Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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ok Well I'm 157cm tall but noone uses that anymore they say like 5 ft 2.
How tall in inches and feet would I be? (link)
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hey!
157 centimeters = 5.15091864 feet
Actually, the other girl is right. This does fall in the google category, but you didnt know that, so it's okay. I actually types that into google and it did it for me, I didnt even need to go to the site. And haah, you were actually really close eh? 5'2 and 5.15 are preety close. So you're 5'1 and a half. Hope I helpped,
Love ya,
Angie91
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Someone give me quick easy ways to calm down that works? I get A's on projects and eassys but right at end end before it's done I always go into a panic attack. i got everything there and point form notes, I just need to put them all together but I can't because I go crazy and can't think because I can't calm down.
and I can't listen to music or else I cant' think! (link)
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Hey!
It sounds like you're a type A personality like me. I get super super stressed out over nothing. The other day I did this project and the O in Personal wasnt in the middle I freaked out, bnut I ended up getting a 91 on the project so there was no point in that. Hers what I do, I like planning everything, so I plan when I'm going to get what on a project done. And I'll set blocks of time for each thing, and I start way too early, so that I have extra time near the time when the project is due. And say if I start freaking out because the O isnt straight, the project isnt due for three days, so I can take that break like the first person said and take a breather. Do something that relaxes you like a walk or or have a snack or just calm down. you're right, don't listen to music if it makes you lose concentration, because that can end up hurting the out look of your project, but if listening to music relaxes you then do that for half an hour and go back to the project. If you take a break and go back to it, then it will give you a fresh out look and it will help you to see it with new eyes, and you'll realize, hey I'm an A student, why am I worrying about my o?
I hope I gave you some insight from a personal prespective, let me know if you need anything else, as you can see I've been in your shoes before. Love ya,
Angie91
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Can someone tell me the difference between migration and emmigration? it really confuses me! (link)
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hey!
WE just did this in science, except my teacher called it imigration and emmigration. Imigration (or migration) is what happens when people (or animals) move from one place to another. Think of immigrants coming from one country to another. Coming is the key word. So I live in Canada, so say someone came from the United states to Canada then they would be immigrating to canada, but if they were then leaving canada to go back to the united states(or anywhere) they would emmigrating, because they were leaving.
It's confusing because its the same thing, just from which point of view you are looking at it from. So if they are coming towards you they are immigrating or migrating but if they are going away from you then they are emmigrating.
I hope that answers your question, let me know if you need something cleared up. Love ya,
Angie91
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remember when melissa r cries in the "next pussycat dolls" show? why did s=he cry? please i wanna know! (link)
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hey!
I don't know what episode you're talking about, but in one episode she was singing and she started crying because she was (like the other person said) thinking about her grandmother, but (not to spoil it or anything) she gets eliminated and that might have been why she was crying. Those are the only two times I've seen her cry.
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My parents used to get into serious fights long time ago but they stopped and now they're back. I'm the oldest out of my 2 younger siblings and they're really young. We're not aloud to go outside. What can we do? (link)
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hey!
when I was nine my parents got divorced. And right before the day my dad left I don't think there was a night they didnt fight. I was always really scared and I didn't know what to do, they never fought in front of me, always when I was in bed, but I always heard them. So I think you should take your siblings out of the room and tell them that it's not their fault your parents fight and that lots of parents fight. Explain that its okay to be scared andthey can always talk to you. No matter how young they are, do taht whether they are liek a couple of months or a couple of years being comforting always helps even if they don't understand.
Then talk to your parents. Sit them down one day and tell them calmly that you understand that all people fight, but you dont think its right that they fight when you guys are around. Tell them that if they need to fight they should go outside or at least in their bedroom. Tell them that you can't tell them how to run their life, but ask them if they think they should go to councilling or something.
This is a tough situation, and always remember its not your fault. If you need any help, go talk to a teacher at school or another adult and they can maybe help with the situation. Good luck, and I hope I helped, Love ya,
Angie91
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14/f
hey people.
i need a really good nickname.
my name is corinne
i love music ---rock/metal
i play the guitar
and I'm unique
help? (link)
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Hey corinne,
It's a good question, but the only problem is, a nickname is something fun that comes between friends, you can't come up with your own nickname, and you cant ask others to give you a nickname when they dont know you. What are you going to do with those ones below? Tell people hey I wanna be called _______? Talk to your friends and ask them to come up with an awesome nickname for you that you don't have to ask a bunch of people on line to come up with.
