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I have been astral projecting since I was about 5 and i never told anyone it was something that i always did during the night time or during naps sometimes it would happen even when I didn't what to, but my whole family finally relized that I astral project that thought I was weird and said that's it's fake and that's witchcraft but I never thought of it like that and now my family thinks i'm messed up what should i do. I can't help astral projecting it's in my nature....Please help me (link)
brainyallstar is my screenname for AIM. Talk to me sometime.
Dont worry about anything. There is nothing wrong with you, your not wierd, special, better or worse in any way because of it. Just tell your parents that you dont control it it just happens, or tell them its a cheap parlor trick. If you AIM me the details I can help you with it better.

You could pony up to it and just deal with your parents. THis is quite tricky :/


If one was really thin and then put on weight, could she increase her cup size? (link)
SHould it matter? Then why does it? So why ask? Im sure your good looking as is, dont worry about stupid socities depictions.


My boyfriend and i recently got into a huge fight (again). It started because he was joking about buying cars, then said he would by me a hummer. He completely ignored the fact that my cousin was killed by one only 2 years ago. He claimed that he didnt know about it, but we've been together for almost 14months now, its almost impossible that i never told him. anyway, from there he got really pissed off at me and everything hes been mad at me for started coming out. He told me that he hates that im working full time, going to summer school, and preparing for my moms wedding that is in 8 days. His biggest complaint about them was that i have no time for him. He also told me that he doesnt want me hanging out with people from work. (we worked till 3 am one night then went out to denny's for food) He kept saying things like "i do so much for you, i always make time for you, i try to please you so much and i get nothing back" which is a total exaggeration. At that point i asked him, do you want me to quit my job? drop out of summer school? im not asking you to please me, i just hoped you'd love me. Then he said the big line, "I dont know how to love you"

What do i say to that? how am i suppose to react to him now?

we havnt talked for a week. he keeps going on about how much of a wreck he is, but ive been crying every night. I realize that we are both at fault for this, but i dont know how im supposed to feel about hearing that after he told me he loves me so many times before.. (link)
A) I'm missing how an inanimate object such as a hummer killed someone w/o it being operated by a person. A car doesnt kill someone. A mistake by a driver does.

B) Tell him to love you by supporting you and what you want.

C) Dont worry about him. Its your future you have to worry about; wether that future is with or w/o him is his choice.


okay so i am known as the BIGGEST slut in my whole entire school . well thats waht i have heard. like theres a group of kids that are calling me a slut and saying i got fingered and gave a bunch of guys blowjobs . its really getting on my nerves because i havent done that . i have made out with only THREE guys . and most of them have lost their virginity . how can i prove that im not a lsut? (link)
usually in teen life, the word slut is accompanied by bitch. This would either mean (assumeing your not either one) that people dont know you. Start being open to people. You dont have to act in a conservative mannor, but dont be skanky. Just get to know people better. Dont dismiss the nerds or geeks either. Talk to everyone and be open but not in a dangerous way (i.e., like dont be open to drugs & illegal things). Try being really nice to people. Oh and dont hang all over a guy in public. Dont be down someones throught infront of people. Thats private buisness and noone needs to see it.
Avoid:
bitchy moments, blonde moments, ditsy moments.






i am a 34c and i am 13 years old. 5 feet tall . and way around 107 . personally i tihnk that it to big and all the guys stare at them . i mean i know that i am pretty . i`m not conceited but i`m honest . i want guys to look at my face more . and i do wear revealing shirts . yeah lol but i`m starting to cover up more and realizing that more guys like me for my face lol . any ideas on how to get them to notice my face more instead of my breasts? thanks a bunch (link)
Start looking for someone of the geeky crowd, or who is just around the cool crowd but not nessisarily in it. Thats your best odds. Fact : most guys are pigs. Fact: you look at your chest more than guys do. Opinion: looking at someones face is awkward when talking to them.


okay me and my boyfreind have been going out for about 4 months and i really like him.at around the second month i told him i was a little uncomfortable with him telling me he loves because i know he didnt meen it because where to young to know what love is.(where both 13).well last night he told me he needed to tell me something and i was like ok and he started off by saying do you remember that time you told me i was to young to know the meaning of love is and i was like yes and then he said well i love you and ive never felt this feeling befor and i love you with all my heart and i want to spend the rest of my life with you.and then he asked me is my heart beating really fast and i was like no and then he said because mine is beacause i was afraid to tell you that i love you. at this point to tell you the truth i was a little scared because i think he was really telling the truth.dont get me wrong i like him alot but i dont think i love especially not as much as he seems to love me.im just so confused on what to do.i really dont want to brake his heart and tell him that i dont feel the same way.should i just end it befor it gets way to serious?please help me.i badly need some advice, (link)
NO, he doesnt love you, dont worry about it. He's feeling a strong attraction which is making him want you. Really he probably just wants sex.

