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BOYS BOYS BOYS!!!
okay theres this kid i like in school. lets call him bob. I guess you'd call it love at first sight.. or.. attraction.. or like getting a crush. I liked him since the first day of school, but didnt admit it for a while. I've never known him before, so yeah its fresh. I was never really his friend.. or his enemy, it was like neutral but I didnt really talk to him that much, because of me being shy.
Im not really a shy person, but.. sometimes I just am, like if Im uncomfortable or something. Anyway, once he stood up for me to this stupid kid who was dissing my instrument, when he had an instrument himself, so he shouldnt even have been talking. It was nice, but me being so shy, I was like "um thanks" but couldnt bring myself to see his expression (I'm a bottom locker and his locker is like.. above mine, 1 space away) And some other stuff too.
Today, he talked to me like twice.. first he asked about like if we had homework, because I was working on this thing for our class that I didnt finish.. but it was due a long time ago. then like 2 periods later he asked if I got 100% on some writing piece. okay.. why does he know this and why does he care?
I dunno whether to be happy or like not be, cuz I'm overthinking things as usual. Anyway, then I kept on seeing him in the hallway and stuff, and whenever I'd look at him he'd be looking at me back. And then like in the last period I just came from the water fountain and he like caught me off guard because I just like moved a piece of my hair away from my wet lip.. haha I hope I looked hott then.
anyways, then i couldnt really concentrate in that class because that was just plain awkward. OKAY, so what are your ideas with this? i really dont want to get heartbroken, nor do I know if I like.. love him and would wanna go out with him. its so confusing! im not even much of his friend yet, but we have some similaraties, too. (like, we're really sporty) or how do i become his friend? no matter what you say, Im real shy around boys I like. I cant go up to them and say like "hi" and stuff... how can I just find a way to join the conversation.. or make the whole thing easier? GAH this is soo hard!
13/f
thankyou!
and I tried to seperate the wall o' text, hah.
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wow well this sounds kinda like me like half well first of all were he was asking you weird questions and you were like okay what the heck u shouldn't of been like um okay or whatever because from what i think he was probably trying to start a conversation with you because he likes you i mean when a guy stares at you and trys talking to you those are signs that show he likes you!!!! so next time he ever talks to you try to start a conversation or somthing then like try talking to him everyday even if it somthing stupid like what did you get on your test just talk and you'll probably grow to be friends or even more than just friends!
hope i could help! :) Chloe
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haha i agree you really are over thinking things.......unlike you I'm not shy around the guys I like, but that's ok! I'm also very random so I just go up to boys and say "hi" even tho they look at me weird they say hi back and then we get into a conversation and that's how I meet most of my guy friends. It's really nice that "bob" stuck up for you. Maybe you could just say hi once in awhile, even tho you say your too shy. If you break out of your shell when it comes to boys they will get to know you more and start to like you. So give it a try! =] -Rachel
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LOL you are really overthinking this. SOo your question is how can you talk to that guy? Well to me i find it akward to just go up to a guy and say "HI!" really randomly, so a good way to start a convo is to ask if you saw a new movie like casino royale or something. Just go up to him and ask him, or if hes in a group of people, if they saw the movie. Or ask him if he heard a new song or something. It sounds like hes trying to start a convosation with you so do the same back! Ask him what he got in a test or for some help or something. Really, just dont overthink it and be yourself. If you need any more advice just ask me:-)
-Krazy<3
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