Heres some links (btw this falls under the category of google searches, thats why you didnt get any answers and sorry, no one on the site wants to sit around and find nicknames for someone they don't know. I guess we're just lazy. :S)
I hope I helpped, I tried, lots of love,
Angie91
http://www.gorskys.com.au/articles/nickname-generator.html
http://www.bzoink.com/Q14174/ULTIMATE_NICKNAME_GENERATOR.html
http://www.funnyjunk.com/pages/nickname.htm
http://rumandmonkey.com/widgets/toys/namegen/
http://pages.prodigy.net/mlemus/mobnamegenerator.htm
(this ones canadian :P) http://cs.calgarystampede.com/fun/nickname_generator.html
http://lowchensaustralia.com/names/generators.htm
That should be able to find you one. good luck.
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13/F. This entire school year I have been wearing a 32AA bra. My friends have always made fun of me for my little boobs. Well my mother got me fitted this weekend and according to the people I should be wearing a 32B bra instead. Now they dont look right on me and when I told my friends they didn't believe at all that was my size and even asked me if I stuffed. Im too afraid to wear my new bra cause I think people will believe I stuff or will say mean things about me. I dont like wearing this size bra and im going to my best friends house tonight and she deffinately doesnt believe me. What should I do? (link)
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hey!
I'm the opposite, I have pretty big boobs, but I still wear a b-c and my friends don't believe me and have always made fun of me for having big boobs. I always tell myself, whatever, this is how I am, am if a B fits you, then it fits you, if it's too big, wear a different size, but dont wear a different size because you feel like you need to wear it to fit in. A B is not big, so if you start wearing a B and they think you stuff, then they think you stuff, its not big deal, so what? Yeah it sucks to be teased, but try and find one of your friends and tell them that you feel bad, and then maybe they can help control the conversation. If it coems up they can help cut it short, I always wished one of my friends would take that enicitive But no one ever did.
You cant control what size you are ever, its just important to find a good bra and not care what everyone else thinks, (I know its hard, I've been through it) if they say mean things, tell them you're sorry, you don't stuff your bra, its just a bra, who really cares? Try and be mature if that doesnt work, tell them you don't really care what they think you dont stuff your bra but they're welcome to stuff theirs if it would make them happier.
I hope I helpped, love ya,
Angie91
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I'm 13/f and i have a bf. i really want to go on a date with him, and my parents wont let me!!
The only way i can go on a date with my bf is if my parents come too. That would be soooo embarrasing!! I dont get it, like i do everything i'm told- i have good grades, keep my room clean, have good friends, etc. and i have tried telling them that stuff but they said that doesn't matter because i'm just not old enough. We tried to double date with my best friend this weekend, but we couldn't. :( I feel really bad because he wants to go places besides skewl with me, but i cant!! Does anyone have suggestions on how to get them to let me go? (link)
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Hey!
I like the answer the very first person gave. It was a great idea, I think you should do that, invite him to be around your parents and let them get to know him. Yeah its boreing, but once you get to know him and they know hes a good guy, you can have him over and possibly go to his place. Then that will lead to going out to dinner or a movie once with friends. As your parents warm up to him then you will be aloud to do more fun things with him. Yeah its embarrassing, but theres two choices here, no dating, or dating with your parents.
Then try what that other person said and be responsible. Try and take on other responsibilties around the home, and do what youre told when you are told, or before you're told. Then calmly talk to your parents, ask them why you arent aloud to date and try and fix whatever they give as a response, if there is no response, other than you're not sixteen, then its an unfair situation and its injust, but when you get older you wont do it to your kids right?