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For the record, I'm a guy. I've seen many many many times that a guy would play a girl like that. But it is nice to see that you are young and naive. Most idiocratic teens these days cannot distinguish their own feelings. hence alot of psyche issues.


Ok, I am 15 (female) and i have a bf, we like each other alot. But he seems to be very lazy (he is also 15) It seems like he dosn't ever want to spend time w/ me. Is there anything that i can do to make him feel more comfertable around me. Im not really sure what it is, but it seems like all he ever wants to do is eat, and sleep. I see my friends and thier bf's and they all get along really well. I just kinda wanna get stuck out of this rut. Is there anything that i can do?
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ummm, I would say try to find someone who compliments your style of life. If you like to go out and do things, you might want to think about finding someone who does just the same. Also, you could just go for like a week, and not like hang with him so then maybe he will want to hang out more.


well hey everyone... im 15/f i&& i have big problem!!! my mom, dad, brother && even people at my school think im really annoying... && immature!!! && its summer and i want to change && become mature && a better person!! but how? (link)
F*** them, you're only 15 once so act 15 while you're 15.


My 12 year old son has been bullied by a boy in our neighborhood for several years now. My son has a lot of friends, but of course all his friends are around his age and scared of the bully.

The bully (Gary) is 15. A few years ago my husband and I talked to Gary's parents, because he stole a toy from my son on the school bus. Gary claimed not to have the toy, and his parents protected him--and said we were in the wrong. This only child is perfect according to them. I have given up on going to the parents. The attitude of the police is "boys will be boys" (we live in a small town).

I caught Gary in the act a couple of weeks ago. He jumped on, and broke a ramp that my son and his friends built for their bikes. I told him he was acting like a 6 year old, and that someday someone bigger and meaner will come along and "take him out". He rode off on his bike in a hurry! However now he harasses my son about telling "Mommy". Last night he threw big rocks at my son's bike, causing some damage to paint. Apparently it even makes things worse if I interfear. Usually I do leave it to my son to settle disagreements, but this boy has crossed the line.

My 21 year old son, is 6'4, 240 lbs but If I use him to intimidate the 15 year old, this would be no different than a 15 year old picking on a 12 year old. Although...I doubt Gary has paid much attention to big brother. He'd probably be scared of him, we all know Gary is a coward in disguise.

My son does not want to walk away, because this means he would have to leave his other friends behind, plus he wants to "look tough" Any tips on dealing with a neighborhood bully? (link)
uhh teach your son some martial arts and let him beat the 15 year old up. Yes that is a joke.
You could go all psycho analytical but that doesnt work on idiots.

Your older son is too old to be in this. Ask your son to ask some of the older kids, you know the other 15 year olds to make fun of this 15 year old for picking on younger kids. That might end it.


Ok i'm a 13 year old girl. My boyfriend is 16!
I don't know what i should do about that cuz he's 3 years older then me. And he's never kissed a girl... so should i stay with him or should i dump him cuz he might do something with me?? (link)
dump.

**edit.**

I answered exactly what you asked. You deffinitally didnt ask why.

Look to be in a relationship you cant be worried about whats going to happen. You obviously have doubts--otherwise you wouldnt be asking. So get rid of him. He's too old for you. Enjoy being young whilst you still are.


my computer has a virus called 'downloader'.
can anyone give me any advice on what to do?
i dont want to tell my mom.
because it's like the fourth time we've have to reboot it.
if we have to do it again.. (link)
get a free virus removal thing.
go search and find out info about the 'downloader'
figure out how you got it on your computer though we all know downloaders are from porn.
make some registry changes to get rid of it.


How exactly do you know if you computer has a virus?
because my computer is reallly sloooow.
plus i think if it has a virus you have to take it to best buy & pay for it!

my norton antivirus thing has expried. show i renew it?

gosh, one last question. does myspace cause viruses? bc thats the only website i visit. (link)
go to internetfrog.com and do a virus scan. You probably have spyware though or microsofts doing what it does best. Go get a free spyware program and seach your computer. You dont need to go to best buy either. Just go hit on one of the nerdy guys at your school and ask him if he could fix it. (im assuming your somewhat old (like 15 16ish) and that your a girl)


ok i really like this girl. i don't know what to do though, since she sometimes acts like she likes me, and yet others she doesn't. i also have trouble asking her out (because i am somewhat shy and/or a coward when it comes to that), but i really want to.

what should i do?

