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okay so i'm a little scared i'm 13f and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me and i havn't even started my period yet and i'm afraid if i have it with him something bad might happen can someone please help me i'm afraid. (link)
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heyy ur only 13!! and plus your scared so why should you do it? to please him? Just tell him that your not ready and if he makes a big scene out of it then you know hes not a true boyfriend. Believe me, there are plenty of risks in having sex. (getting pregnant, getting an STD etc) You should wait untill your not afraid and you understand the consequences. Tell him straight up that your not ready. I'm 13 too and i was thinking of having sex but after i learned all the consequences i decided that i will wait untill im older. Hopefully you will make the right decesion too:-)
-Krazy
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Alright so I need to start reading a new book and I want a good recommendation.
Whats your favorite book, why?
Or
Whos your favorite writer? In poetry or story writing. Why? (link)
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1)a REALLY good book is "the outsiders" by S.E. HINTON
2) ROMIETTE AND JULIO-->A TWIST TO THE FIRST ONE:-)
3)MEGAN MEADE'S GUIDE TO THE MCGOWAN GUYS----> A REALLY GOOD BOOK TOO
if u need any more infor on those books just ask me!!
-Krazyy
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my mom told me to pack up my things because we will be moving out. So I don't really have much stuff in there so I am confused I feel like I don't know what to do. MY uncle will be coming over to help and she's probably going to be with him and I don't know how I am supposed to be. Help I'm confused I feel like I would just be hanging there waiting for my mom'm help which is what I don't want to happen. How do I get out of this embarrassing situation? Becuase right now I really hate my mom and her attitude towards me. (link)
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Just listen to your mom now and pack up whatever is your's around the house. After your done and your mom is free ask all the questions you want. Keep me posted on what happens!
-Krazyy
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I hate her she is more immature than me. She's age 40 something.I swear I just hate her. She hurts my feelings too much but for now I am stuck living with her even though I can move out. I hate it I feel so helpless and irritated. She's an emotional abuser now.I've told her my embarrasing secrets hoping that she would understand and help me but no she just used it to annoy me. I wish I was gone. (link)
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i think you should just tell her seriously that you cant take it anymore. Tell her that if it keeps up then your going to have to move out or something because the emotional abuse is really getting to you. I think you should try that and if you need any more advice do not hesitate to ask me! Hope i helped you:-)
-krazyy
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Okay,
im not usually the type to ask for help but in this situation im soooo helpless.
So theres this boy in my life that i have been crushing on for the past 6 months and he totally knows i like him. at times i think he likes me too but im not certain. im always thinking of something to say or do for him to notice me. is that wrong? or what can i do or say to him to make him want/talk to me more? (link)
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well of course you cant make a guy like you and if he knows that you like him then he already noticed you! If he likes you he will ask you out since he knows that you already like him. If he doesnt ask you out then you know that he doesnt like you. Sorry this is all i can think of right now!
-Krazy
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I can’t help but feel as though I’m not headed anywhere good.
I have not one, not two, but three mental disorders, one of which they discovered in me. Lucky, no? The first one, depression, was discovered when I was in seventh grade (I’m in ninth now) and pushed me to attempt suicide several times. I got over that and moved straight on to anxiety, which proceeded to generally be a bitch to me in all areas. Then, my doctor managed to identify the third one, which I’d had for years. That’s the unidentified one, which I like to call “Emotionless Bastard Syndrome”. Basically, my emotions turn off, sometimes when provoked and sometimes for no particular reason. I’ll be somewhere and I’ll just go completely numb.
Over the past few years, I’ve started to feel more and more… Distant. I’ve read very heavy books and graphic novels, and grow more and more disgusted by my own species. I wrote this, which is probably not a good sign:
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Dear Humanity,
What the fuck happened?
I mean this in all seriousness. You were doing so well. Genuinely, I think everyone expected you would turn out great. You certainly had an excellent start…. You discovered the wheel, fire, electricity, and a whole lot of complicated nuclear stuff. I was always able to overlook your shortcomings because of your promising future, but now this shit has gone too far. You’ve pushed your luck, folks.