I know this answer was pretty much all of them mixed together, but I think I had a bit of my own advice here, and if you don't agree, I'm sorry :(. I really do hope I helpped though. Love ya,
Angie91
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Im 13/F. Ive been wearing a size 32 AA bra for a long time now. Im getting my grad dress soon so I decided to measure if I needed a new bra. My measurements (according to various bra fitting websites) mean I am supposed to wear a size 32 B bra. I have one now but it feels acward and in my opinion looks weird. I am used to having my boobs squished against my chest and now they dont fill up my bra completely. Am I using the wrong size or do you think its just me having to get used to it? (link)
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Bras are tough. Enough said right? In most women, their bras are too small, so you were probably wearing it too small, but if you feel more comfortable in one thats smaller, try an a. Another thing to try is going and getting professionally measured because websites often dont really help.
The problem with wearing one thats too small is circulation problems can occur and it might mess up your support and hurt your back. the problem with one thats too big is you might fall out, thats why asking someone who can see you, can help.
I hope I gave you some help though, remember its not science, its clothes, so if you're wearing a size thats a bit off, life isnt over, just wear what feels right. Good luck, love ya
angie91
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last night... me, 3 of my friends, and my crush all went to my friend lacy's house. while we were there, we were just doing stupid stuff, and then i got up on a table and started baton twirling. i was doing really good, then i hit myself in the head fell off the table. it was so embarrassing. he just like, looked at me. then, to make up for what i had done.. i tried to be funny. so i pantsed my friend and she teared up. he just looked at me again. ugh! finally, the girls did a little dance routine to "thriller"... it was fun and i did really good, then i went to the bathroom when we were done and saw that i had a huge black smudge on my face and my hair was sticking up.. bad.. now i know why they are laughing. what should i say to him? is it too late to redeam myself? or am i just doomed...? (link)
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Hey!
Well unless hes one of those stupid guys (which actually isnt that uncommon, but we'll hope for the best) he probably realized how hard you were trying to make him laugh and he'll probably just think you're random and funny but try to hard. I don't know for certain if he'll do anything, but he might think you're cute and ask you out, so hope for the best.
At school, or whenever you're around him, for damage control, try to forget he's around and be yourself. Be normal, because if you continue to try hard, then he wont want to hang out with you. Dont try to hard to be what he wants because you may end up being the opposite.
and in the future, just remember when you're with your friends, be with your friends, act how you would normally act not the way you think he wants you to act.
As far as redeaming yourself, theres probably something you could say, but I think you dont really need damage control, because theres a chance that you could just make it worse.
If you concentrate on being yourself, everything will be fine. And if he doesnt show any interest, then he doesnt deserve someone who wants him so bad she'll pants her friend :P
You're not doomed. And if he doesnt seem to be acting weird around you, (weird as in, ahh shes that creepy girl run awayyyyy) then I recomend asking him out. The worst he can say is... uh I dont really think that would be a good idea right? So theres no harm in trying. Good luck, I hope I helped,
Love ya,
angie91
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im 15 and i need a parent to go with me to get my cartilidge pierced but she cant cause shes sick but she wrote a note giving me permission then signed it..do you need anything else other than an signature like a liscense or lisence number? thank you soo much for answering! (link)
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Hey!
Laws are different in different places. Call the place you want to go to and ask them what they think you need.They can give you a much better answer than we can. I hope I helped though, If I knew more about where you live and stuff I would have answered better sorry.
Angie91
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my msn messenger won't allow me to like chat with anyone and like my computer keeps saying it has a virus does anyone know how to get rid of the virus
i have another questions
i have limewire and this norton antivirus always pops up! when i click accept it pops up again!
my friends have limewire but this doesn't happen to them
help please?
thanks. (link)
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Hey!
You know its pretty funny, I explained this exact same thing to my friend two hours ago :P.
Most people dont realize that limewire makes your computer a) slower and b) virus...-y. (:P) I hav limewire, but I only use it when I want to download a song, I dont use it when I need to listen the songs I just transfer them on to windows media player. That way you can use MSN and windows at the same time. Like someone said, delete limewire and scan your comp, then you can reinstall limewire if you want and download more music. If you're using the free version of limewire, then the problem is you downloaded a song that wasnt licenced. It's really quite hard to find a liscened song out of the millions of songs they have actually, and thats why there are a lot of viruses added, but this will keep happening as long as you have limewire, (I mean keep using it) you can spend thirty bucks and buy a safer version, or you can do this non illegally and buy your music or rent it from a music library.
