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suicide
I think my best friend *and only friend* doesnt like me anymore..She posted an away message while I was talking to her that said "Fuck you I dont need anymore friends" and then she called my cellphone while her friends were over and they were laughing and saying really bad things to me like pussy in the background. Im so upset, Im shaking. This has never happened between me and her and weve been best friends for 6 years. I wanna die..please help
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omg im really sorry. What a "friend" she was..i suggest you join a sports team or a club and make new friends. Believe me that works. All you have to do is be yourslef and before you know it you will have the bestest friends.
hope i helped and take care<3
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I cant believe you called this girl a friend. Dont think of dying, because trust me that will not help! She is not your true friend, she is a horrible person. I suggest you to ignore her, make new friends , meet new people. Start a new life, a life where you guys never met each other at all. To get over her, do something you enjoy, just be happy & always remember, that horrible person wont ruin your life, & whatever she tries to do she will never waste another tear that drops in your eye.
I really hope i helped. xox esty
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ok first of all
this girl is not your friend
anyone who would do that is just terrible
never use death as the answer
im sure that you can get other friends
and maybe you show her that you dont care abouit her
if she dont care bout you
i think that you will be ok
but suicide is nvr the way to go
i rele hope that this helps
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Dont end your life due to some selfish person. That would make you just as selfish by killing yourself.
I cannot believe your so called friend would do that to you. Thats absolutely horrible. Since she has already tried to signal to you how she feels by the aim message, and the rude phone call. Dont even talk to her anymore, maybe send her an email, asking whats up? But then leave it at that. If shes going to be imature about things, theres no use having her as a friend. Even six years of friendship can change. People change, and their likes and dislikes change as well. I know its going to be hard to deal with, but try meeting new people. And I mean that, meeting new people opens your eyes to the world, and the types of people there are. There isnt just your one best friend, with her certain opinion.
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she is not your friend if she's like that. and you shouldn't be mad because of her mistakes.
you shouldn't kill yourself because she's just a girl and you shouldn't be upset.
marc h up to her and say "look, me and you cannot be friends because look at the way you treat me."
you need to express your emotions before they lead to suicide.
i'm guessing she has new friends that have something against you so you shouldn't listen to them or her.
this happenened to me and when you don't try and be friends with her her other -mean- friends will leave her and she'll come running back to you.
when she does think about those things she said and think of the things that hurt you and express your emotions in words
HOPED I HELPED
♥ Flaggal
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I know exactly how you feel. For me, I felt so horrible I was physically hurting, and I couldn't think. But first, think of all the reasons you shouldn't kill yourself.
1. Family
2. Your abilities- sports, school, generosity
3. You don't want to make them think you're weak
4. It doesn't work very well that often and sometimes you end up in mental institutions
5. People all over the world know exactly how you feel- they are willing to talk to you. Hell, I'm talking to you right now.
Okay, for a while, try and focus on other stuff. This may be hard because your mind is on your friend. As far as who you should hang out with, pretty much any moderately normal group should be willing to hang out with you. You might be embarassed at first, but hey, that's how I met my best friend (and co-writer of this site!). If you hang out with a specific group, and still want to hang out with them, form an alliance with another girl you're fairly close to. There are good people in the world who are willing to support you and stand-by you even when you're not at your best. That's how you figure out who are your real friends.
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I know you don't want to hear this, but even the bestest of friends change. It sounds to me like she's a very different person than the person you used to know. As people get older, their personalitlies are going to change, they may get meaner, make different friends, and it sounds to me like she's just been hanging around rude people and she's now become rude and careless towards the people close to her.
She's definetely not acting like any best friend should towards someone, and you shouldn't waste your time with her anymore. If you want, try having one more conversation with her, whenever she's by herself and she doesn't have her friends there egging her on to be mean towards you. Ask her what that was all about and see what she says.
Wether it was truly all her, or it was the fact her friends might've been pressuring her or anything ; nothing gives her the right to treat you like that, and like I said, you shouldn't be wasting your time with her. If she wants to be rude like that with her friend ; show her the consequences of her actions and show her she lost a great best friend. And just show her you really don't care, and you're over it and moving on. That for one, will definetely get to her and plus, you should. It's just the best thing to do in this situation.
Just enjoy some time to yourself and have fun and maybe try and make some more friends and meet some new people. Or even try and hang out and re-connect with some old ones you may have. Who knows? In those groups of people may lie a new best friend. A better one.
I hope I helped.
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"No one can make you feel inferior without your permission" Eleanor Roosevelt.
What is it with people and thinking "I wanna die" or "I wanna kill myself" these days over little things. You're friend has changed and probably wants to fit in with the new "friends" and if she has to say horrible stuff about a friend she's known for 6 years over some stupid clique, then she is the loser here.
You shuold move on and see how long she lasts with those firends. She doesn't know that friends don't last long unless they're true and 6 years is a long time and she'll be missing out on a chance to have a great friend. Join clubs/activities you like and you'll soon find someone who shares the same interest. Don't let this girl bother you and just ignore her. Don't say anything abusive or harmful to her or anyone else and if things get worse, just go to the counsler and she'll be the one in trouble and not you.
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Sounds to me like she has changed. As you grow, you change, and I guess that she has changed. No one stays the same forever. Give her another chance (that way you show good judgement), but know that she is changing. Always remember this, but forgive her. After all, God says to forgive everyone. Maybe she was joking. Just relax, and act like you didnt care. That will certainly bother her. Pretend like you could care less what she had said. Hope this helped!!!!
Jennifer
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