Where to start? I guess the first thing I should mention is this little consumer ideal thing you’ve got going for you. You just can’t stop buying shit… And not even shit you need, stupid shit. There’s also bullshit, but I’ll get to that later. So anyway, you kicked off with all this capitalism and free enterprise stuff and that seemed like it was working out, better than communism in any event. But then you got your second addiction, and this addiction was to buying. Didn’t matter what, you would buy pretty much anything and everything regardless of whether you needed it or not. Once again, began pretty innocent. You had free enterprise, you could buy or sell whatever shit you needed, and it was good. But Jesus Christ. How many brands of vacuum cleaners need to fucking exist in the first place? Humanity, I sentence you to watch the movie Fight Club about eight hundred times.
Next, how about we talk about ignorance. This is another strong one, particularly amongst the young. Now, for fuck’s sake, you guys are inheriting the future, and this is the kind of mindset you’ve got? There’s other people starving all over the world, there are kids with dads who rape them every night, and the best complaint you have is about the color of your god damn iPod? Also, if there’s a country that represents the human mindset, it’s America. You use up 80% of the world’s resources, ignore the counsel of other countries, invade smaller nations whilst trying to force your system of government upon them, and have the balls to call yourself leader of the fucking free world? Christ, Teddy Roosevelt would be rolling over in his grave.
And while we get to the subject of invasion and wars, I would like to politely ask the lot of you to sit and wait for five fucking minutes before blowing each other up for once. Come the fuck on. It seems like as soon as everybody has their conflicts resolved and they don’t give a shit about their differences, someone gets greedy or stupid or pissed and decides to find another reason to kill people. And before you know it, BAM! War. Another fucking war. Who’d have guessed? Whether it be for revenge or land or money or resources or women or honor or stupidity, it seems vital to you that you kill a whole bunch of each other in order to satisfy you for a short period of time. Come on guys, at least be original.
Moving on, I’d like to point out the royally shitty job you’ve done of taking care of the place you got handed to you. It was classy, too: Millions of other species, vast geological wonders, and natural occurrences that could only be described as miracles, and you had to move in and burn all the forests and kill all the whales and destroy your fucking ozone. An ozone, I have to give you credit for that one. That’s impressive. I mean, it’s one thing to go out and be completely selfish bastards to all the other beings your sharing the planet with, but to destroy something that existed only for your protection in the god damn first place? Humanity, your incredible selfishness and short-sightedness remains unmatched. I can’t imagine. I just can’t imagine.
Now, lets move on to our most pressing matter, which would be bullshit. By this, I would mean the bullshit that you’ve clouded your worlds with. It’s on your news, in your books, filling up your churches… No fucking surprise it’s in your minds. Still not clear what bullshit is? You believing a woman who tells you that the 9/11 widows are all profiting from their husbands deaths, that’s bullshit. A politician who tells you that the rights of a lump of cells outrank those of a crippled man or a grandmother with Alzheimer’s, that’s bullshit. A Texan who tells you that someone else’s happiness detracts from his happiness, that’s bullshit. Every dinner table manner you’ve ever had to learn, every polite lie you’ve ever had to tell, every useless algebra fact they ever drilled into your brain, that’s all prime BS. And a clergy member who tells you that god is amidst all the burning bodies and screaming children? What you have here is real bullshit.
In the bullshit department, religion is the undisputed champion, and always has been. As usual, an innocent start: A bunch of people decide that life sucks and they don’t know what comes after it, so there’s some big guy in the sky who’s taking care of all that for them. I repeat: Come the fuck on. I really would think you would have gotten over this shit by now. This primitive idea has been defended in so many ways for so many years it grows sickening. “Why did god burn my house down?” He works in mysterious ways. “Why did he give me cancer?” We are all a part of his plan. “Why does he murder the children?” Their time on earth was done. Has it ever occurred to you that right now, and I mean right now, there are people who are living lives that will consist of more misery and less happiness than you could ever imagine? There comes a time where you just have to stop rationalizing and admit the blindingly obvious: You are alone in your sad little existence.
Humanity, your being has been a downward spiral for thousands of years, and I believe that you are now beyond redemption or any kind of savior. Buy your last clothes, kill your last enemies, suck your last drops of oil from the earth, and pray to whatever gods or myths you may wish. You were so promising… But your time has finally come. Like all species, you will fade into the past, where perhaps others will learn from your failure. But for now, all you can do is hope for the best.
