? or lighter browns?
Any opinions?
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they're about $250 and green would look fabulous! good luck!
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So I've had my period for over a year and it's always been pretty steady, very light flow... So right now it's that time of month, and it's been about 2 days and the flow has suddenly been EXTREMELY heavy -- like one tampon like every HALF HOUR heavy, when for like two years I've gotten an EXTREMELY light flow so -- what's up? Is there any way to lessen the flow? (link)
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That's normal, you will get used to it. You should try pads. They last longer. =]
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I asked my mom the other night if I could dye my hair black she had replied no and told me she didn't have to give me a reason as to why she said no.
Finally, she still said no but said she would change her mind if I could come up with 20 valid and good reasons as to why she should allow me.
I believe I have 8-10 at this moment.
My main reason is to express individuality because I'm outgoing and charismatic but she just doesn't seem to believe it.
What do I do?
I've been wanting to dye my hair black for at-least 3 years.
I've tried negotiating and I'll be 15 October 5th and it doesn't even seem like a possible present unless I have 20 reasons. (link)
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Just tell her you believe you are old enough to decide how you're going to wear your hair or you could bribe her!=]
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I'm a guy and i'm seventeen years old. For some reason my voide isnt as deep as other guys i no. It's really embarassing sometimes and i dont know what to do. People sometimes think I'm gay...even though I'm not, because of my weird sounding voice...What should I do??? (link)
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Don't worry. It will come in soon and it will be normal. Calm down. =]
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