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Question Posted Friday December 29 2006, 10:41 pm

okay so... first of all, me && my bf are only 13 years old okay and we'd been together for about 1 month and 6days. its winter break for both of us and we'd been txt messaging eachother talking about being horny and like what would we do to eachother when we have sex when we get older. so were not planning on having sex until we get older and ready. here are my questions...

questions:
1.me && my bf make out and use tongue and i was wondering... since me and him are comfertable with being all horny or whatever.. whats the next step??.. cuz i know he wants me to do something to him.

2.when we do the whole touching eachother into out private parts... how do we get it started?

3.uhmm.. i was wondering how big is the normal average size of a guys dick[penis or whatever you want to call it]?

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ductape_n_roses answered Saturday December 30 2006, 1:54 am:
Bring on the bad rating but here goes my criticizm: You two are only 13. That's too young to be even thinking about sex and better yet making out and talking about being horny and sex when you guys have been going out for only a month. Your hormones and his are going wild right now and so don't let those urges trigger you into doing something you'll regret later. I mean you guys might not even go close to having sex but you guys are bound to break up sooner or later and having done it up to the point where oyu guys start to feel each other in less then a year, that's a little--eh hem.

I really don't think that you guys are physicaly, mentaly, and emotionaly mature enough to be feeling other's private parts...the age which is the most duh point and your question number 3 where you seem to be uncomfortable typing the last words in.

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AMYGWENDOLiNExO answered Friday December 29 2006, 11:51 pm:
Hey!
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Well I applaud you for being mature and not rushing into sex. I think that`s awesome.

Usually the next step is just feeling each other up. Like, not fingering/handjobstuff. Just like touching each other. Like him touching your boobs or just something like that.

It really depends how YOU want it to get started. It comes naturally most of the time. You`ll be making out, then feeling each other up, and then before you know it you`ll be touching each other sexually. [:

The average size of a penis is 5-6 inches.

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becca08 answered Friday December 29 2006, 11:39 pm:
I'm not trying to be rude here, but I seriously do not think you two are mature enough to have sex. I mean, you both are thirteen years old, and you aren't even thinking about the consequences of sex. Have you even thought of protection? What if the condom breaks? You'll end up pregnant. You aren't emotionally or physically mature enough to have sex or to have a baby. Instead of sex, have you two thought of body rubbing or mutual masturbation? Just if I were you, I would wait until I were older to have sex. Years down the road..you might regret it because you might break up with him..because you might not marry him...etc...just wait..think about it? Sorry if that waasn't too helpful, you're just awfully young.

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