Truly,
Me
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I began to feel as though the weight of the world was on my shoulders. Now, it seems as though I’m so inside myself that no one knows my true face… I hide behind a wall of atheism and skepticism, which is probably more curiosity gone wrong than a genuine staunch opinion. Every day I’d look up more and more reasons why God doesn’t exist… And boy did I find them. But I recently realized that what I’m looking for is not disproof: It’s proof. I want to believe so badly that someone out there more competent than humans handling this, but I just can’t bring myself to. I recently got a girlfriend, which helped a lot.
And now, I feel like I’m chasing a dream or a ghost of some sort. I’ll go onto Google and search for words like “meaning” or “answers”. I don’t know what I want, I don’t know why I want it, but I can’t stop wanting it… I just don’t know what’s going on. It’s like I’m slipping out of reality or falling out of the world. Thanks for reading this far. I guess I was hoping maybe somebody had answers.
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Wow, your saying that your not headed anywhere good BUT LOOK AT THAT! You writing is incredible! You made me keep on reading it. You can be an author with no doubt one day if you put your mind to it.I really wished i had an answer to your problem but all i can say is talk to this to someone very close to you. I am sure that they would understand and listen. Also, try to focus at the good things in life. A phycatrist would be a good person to talk to, or your school guidance counslor. There is even this exercise and it really works. What you do is look in the mirror and say 5 good things about yourself. Doing that everyday would make that go into your mind and hopefully it would help. But i think the best advice i can tell you is find the happy things in the world. Like invite close friends or family over and watch videos or have a party or something and the most important thing is to try to enjoy yourself. I know it sounds hard when you feel that the world is on your shoulders but really try that idea of having people over and just try to forget about all your problems and have fun with them. Also, i agree that there are alot of problems in the world and you have a very good way of adressing them. You have alot of talent in writing and im going to advise you to put that talent to use. Write a letter to the president, a enviromentalist, etc, listing what you just said in the letter above. You can have a very good career ahead of you and nobody would want good talent to go to waste. I know there are "downs" in people's lives, but remember there are always "ups" and only you can trigger them. Also, with your disorders, you can talk to a doctor about controlling them. For anixety, my cousin told me that if you count to 10 and back really slowly in your head, it really calms you down. Reading your problem, i really, really hoped i helped and if you have any more questions please dont hesitate to ask me. Take care and try my advice. I hope it works
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okay theres this kid i like in school. lets call him bob. I guess you'd call it love at first sight.. or.. attraction.. or like getting a crush. I liked him since the first day of school, but didnt admit it for a while. I've never known him before, so yeah its fresh. I was never really his friend.. or his enemy, it was like neutral but I didnt really talk to him that much, because of me being shy.
Im not really a shy person, but.. sometimes I just am, like if Im uncomfortable or something. Anyway, once he stood up for me to this stupid kid who was dissing my instrument, when he had an instrument himself, so he shouldnt even have been talking. It was nice, but me being so shy, I was like "um thanks" but couldnt bring myself to see his expression (I'm a bottom locker and his locker is like.. above mine, 1 space away) And some other stuff too.
Today, he talked to me like twice.. first he asked about like if we had homework, because I was working on this thing for our class that I didnt finish.. but it was due a long time ago. then like 2 periods later he asked if I got 100% on some writing piece. okay.. why does he know this and why does he care?
I dunno whether to be happy or like not be, cuz I'm overthinking things as usual. Anyway, then I kept on seeing him in the hallway and stuff, and whenever I'd look at him he'd be looking at me back. And then like in the last period I just came from the water fountain and he like caught me off guard because I just like moved a piece of my hair away from my wet lip.. haha I hope I looked hott then.
anyways, then i couldnt really concentrate in that class because that was just plain awkward. OKAY, so what are your ideas with this? i really dont want to get heartbroken, nor do I know if I like.. love him and would wanna go out with him. its so confusing! im not even much of his friend yet, but we have some similaraties, too. (like, we're really sporty) or how do i become his friend? no matter what you say, Im real shy around boys I like. I cant go up to them and say like "hi" and stuff... how can I just find a way to join the conversation.. or make the whole thing easier? GAH this is soo hard!