I hope that answers your question Love ya,
Angie91
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Lately all I want to do is cry. But I can't cry, it's a sign of weakness, right? But I'm not sad, I'm just.....I don't know. Have I held in my tears to long? I never cry when needed, because I don't have a shoulder to cry on(friend). If I cry at school, they will ask me what's wrong, but after I'm done crying they are just going to treat me like crap again, and if I cry at home, well I can't because I have to be a good rolemodle for my autistic brother, I can't just break down and cry! So i have no where to go to cry. What should I do? I don't know if I'll break down at home or school, all I know is that I'm going to have to cry sooner or later. (link)
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Hey!
I totally get what you mean. Sometimes we go through phazes where we just dont feel like we can go on any longer. And sometimes the best way to get it out is to cry. Yeah sometimes its going to feel like you're not supposed to cry, but you have to once in a while. Everyone does. And with any emotion, keeping it inside just isnt very healthy. So do some of the things other people said liek take a long relaxing shower or watch a sad movie and see where that takes you. Taking a deep breath is awesome too someone mentioned that I think just do whatever it takes to make you feel okay, and sometimes that means letting it all out and crying.
There are lots of places to cry, someone said the bathroom, thats a good last resort, but its also kinda depressing. Your room before you go to sleep is okay, go to a movie theatre, its dark and no one can see you just watch the movie and think about your feelings.
Sometimes all of the places and all of the things dont work, and you have to get your emotions out some other way, the way to do taht is to use your creativity, draw a picture write a poem, or keep a journal (I recomend the last one highly) let everything out. Read a book (or write one :P) do something that makes you happy. but hey, angie, thats not going to help me cry, you say, but sometimes the things that make you happy, lket you release that bit of emotion you need to get out and help you to feel just alittle bit better.
If all of that doesnt work, and you need another way to get it all out, write it out, write a letter to anybody (you can write it to me if you want), you dont have to send it, just write it to explain what your life is like and dont read it. Just write everything. It can be a page or a book. whatever it takes to make you get every single little thing out. And you'll probably find that in the end most of the feelings will be anger. And later in life a few months from now, if you still feel this way read over it and write some more. And then take the stuff you read and try and find ways to fix this. If its loneliness, join a club and make friends if its feelings sorry for yourself (about your brothers autisim and your parents not paying as much attention to you as him,) then try ad talk to someone about it.
If you're having problems at school try and figure out why and how to change them because sometimes a new outlook on things will help.
Remember this, no matter how hard life can get or how much you just want to give up and let it all loose you are important, and people care about you. Not just your parents or siblings, but people here too. People wouldnt answer your question if they didnt care, people wouldnt talk to you at school if they didnt care. There are lots of people who care about you.
And yeah it might happen, you might break down, but if you do, don't worry about people being mad at you, or getting uncomfortable about it, its life and no one can change you and who you are, when things happen out of control, sometimes its a sign somethings wrong, and maybe it will get you the help you need.
I really hope I helped, if you need anything, I'm here. Love ya,
Angie91
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This guy has been going out with his girlfriend for a long time. I just moved to a different city a couple months ago,and i made a lot of friends, including him. he's like one of my best friends, nad i hug him like everyday. i'm not the one who'd mess around with another girl's boyfriend, ecspecially when she's one of my friends. that's against my morals. but recently, his hands have been wandering around where i feel is inappropriate since he has a girlfriend. he'll try to touch my butt, or he'll hug me a little too close(i can feel some things that i shouldn't if you know what i mean...). i tell him to stop or will push him away, but he keeps doing it. he even asked me out when he's still going out with his girlfriend! should i tell his girlfriend that she needs to watch him a little more closely? i don't want her to think that i'm trying to break them up, because she's knows that we're real close friends, and i don't want to seem jealous. (link)
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Hey!
I think that you need to sit him down one day and tell him that you like being his friend but you have morals and you dont think that he should eb flirting with you so much when hes dating her. Tell him that absolutely nothing will ever happen between the two of you while he's dating her. Tell him the exact things that you dont like him doing like touching your butt, and tell him that the more he does it, the more he loses you and if he wants you to still be his friend then he needs to smarten up and see that he can't have two girls.
