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13/F. This entire school year I have been wearing a 32AA bra. My friends have always made fun of me for my little boobs. Well my mother got me fitted this weekend and according to the people I should be wearing a 32B bra instead. Now they dont look right on me and when I told my friends they didn't believe at all that was my size and even asked me if I stuffed. Im too afraid to wear my new bra cause I think people will believe I stuff or will say mean things about me. I dont like wearing this size bra and im going to my best friends house tonight and she deffinately doesnt believe me. What should I do?
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The lady who told you could be wrong also. Try your bra and ask your self a few questions.
1. When I raise my hands in the air, does my bra pull up.
2. Does it feel comfortable?
3. Are ths the straps not falling off my shoulder?
4. Can I wear this bra through the whole day without anything bothering me?
5. Is there space between your boobs and your bra? A little is fine but is there a lot of space?
If no, it could the bra is too much or too small. If you think it looks too big, then don't wear it. Your friends will need to accept your bra size. They may think your stuffing it, but the more you wear your bra that fits you (If your a 32B) then wear it! Over the days, your friends will accept who you are. When your over at your friends house, try to keep your mind off of bras!
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Who cares about other people's opinions? The truth is, you are a size 32B & no matter what anyone thinks or says, it's not changing. Don't get so worked about stuff like that. If people want to judge, then let them. It's all apart of being an adolescent; luckily most people eventually grow out of it.
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Don't worry about your friends. They shouldn't really care about what number is on the tag of your bra. Since you got professionally fitted, that's the size that you're really supposed to wear. It's just a number, so don't be afraid of it! I have like no boobs, but I wear a B too. Don't worry about what people think. They won't think that you stuff or whatnot -your boobs are the same size, your bra is just a different size. If you're really afraid of what your friends say, just say that a professional fit you. They shouldn't care so much. =)
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If your mum took you to a proper bra store and had you fitted by a professional and they said that your bra size is 32B then that is the size you are and if your friends beg to differ tell them that the bra lady would know more about it than them and that they are probably the ones wearing the wrong bra size.
Although if you feel more comfortable wearing the AA bra then wear that one
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why do you care what other people think about your boobs. it's none of their business and i really don't know why you told them your "new cup size" in the first place.... and if they were really your friends then they wouldn't make fun of you. and if its really that important to you to let them know you bra size then cut the tag out and show them.
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If the B-32 bra fits then you should were it no matter what your friends say. Heck you can't your breast stuffed up in that lil AA-32 bra for ever, its just not healthy. Don't let your friends comments affect your desision. Just beacaus they don't believe your a b-32 dosn't make it true.
Hope this helps!
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hey!
I'm the opposite, I have pretty big boobs, but I still wear a b-c and my friends don't believe me and have always made fun of me for having big boobs. I always tell myself, whatever, this is how I am, am if a B fits you, then it fits you, if it's too big, wear a different size, but dont wear a different size because you feel like you need to wear it to fit in. A B is not big, so if you start wearing a B and they think you stuff, then they think you stuff, its not big deal, so what? Yeah it sucks to be teased, but try and find one of your friends and tell them that you feel bad, and then maybe they can help control the conversation. If it coems up they can help cut it short, I always wished one of my friends would take that enicitive But no one ever did.
You cant control what size you are ever, its just important to find a good bra and not care what everyone else thinks, (I know its hard, I've been through it) if they say mean things, tell them you're sorry, you don't stuff your bra, its just a bra, who really cares? Try and be mature if that doesnt work, tell them you don't really care what they think you dont stuff your bra but they're welcome to stuff theirs if it would make them happier.
I hope I helpped, love ya,
Angie91
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I think you shouldn't care what people think. Hun, if it's YOUR size, then there's NOTHING you can do about it! Obviously you HAVE to wear it, or you'll go bra-less. Don't listen to anyone. Wear the bra. :)
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Well, i'm 14 and I have like size ZERO. LOL so don't worry about it. If they make fun of you agian just be like shut up, why are you so interested in what size I wear?
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It's your size. Wear the right size. There's no reason to be sharing these types of things with their friends if they're going to be immature about it. It doesn't matter if they believe you and they don't have to know what bra you are wearing in the first place. So basically, don't do anything. This isn't something you need to be worrying about.
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You could try a A sized bra. It is doubtful that you grew 2 sizes in so little time. This will fit well and not make you look too big. Hope I helped.
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ok why would they even care?? seriously! tell them that it's none of their business and they have no right to be looking there anyways!
just tell the truth if you have to, say something like I got fitted and now I wear a 32B not a 32AA.
seriously, tell them that it's none of their business and forget about it! they should be your friend because of who you are and because you are nice. not because you wear a smaller size bra. that is just down right stupid. Tell them that they should worry about other things other than what size bra you have.
what kind of friends are they? friends don't make fun of friends.
do you think maybe your mom made a mistake fitting you? try going to a personal fitter. If it looks totally wrong, then it is. Wear a size bra that actually looks good and feel comfortable. You shouldn't have to wear a bra that makes you feel uncomfortable.
I hope I helped!
-volleyball2150
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