13/f
thankyou!
and I tried to seperate the wall o' text, hah. (link)
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LOL you are really overthinking this. SOo your question is how can you talk to that guy? Well to me i find it akward to just go up to a guy and say "HI!" really randomly, so a good way to start a convo is to ask if you saw a new movie like casino royale or something. Just go up to him and ask him, or if hes in a group of people, if they saw the movie. Or ask him if he heard a new song or something. It sounds like hes trying to start a convosation with you so do the same back! Ask him what he got in a test or for some help or something. Really, just dont overthink it and be yourself. If you need any more advice just ask me:-)
-Krazy
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Today at cheering I got switched to one stunt group to another. So all of a sudden this little immature girl in the group that flys sees that i'm her backspotter and automatically goes "woooah" and turns around, and starts raising her eyebrows and saying something to her other friend thats the front spotter. The front spotter is like "i miss taylor" (the old backspotter) and raises her eyebrows to jen the flyer. This is even before I have started doing the stunt. Well all throughout the stunt i'm doing my best and the two girls just keep whispering. In my head i'm like "OH MY GOSH. DO YOU ACTUALLY THINK I DON'T FLIPPIN' NOTICE YOU?"
So finally i'm so pissed off, after one attempt of saying ever so nicely "if i'm doing something wrong, jsut tell me." So finally I say "You know i can just leave now if you want." and I say it in a pissed off tone. The coach is like "DON'T TALK TO YOUR TEAMMATES LIKE THAT." then she asks what is the problem. I say "I would really appreciate it if they just tell me when i'm doing something wrong so I can be better." My question is do you think I was rude/ a bitch? (link)
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no i dont think you were being rude/bitchy to them because in that situation they deserved it. They were the ones being the bitches in this problem!
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i get white heads a lot & idk how to clear them up, i tried everything proactiv, going to a dermatologist, tooth paste... ugg they wont go away! any tips to clearer skin?
thanx any advice will help=) (link)
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my mom taught me this way to get rid of your blackheads/whiteheads quickly and it really works! What you do is heat up some water, and place your face near the pot of water so when the steam of the hot water goes up it will go on your face. Believe it really works and its fast too. If you need me to explain in more detail i will be more then happy to.
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I just had a party, and we pranked called alot of people using *67 which blocks teh number. We used my friends cell phone. Did it cost money? She thinks it does so she told her mom and now her phone is taken away. Does it cost money? Thank you! Happy new year! (link)
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unfortuntely it does cost money. Its about 80 cents or something. Happy New Year to you as well!
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I think my best friend *and only friend* doesnt like me anymore..She posted an away message while I was talking to her that said "Fuck you I dont need anymore friends" and then she called my cellphone while her friends were over and they were laughing and saying really bad things to me like pussy in the background. Im so upset, Im shaking. This has never happened between me and her and weve been best friends for 6 years. I wanna die..please help (link)
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omg im really sorry. What a "friend" she was..i suggest you join a sports team or a club and make new friends. Believe me that works. All you have to do is be yourslef and before you know it you will have the bestest friends.
hope i helped and take care
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I have a pair of skinny jeans that are just blue jean. I have a couple shirts I got over the weekend and i need to know which shirt looks the best with these jeans.
Shirts I have :
-Pink shirt with cupcakes cookies and lolipops on it.
-Navy blue shirt with new oreleans saints symbols on it and a humming bird or each of the top corners.
-An Alicine wonderland shirt where she is walking through the forest
-A pink and white striped shirt that has half sleeves.
Thanks for the help :] (link)
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i think the pink and white striped shirt sounds cute. It'll probably look good with the jeans. Happy Hoildays!
-Krazyy
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I have nothing to do on new year.I'd find a party to crash but i'm a minor and I cant drink.Does any one know of any ancient new year tradditions?
How should I spend new year? (link)
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i suggest you spend time with your family.
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me & this kid hooked up the other night. but we didnt have sex. his penis came close to me but it didnt go in. is there any way i could be pregnant?
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there MAY be a possibility that you might be pregnant because if he ejected sperm near your vagina it can still "swim" inside. Take a pregnancy test just to be sure.:-)
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It's the first time to contact you but I really need yr advice here. I'm 26 years old from Egypt and I'm in love with a women 25 years my senior. She is from TX. We first met in a chat room and we were very nice to each other. Actually I met her after some emotional troubles and depression I was stuck in before our meet with 12 months or more but after I met this women I really found a life should be lived and she helped me to heal my soul. We know each other since last March 2006 and after 3 months we both felt that chemistry between us and she was the first telling me that she die at me and she loves me, and I also was feeling the same way. She only has one 23 years old daugther who's working in another state so my my lover stays alone at home and she told me that she has met before other guys in chat rooms and most of them told her that they love her also and want to marry her and she had told me that before telling me that she loves me. When she has told me about those guys I explained her that there are alot of guys from outside the US who use this way to get marry with women from the US or Europe for immigration purposes.