Don't tell the girlfriend, theres no point in that, it'll just make her nervous and feel like she has to watch him 24/7 and that if she doesnt shes going to lose him. If he continues to act the way he does around you, then stop letting him. If he puts his hand on your butt slap him in the face. Then when that scene gets created that obviously will if you start slapping him in the face, word will get out to her. If he hugs you too closely push him off. Just do what you can, pretend hes that sick perverted kid that you dont want to get too close to.
This is a tough situation because hes your friend, but sometimes guys wander, and if he's wandering already, the relationship probably doesnt have much longer, so hopefully this wont happen for too long. Good luck, andI hoep I helped love ya,
Angie91
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i can not figure this out! i really like this guy let call him bob. well everytime i see him my heart pounds against my ribs like crazy i get butterflys everytime i think of him it's crazy! but then he asked my friend if i would go out with him and she said i dont know. then i got that feeling... like the feeling that your heart sank like when you really don't want to do something. i think i am afriad of commitment and having a boyfriend. i have never had a serious one. i really like to have fun but i really like bob! how can i get over these dumb commitment issues? (link)
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Hey!
Well, those answers were... interesting.
heres the thing, everyone afraid of something right, whether it be hieghts or rollercoasters or rejection. Theres something you've got commitment, sure you can have more than one, but this is one you've got, so heres what you need to do, in order to get over something you need to put yourself out there and do it. Like one of the people said, commitment doesnt come right away, it comes after awhile, you just need to take a bit of time and go slowly. Since he showed interest and you didnt, its time to put your own self out there and ask him out. This will be the first step at getting over this. Ask him on a simple date where you two can talk alot. During the date tell him up front that you have commitment issues and you want to take things slowly if thats okay. Then after that try and concentrate on having fun. Let him make hs moves, and make your own. Dont worry about when hes going to be your boyfriend, infact tell him that you'll tell him when you're ready to be his girlfriend and that way you dont ahev to constantly worry about when hes going to put that pressure on you and ask.
Sometimes these types of things take a long time, and lots of steps, so if you want some help to further this issue, let me know and I can help you along. I hope I helpped and clarified this a bit. Love ya,
Angie91
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alright so theres this guy and we are sort of friends with benifits i guess you could say we've made out a few times, and we kiss and hold hands alot, but he hasent asked me out yet, so today in english that he loved me and i just kind of smiled and strangly it made me really sad because i promised myself i wouldnt say i love you to him unless i was forsure i really did, because then i thought it would mean alot more to both of us..so it sort of pissed me off that he was probally lying, so then he was like do you love me back?? and i was like uhm idk, i really like you but im not sure if im ready to say "love" yet and then the rest of the day i was really sad for some reason like i felt like balling my eyes out, im really confused here as you can tell?? do you guys think he means it? and why did it make me so depressed? (link)
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Well forst of all, in most cases guys either a) think you want them to say it so they say it just in case or b) really mean it. They dont like saying it unless they mean it because it proves possibility for rejection. Who lieks rejection? Which is what ended up happening right?
But a and b are pretty different eh? so how do you find out. Oh you could be a spy and follow him around... but wait that wont solve anything- so how do you really figure it out? you ask.
Love is a crazy thing. there are lots of ways it can make you feel. It can be happy, sad, confused. But the sad thing, is that love is attributed with commitment, when love is love. It's not marrige or even anything serious. It's just love. So you need to think about it and see how you feel. Are you in love with him? If you are then say it. And remember love doesnt have to be that head over heels love it can just be strong feelings. But if it doesnt feel right dont say it.
One of the reasons you may feel sad is because you dont want this relationship to end. You're enjoying how things are (I may be totally off) so in order to keep the things the way you like them you didnt say love, so what you have to decide is what you want to happen, and if you dont know, then let things take their course, but if you do know, outline them to him and tell him the way you feel, yeah thing will probably drift and take their own paths, but its better to be on the same page.
