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Hey everyone! my name is Jennilee. Im in my first year of highschool, and have a group of really awesome friends. I guess you could say im the "advisor" and the person people come to when they have problems. I always give an honest answer beacuse I think there is nothing worse than being fake..and I always let that person know that sometimes the truth hurts but if you don't own up, it's difficult to move on. I have had struggles of my own in the past, and there are days when i too need advice. i've lived through problems that I know some people are still going through. I also have friends who have had problems and we all came together to help each other out. When you move past things in your life that for so long held you back, its great to share your knowledge with those who need it. With that said, if you ever need my advice, honest opinion, or whatever it may be I'm here.

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k i sweetly answered this question and the girl rated me a five but in her comment she went totally spaz.

Okay, so A is the kind of guy that only wants o get into guys pants, get rid of him and look for another one whereas B is the kind of guy that wants a relationship...and if something goes wrong b/w ANY of them...I'm like their whole spill it out agree with me and keepp your mouth shut post and I seriosuly can't deal with that right now.

hahha so yeah if u have any idea what shes talking about let me know heres the link
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=452590
well amaing jay-lee what do you think? spaz or normal person being a spaz? whats the dif lmaooooo
thanks in advance jay-lee you are an amazing columnist,
angie91

wow angie that made noo sense hahah im gona email u later but i g2g sry lmao...i guess this was kinda pointless hahah ttyl

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im trying to make a cd full of songs that i like but i cant think of any so i was wondering if you all could help me brain storm. I listen to hip hop r&b that stuff but basicly i listen to everything... please nd thanks

im a fan of r&b and hip hop etc too, my brother has some really nice songs he put on a c.d my two favourites are: Funny how by Jagged Edge (such a nice song) just fine by chris brown. those are two musts, hehe for me at least:P maybe you'll like them too! :)

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14/f. what is a good way to even out your skin tone? i'm not looking for a makeup or anything, just like something i can do/put on my face to even it out more. because my cheecks are always redder then the rest of my face. i have this little pimples on my cheeks that are always there and basically never go away and they are redder than the rest of my face.

I too have uneven skin. it helps to exfoliate your face a couple times a week (st. Ives works well) using creams and such and finding the right product that works for your skin can take a while to discover but you have to try different things. using cleansers instead of harsh soaps work well on pimples, and also can help to even out skin. dont touch your face if you dont have to, it spreads unnessecary dirt on you skin. washign your face twice a day helps too, but be careful, overwashing can lead to more pimples and dry skin. before bed is a good time to apply creams etc to your face. these are just ideas. it may not work for everyone but its worth a try if what you're doign isnt working. you can always talk to a dermatologist too! hope this helped you out! good luck!!!!

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i got my hair cut. and its ALOT shorter then i wanted it to be. like depressingly short and its growing back SO SLOW!!! is there anything i can do or and product i can use to make my hair grow longer? THANK YOUUU =)
ohh and i have NO intrest in getting extensions

ok I know exactly how you feel. I got my hair cut too short about 5 months ago. I wanted to cut off 2 inces but my hairdresser took off four!!! it's real rough. I cried for a loong time but when i stopped I realized that longig for your hair to grow back will do two things: not work haha, and make it seem liek it'll be forever until your hair grows back. If you're tha unhappy with it, mess aroudn with it and find a style you coudl work with until you get soem length. There isnt really anythign you can do to make it grow...but it never hurts to eat healthy and overall be positve, things tend to work out better that way. hope I helped!

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alright! there are many hot guys at my cousins school. and im always with my cousin we are like best friends and i know like all of her friends! i pratically know her whole grade through her haha. but i go to a different school. but you see these guys..its like my cousin isnt really popular and doesnt talk to the guys i think are hot and i wish i was pretty enough to get their attention? and like at their school football game i went and i saw this kid i thought was hot (ive seen him before) and he was talking to these people my cousin was talking to and i was just standing there looking at him laughing! i dont even think he looked at me though..but i dont want to approach them because everytime i try that it never works and they're always like hi??...its weird that i dont know you but okay. its awkward! and my cousin cant introduce me to any of these guys because she isnt friends with them. and i dont have AIM but i have MYSPACE and i like messaged this one kid a long time ago but he never messaged back =( so then i felt stupid. everyone thinks im soo pretty but i just dont see it! and im extremely shy and not outgoing and i have a very low self esteem. ive never had a boyfriend and everyone is in shock when they hear that. its either i get involved with the wrong guy or im always just the good friend. im sick of it!! and everytime i try to like slip in a comment or a hey can i see that? just to try and like start a convo it never works and theyre like surprised that im talking to them because i dont know them haha. ahh help!?

by the way im 16, female

Well ok, When you want to approach someone, and have a guy, plus have him notice you the first thing that will mke you stand out, noticed etc, is if you're confident. You're a 16 year old female!! us women are beautiful (thats not the only thing that should matter by the way) but you need to have soem confidence girl!!! just be positive and sure of yourself (to a point obviously, you dont want to be rude) peopel pick up on that when you're shy, and it makes you hard to approach, let alone approach others! If you really want something to work between you and another guy, you have to believe you can not only do it, but do it with confidence and self esteem. I had my own struggle with self esteem, but after getting support from friends and just believing in myself for once, things started to work out in my favor. You have to sometiems wait a looong time to find the right person, but just know that it'll be worth it. would you rather rush to meet a guy and he turns out to be a jerk? or take your time, be confident in what you say and get to know him? If you're really quiet and shy, sometiems that attracts the wrong type of guy (controling people, jerks etc :P) so just keep your chin up! and believe what you say when talking to guys. Once you have soem confidence, talking to others and findign good conversation coems way easier. Hope I helped! good luck :)

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My mother and I dont get along. & No matter what I do I try soo hard to get along with her but its too hard. I'm 14 and born and raised in America. But she was born in the Philippines so she has a different out look on everything...

I completely understand what you're going through. Im 15, born in canada and my mom was born in trinidad. Something I always try with my mom, is find something, and I mean search really hard for something we both enjoy and look forward too. something we can count on doing whether it be once a week or everyday. My experience is, my mother absolutely loves icecream, and so do I. We also happen to enjoy murder mysteries and crime shows, so you mix the two and you have a girls night! This may not be for you, but what I'm trying to say is this: It's easy to lose your patience and at times you may feel like you've tried everything and nothing seems to work. For the last two years my mom and I would fight a lot, but I talked to her about how she was brought up and I didn't only have an understanding of where she was coming from, but realized that it's what she knows. So even though our parents seem really difficult and like they just don't get it, Think about yourself in their situation, it probably isnt easy. Talk to your mom about how you feel, and explain to her YOUR situation. If you're calm and mature about it she'll listen. writing a letter is always powerful too. There's no doubt that you love your mom or else you wouldn't be trying so hard to get along. I'm sure she wants things between you guys to work and I hope everything works out for you. JUst keep this in mind: Through good and bad your mom will be there and she loves you more than you can imagine, parents are very special You only get one of each in this world.

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