14/m (link)
ok, heres what your gonna do, Your gonna organise you and a few (like 2 friends that are guys) to go to someplace: movie theater, skating, etc. Invite that girl and 2 of her friends. Tell them that you and some friends are going and that they should come. Tell them when your going and then ask if they will go. Now when you are there, you flirt / hit on her. Then you talk about it.
The more ballsy route would be to just ask her out.


15/Female

Are there guys, around the age of 15 or 16, who just want a relationship of holding hands, kissing and making out (but not sex) anymore? I don't think I even know any guys who want relationships like that. Do I just know the wrong guys or is the majority wanting more?

Thanks! :) (link)
yes there are guys like that. They are hard to come by. You will probably have to find a "nerd or geek" so to speak. Even so, most of us guys are looking for sex. I know only less than a handful of friends who just want a relationship or that are willing to say that. Go for a nerd or geekier kid.


I run windows 98SE, and yesterday I deleted the file "Rundll32.exe" by mistake thinking it was a virus. It came up on my virus program. Now I can't access my control pannel, add/remove programs, calendar, etc. It's really upsetting me because I didn't really mean to delete it, and I don't want to pay to get it back on my computer. Thanks for any help (link)
First check the recycle bin. Next, (dont hold me to this) run your restore disk. You should be able to restore just the files you need. If all else fails look up that executable on the internet and download it.
You could also restore the computer to before you deleted it (runing safemode).

You could also back up all your files and reinstall windows. If you do, I recommend a disk partician and then install windows on drive C and everything else on the other drives your made by the partician.


Alright, so on my computer we have 3 users, mine, my moms, and dad's. We have windows xp, and netscape for our internet. Netscape doesn't work when I'm under my name but it works on my parents, is there anything I can do about this? How to make it run under my name again? (link)
You could have lost privliges, or you could have something wrong with netscape. If you could describe what happens better We might be able to help you. Im assuming your talking about netscape as a browser? (I vaguely remember hearing about some isp netscape type thing) You could try deleting it and redownloading it onto your user assuming nothing on your parents or your users are password protected.


My friend is doing drugs a lot. She smokes weed every day and does ecstacy a few times a week. I have talked to her about it a lot, and she's not going to change. I don't know if I should tell her mom or do something else. So what should I do? (link)
Tell her mom, if it keeps up, tell her mom again; if it still persists tell the school(guidence councilers and what not). Finally find the dealer and call the cops and tell them about it.


Is it more apropriate to tell a guy your home phnoe nummber or your cell phone number? (link)
Depends, are you the only one who will answer your cell phone(usually that is). If so then yes. Otherwise it doesnt matter, but personally I perfer calling a girls cell.


do you know anything about foreign exchange students? i think i might want to be one but i need to know more about it! if you have anything please answer this question! anything will help! sorry i don't know wat category this goes under! (link)
unfortunitally i dont know anything about foreign exchange students, but if I were you, I would go to google and search for foreign exchange programs. You could go ask your guidence counsilor or parents about doing it and they may know something that will help.


me and my group of friends about 9 of us always hang out together. theres 5 girls and they are each different. i noticed that they are competitive. because 1 of them im really good friends with and she tells me everything. she tells me about what the other girls say about her and how they said things to make her feel bad, because 2 of them liked my other friend rob.

it's a big mess, but now the other girls started to tell me stuff too. you kno what they all said? not to tell any1 anything they told me. so now almost all of them tell me things about how they dont like 1 or 2 of them because of things they said to them or said to other people. its confusing and they are trying to out-do the other just for my friend, and just to make sure that 1 girl doesnt get more attention than the other.

2 questions: why all this competition, i mean are girls always like this? and two, what should i do, stay out of it or help them? i've known them for a long time and i like all of them as friends, but they dont seem to get along. please help me (link)
Let me enlighten you from what I have found out. It is universal truth:

All women secretly hate each other(or one another--which goes your language perferance) .

And I know what thats like to know a bunch of junk like that. What you can do is contradict all the bad points they give you about the person with good ones. Or completely ignore the conversation. Better yet as soon as they start something like "know what I hate" or even "I hate" interupt them saying "well if your anything like me, you dont hate anything but really dislike when people talk behind other peoples backs."
You could just let them vent to you. Some people need to get things out while others dont. Just be there and let them get it out. (but thats annoying and I like my first idea better.)




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