I hope that answers your question, if it didnt, give me some more info and I can try and help you out some more. Love ya
Angie91
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my mom is so mean lately she comes from work and all she wants to do is argue. so lately ive been going out alot with m my friends, that bothers her!! all i do is go to their house i dont do anything bad! she always talks bad to me if i ask her a simple question she would just answer me so roudly. i cant take it anymore! so she always tries to find things to argue with me about. she told me i can never go out with my friends anymore. but seeing that tomorow is saturday my bestfriend invited me to go to her house and her mom also asked me to come. now i know my mom is going to say no. but what can i say or do to convicne her please help. i really wat to go to her house. i really need help. my mom is becoming meaner like every second. and i have tried to talk to her alot she doesnt listen and when i do try to talk to her she always gest mad and tells me that im changing or whatever. so please dont tell me to talk to her. i tried alot of times and it neevr works it just gets worse.
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Hey!
I read alittle bit of the other answers, so I hope this doesnt repeat what they say. They both made good points, but I think that a) you need to stand up and not take what shes dishing out and b) you need to know that shes not doing this because she doesnt want you to grow up.
In this type of situation, you need to show that you are mature and handle it calmly.
Tell her that you were wondering if you could sit down and talk with her, tell her that your friend invited you to go over to her house and you would really love to go, but if she has a specific reason for you not to go, then you're willing to be mature about it and not go. and see what she says.
Soon after that, not the same day not the next day but a few days after ask her to sit down again. Give her half an hour or so to calm down and destress (and for future refrence don't talk to your mom for over half an hour after she gets home from work, if she says hi how are you, say hey, I'm good, but nothing else. Wait a little while and then try and talk to her.) Then after a while try and tell her that you want to have a good relationship with her. Tell her you love her and you want to be able to talk to her about things, but at the moment she is bringing her stresses from work home with her. Tell her you bring your stresses from school home at times, but thats really not a good idea, so suggest that if you are stressed, just say I'm alittle stressed out right now, can we talk about this later, and then when you're destressed, make an effort to go back to the conversation. Tell her that you're sorry for the times you may have brought stress home, and you hope that in the future you both can keep your home as stress free as possible because its not fair to bring it out on the people around you.
Now, the first person announced that she thought that the reason that your mother gets upset about you going out was because she doesnt want you to grow up. Thats not true, shes glad you're growing up, the problem is that she misses you when you'e gone, and she feels that she doesnt get to spend as much time with you, so the best way to counteract that, is to ask her to clear an evening, say tuesdays. And spend the evening shopping, or make it movie night or join a bowling team. Find something that the two of you can share once a week and that way when you want to see your friends you can and when she wants to go out, now that you're old enough you can hang out by yourself too. Like when ever your mom goes out and leaves you alone for an evening, thats how it feels for her. And you probably go out with your friends 10x more than she goes out with hers, and yeah its because youre a kid and shes an adult, but it doesnt mean she doesnt want a life.
I hope that answered your question, let me know if you need anything else, I'm in the same situation,
love ya,
Angie91
Btw, this isnt a knock at you at all, but for the amount of people on this site that care about the ratings, there are double that in people who dont, and I'm one of those, in most cases, I dont even answer questiosn where they say I rate fives or I rate or anything, but I wanted to help you because I care and I think that thats the point of this site, so you can put I rate in other questions, but I think in most cases you'll get the people who care if you just ask, you'll get the people who care About Ratings, if you say I rate. I hope that gives you a little insight into that, please don't take offense or anything, I just wanted to explain :D.
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okay i like this guy and he is my ex's bestfriend
me and my ex broke up LAST YEAR and now he has a new gf who he has been dating for like 8 months
and now i like his bestfriend.... and me and his bestfriend talk on the phone like for 55mins to an hour.. but i call him most the time.. b.c he's the shy type.. but yah.. and when Dj (my ex's bestfriend) was going out with Kayla he never called her..and when she called him he talked to her for like 10 mins tops.. not even that.. most the time.. and me and him can talk about anything .. its just like when we talk we end up talking about girls he think is hot.. and there asses so I KNOW im in the FRIEND ZONE!! and my quesiton is how do i get out?..what can do besides flirtingg..?
btw.. im kinda scared of rejection. (link)
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hey!
Friendzones are like Iraq eh (according to the person before me)? Well then not too sure what that answer means...