I told her that I'll not be ready to leave my country now because I have family here I have to take of and I cannot leave them and she suggested to come and live here but I also found it not good idea because life her is not easy at all.
I have a job here and I like it and I'm afraid if I'll move to the US that I'll never find a similar job but I told my lover that I'm ready to work in any job and will not a problem.
She also as most of the older women have worries about the comments of the friends and family after she talked to them and there are some with and others are against. Her daughter has not rejection for this matter and all she wants is to find her Mom is happy in her life after 2 bad marriages she suffered from.
I know that you will find this a crazy idea because the age difference between us but I see her as the most beautiful women on earth and I guess she finds me that kindhearted young man who loves her and wants to spend the rest of his life with her. But believe me, I don't mind with her age or the other people's opinion even we talked about having children and I told her that I don't want kids because this could be dangerous to her life and all I want is she.
So, please give me yr advice and I'm waiting for any other details or explains you might need.
Regards,
M. AAMER (link)
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if you think its right and u think it will work then i say go ahead and settle down with her but make sure you know about all the circumstances concerning this. Good luck with your decison.
-Krazy
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when guys say how big their penis is do they say how big it is with or without an erection? (link)
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i'm pretty sure they mean without an errection
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I have always been feeling down at school. I get bullied a lot, but my teachers don't really help the situation. Especially at my lunch where these kids keep making fun of me, pointing me out, and harrassing me. I try hard to skip lunch but not just because of them but because of the food they offer. I hate their food. And I can't pack because I just plainly hate lunchtime anyway. So every day when I do go to lunch with my friends, I am totally quiet, feeling depressed, anti-social, and never wanting to be involved in conversation. However, when I go back to class (hanging out with other friends) I am happy, free-spirited, and extroverted. My friends think I am like that all the time, since that's the only time they see me. They never want to find time to see me when we are not in school, because they say they are always "busy and stressed out" to come see me.
My grades have been fluctuating, and I get just totally stressed out thinking about school, and trying to pass. I've been battling anxiety, stress, and depression, so it's been hard for me for quite some time.
I don't want everyone to think I am this emo person, trying to feel suicidal 24/7 when I don't. I can be a very optimistic person, but it's hard to show it when my friends at lunch ignore me a little but, forgetting I am there, and assuming I am jsut tired. I don't know what to do! I want my friends to know I can be happy, yet I want to be happy. I don't know.. can someone help me out here?
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i totally agree with Kiran...i suggest you follow what she said beacause i think your situation will be solved by that.
-Krazy
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I posted several questions about this girl that I met at a welfare office and where she is pregnant and the father is totally out of the picture. I asking, how can i passively engage in asking her out. She just had the baby, a month ago, I was there during delivery and all and I feel she likes me but I fee she is holding? Why? I would love to date her and be involved but what should I do? (link)
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i believe you should give her time. She just had a baby! LOL.... stay friends with her and hopefully when she settles down..you can ask..if you have any more questions dont hesitate to ask me! Best of luck!
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my mom and dad just died. i bearly had the strength to write this, but i am sooo sad, what should i do? I feel like i should be dead to. please, help. (link)
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i am very sorry your loss. I know this sounds hard to do but you cannont just stop living life beacause people close to you are gone. Whether you believe this or not, your parents are always looking down on you from heaven and do you think they would want you to die? Or do you think they would want you to be the best person you can be? I suggest spend time with your family members and freinds. Talk this situation out with them. Also, CRY. when you cry all your emotions that you build inside will come out. Later, you can look through family photographs and think of all the good times you've had together. Please dont hesitate to ask me anything else. If you ever need to talk, my email address is: exquisite_m1zz@hotmail.com. Please reply me later to inform me how you are doing. Bye
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I'm 14/f and I'm usually very "in-style" and girly-- not sporty. I easily get cold. I am also outside a lot, but i absolutely hate hoodies and North Faces unless im just at school or something. Does anyone know a winter coat that looks lightweight, very warm, and not sporty at all? I prefer under $50 but I will go up to $75 if it's excellent quality. (link)
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hey..if you live in Canada i believe you should go to the "Winners" because there are brand name jackets which look cute and are really warm.
If you live in America, i guess you should try "Marshalls"...i believe those 2 stores carry the same stuff.
-Hope i helped
-Krazy
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