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ok i really like this girl. i don't know what to do though, since she sometimes acts like she likes me, and yet others she doesn't. i also have trouble asking her out (because i am somewhat shy and/or a coward when it comes to that), but i really want to.
what should i do?
14/m
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Hi, simply ask her out. I know your shy and that, but by asking her out you can get to know eachother better and perhaps build on things from there. If you don't ask you will never know properly unless she tells you. Daniel.
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All I can say is to follow your heart it'll take you down the right path.
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Ummm. I would just leave her alone. Wait for her to show more interest in you so you wont feel bad if she turns you down.
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you never know if shes interested. you should just ask her out, just try to be calm and not panic. be cool and you could have a chance with her. If you have any questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget feedback.
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ok, heres what your gonna do, Your gonna organise you and a few (like 2 friends that are guys) to go to someplace: movie theater, skating, etc. Invite that girl and 2 of her friends. Tell them that you and some friends are going <insert place here> and that they should come. Tell them when your going and then ask if they will go. Now when you are there, you flirt / hit on her. Then you talk about it.
The more ballsy route would be to just ask her out.
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you should just start thinking of her as equal to you. As in she is no better than you. Some girls are intimidating... I have been told I am =]. I know that when you like someone you always seem to think that they are better than you. You need to get in your head that she is the SAME as you.. she goes to the same mall, watches the same TV shows, eats the same foods, and goes to the same Starbuck [lol]. Once you get that figured out, you will have more confidence. At that point, you will have more balls to ask her out. When you ask her out you need to think this: "What is the worst that can happen? She says no... and then life goes on. Why should I ask her out now and not later? Because her opinion about you most likly won't change in the next few weeks.
I do know how you feel though. I feel that the guy I like gives me mixed signals. But I don't plan to ask him out (personally, I think that's the guys job). But I am not going to ask him if he likes me until we are hanging out- asking about it over instant messenger is sort of tacky. So there you have it, the inside scoop inside a girls mind ;)
Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany
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invite her to hang out with just the two of you.. go to a movie & pay for her. let her pick the movie.. during the movie try sittin really close to her & holdin her hand..if she doesnt feel the same way she might move away or just tell you..then you'll know for sure..hope i helped..
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I've had guys who sometimes act like they like me and sometimes dont. Either they do like you and just don't think you like them so there afraid. in this case you should try subtle flirting moves. like putting your arm around her back or playfully being like what do you think would happen if we went out? see how she responds. Also ussually if a girl looks at your lips a lot, it could be a sign she likes you. Also, if you guys have mutual friends cassually bring her up in conversation and see if your friend gets all weird or says something stupid, which could be a sign that she likes you.
The other option is that they don't like you and just feel bad blowing you off. in this case, try the same subtle flirting moves and you can tell the differance.
I hope this helped!
PS being a girl, I know we can be very forgiving when it comes to things like that. if your not sure, ask her out, if she says no then be like ok can we still be friends like nothing has changed? most likely she'll say yes, if not then she wouldnt be a very good friend anyway.
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ok well i think you should ask her out. if she says no then dont cry over it cuz shes not worth it. but sometimes girls like me will fool around with boys, like flirt and tease. so dont right away just asume she likes you even though she acts like it. so i think you should ask her out.
hope she says YES!
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