You are right, you have to get out of this fast before he thinks of you as his buddy, and I think that the best way to do that is to tell him right away that you like him. I know you're scared of rejection, but the only way to get over a fear is to just go at it without any regrets. Think positively worst case senario, he says he doesnt feel the same way about you right? Thats not scary is it? Getting over a fear of rejection is exactly the same as getting over a fear of hieghts or a fear of rollercoasters. You cant do it unless you put yourself out there and arent afraid to get hurt, because if you don't then you'll live a sheltered life and it will prevent you from experiencing the things you want most.
So heres what I would do, to make this easier on you, I would say when you're talking abotu girls he likes say: "You know the type of guy I like..." and put in obvious clues that its him like his hair colour and his name starts with...
then once he should get the jist of it say, "So you know these types of guys I like, they're a lot like you eh? so if I were to ask a guy liek you out do you think that a guy like you would say yes to a guy like me?" and then he should get the clue. If he says something like I dunno, then maybe he doesnt get it, and try asking him out a little while later. Thats just one way to do it, but if you need a few more ideas, let me know, I've got ya covered. Hope I helped, love ya.
Angie91
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My aunt told me that the reason why guys never seem interested in me is not because I'm unattractive or anything, but because I'm "completely unapproachable" (even though I'm not aware of it) and people don't want to be around me because they're afraid that I'll make fun of them........even though I've never made fun of anyone before.
How can I be more "approachable"? Smile more, stop listening to my iPod in public, what should I do to make myself seem more open?
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hey!
do you know what dating market value is? I was kinda confused by that persons answer... they make dating seem like the stock market...
I'm not really insane with dating, it happens slowly for me and I'm okay with that. I think that what your aunt told you is good because it tells you that yeah you might be doing something wrong, but unless you need to get married in the next few months, I really don't think you have anything to worry about. I think that what you need to do in order to make yourself open for people, not just guys, to talk to you is to look at how you act in public. Are you one of those quiet girls who keeps to herself or are you one of those obnoxious girls who laughs even when no ones making a joke. (or most likely you're something totally different) just look at your attitude towards life. Are you one of those girls who complains 24/7 (I have a bit of a problem with that once in a while :P) or are you way to peppy no one wants to get to close to you (that can be a problem of mine too.) Your aunt says you make fun of people, but you disagree, so look at life the way others would see it and look at the way you stand, talk act (stand= are your arms crossed, and tight or are you loose and inviting talk= do you interupt others or do make others runt he conversation act= are you obnoxious or quiet) and everything. And then see if there are small things you can do (like smile or stop listening to your ipod) in order to tweak it. You have to find the fine line between changing yourself and fixing things to make yourself a better person because sometimes people miss the line and change themselves completely for a guy.
I know you were looking for standard straight forward how do I change this, type of answers, and I dont really know if anyone gave you those, but I think it takes a lot of searching yourself in order to find what you are looking for, and it's really hard for me to tell you oh if you stand this way guys will like you or if you say this word twenty times a guy will magically appear :P I think that its something you can figure out, but if you have any specific questions lay em on me. And one last tip, if you're "unapproachable" then approach others.
Hope I helpped, love ya,
Angie91
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16/f been with my boyfriend for 10 months. and i messed up realll bad.. don't have time to get into details, but i always have this major attitude and i said something snotty that i really shouldn't have.. i'm an ass. i'm so freaking sorry and i don't know what to do to make it up to him. i am so lost and i'm a mess and i am defnintely wrong here so don't say anything about that.. i'm a complete idiot with the best boyfriend in the whole entire world, and everyone notices. and i always take him for granted.. what the heck should i doo!?? i need something fast, thanks ♥ (link)
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Hey!
Well I like the other persons answer, you should do a quick email or call though. Tell him that you love and you take him for granted and you wish you could take back everything and you want to show the entire world how much you love him and that you are going to make it up to him. Tell him you're an ass and you;re freaking sorry and you dont know what to do to make it up to him. Tell him you're an idiot and hes te best boyfriend in the entire world. (I copied all of that out of your question btw :P). Tell him all of that stuff and more, that will give him the jist of it, then you need to sit down and plan a day. From early in the morning, making him breakfast to a walk on the beach at sunset, make it a day for him, to show him how much you love him and that you care so much about him that you are willing to do anything for him.
I think that should answer your question, let me know if you need any ideas for how to show him you care, I hope I helpped, love ya,
Angie91
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