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Hey the names Chloe....
well first things first
i live in florida
i absolutly love my friends!
i love music its my life
i LOVE Black Cherry Vanilla Coke if you buy me one you'll make me relle happy lol
i say lol wayyyyyy to much
anndd i relle like taking random pics of myself!
thats pretty much it if you wanna know more just ask...don't be shy!
:)
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I know this guy and were kinda friends but i really like him I call him some times and he told me he likes talking to me he's a tease so i don't know when he's serious.what do I do do you think he might like me. (link)
ik how you feel guys are soo hard to figure out you never know if they like you as a friend or more its hard to tell so all i can say is i guess you can maybe play a game of questions and you ask each other questions then after a few normal or w.e questions ask him do you like me as a friend or more or you could ask have you ever liked me as more than a friend or could you ever like me as more than a friend...also you can just come out in say it when you guys are talking :)
hope i helped a lil


Alright, so this summer I spent it with my family that I haven't seen in 8 years since we all live so far apart. My cousin in my age and I was totally attracted to him and it felt that he was to me as well. I mean yeah it's weird.. no doubt but I couldn't help it. He's stunning. It kind of seemed like we flirted and all but nothing happened and I would never allow that. Now, I miss him like crazy and it just makes me sad because I probablly won't see him in another couple of years.

Am I weird for feeling like this? Thanks for the advice.

- Xoxo (link)
not at all bc your pretty much in the same situation as me my family came over this past week an i was totally crushing on my cousin but he had a g/f so i didnt really show i liked him but then she broke up with him which made me happy but idk i still didnt flirt bc idk how he felt about me so now there gone and i also miss him like crazy it sucks to have someone you like a family member. but think about it its better than not knowing them at all..


i like to shave my pubic hairs and sometimes after i get bumps, how do i keep that from happening, is there a special way i should be shaving, its just really embarassing. please help, thanks!
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sometimes that happens to me and im confused but then sometimes it goes away after a while but im guessing your skin might just be a little sensitive about the way you might shave it!
so yea you might wanna try gong slower or somthing else like a cream and also maybe waxing.. haha i know that gonna hurt like hell but its better than shaving and ive been told that your hair comes out much softer when you wax! im not saying thats the way to go but just a suggestion!
hope i could help
Chloe
:)


This is weird, but I've searched online and can't find ANYTHING!

me and my boyfriend are wondering if anyone knows of anything fun to do in Northern Virginia (in the Vienna and Fairfax areas). Usually we go to the movies, or dinner, or mall. but we've gotten a bit tired of that, and we're hoping for some help. as i said before please don't tell me to search online because I've tried. Suggestions would be kindly appreciated. :)

Thanx!

Also even if you dont live in VA, if you have any ideas about what we could do...something new and fun..that would be great! :) (link)
well i don't live in VA so i can't tell you exactly what you could do but maybe you guys should do somthind outside of the city like maybe go hiking or camping i think ive heard that they have some nice moutains or wilderness places i dont know exactly but theres something and if you dont like outdoors then just try maybe seeing if there is anything like sight seeing or something somwhere nice where you can have fun taking pictures!or if there is maybe an amusement park or some carnival somewhere fun to go!hope i helped a little!
:) Chloe


I am still stuck on this issue. As you could see from my past questions, I need serious help with this issue. My husband does not accept me for my baptism. Even though I was like 5 and have not sinned and did not know the difference as I do now, does that make it wrong? I feel like I am going to lose my husband because of this. He will not leave me. This is my personal feeling. I want my husband to accept me fully. We have difference views on certain topics in the Bible. He does not believe certain things I have to say. He is always right. How am I suppose to know which interpretation is the right one? Was I baptised wrong? Should I follow my husband and his belief for the sake of our marriage and our future children and be baptised in his church? We are both Christians, but different kind of churches. But I only believe in one baptism. Should I not be baptised and just suck it up and go to church with him and forget it? I do not want to have to go to different churches and how could I raise my child that way? He will not leave his church and allow us to be "one" as marriage should be. I am willing to do this. What should I do? I am so lost. I don't know if I should talk to a therapist or what. (link)
well im not a profesional or anything but i think you should maybe follow your heart on this one does it feel right if you go along with him??or stay with your belief??i can't answer your feelings so ask yourself also maybe sit down with him and talk about how you feel and how this whole thing is putting you in a difficult position! and try to figure a way of compromsing! maybe go to his church one week and then tell him to go to yours one week and then see if you like his church and see if he likes yours you might be surprised with your reactions to each others churches!
hope i helped a little
Chloe
:)


my boyfriend got me a gold chain and heart in rynstones and matching gold earrings for christmas i was grounded then so i couldn't get him anything what should i get him!!?? (link)
well that sounds really sweet what he got you so im guessing you also want to get him something nice and its ALWAYS hard to find a guy somthing that he will like a lot im suggesting that you maybe get him a really nice watch or somthing with a logo of his favorite team on it! maybe a shirt or hat or sweater or whatever else is unquie that you think he might like a lot!
also maybe a nice smelling colgne or some nice sunglasses for guys of course lol and maybe give him a nice gold chain of his own to kinda match what he got you! well yea hope i helped a little!
:D Chloe


if you click on someones myspace picture will it show whos looking at it (link)
um im guessing your new at this lol but no it doesnt show that your looking at his/her pic or anything it shows who has commented it! also u have a choice of commenting it yourself! no worries!
hope i helped :)
Chloe


i have this friend lets call her "L" for now.All my friends and I think she is bi-sexual but i don't know what i should do.Basically on new years i invited her over to hang out and she kept touching, playing with my hair,tickling me,laying on me(so i moved and she did it again),jumping on me, and always looking other girls, and she is always checking out me and my other 2 friends saying oh my gosh! your butt is so small and stuff.So, i don't know do u think she is bisexual because she has a boyfriend so she cant be a lezbian.What should i do? Should i ask her? If I do though she will deffinetly take that offensively because she is like that.I have a boyfriend so i know i am not like her.
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well im not sure what to tell you about if shes bi or not but i do think you should maybe talk to her about how you feel when shes around and doing that to you! but don't just pile it on her so fast though like maybe say u need to talk to her about somthing and don't talk to her about it with other people! just tell her how you feel and ask her if she is let her find sometime to explain everthing or think about what you say to her and also tell her not to take it personal just that ur kinda concerned if she is and wanted to know...

well hope i helped :) Chloe


i babysit for a baby whos parents are probly the smartest ppl in the world, and if you've ever babysat for anyone like this before, its very hard to say no. i haven't gotten to hang out with my boyfriend for a few weeks now. you know just "us" time which makes me very sad. but i'm struggling to pay for everything these days, and i'm in need of the money...i guess the question here is the love or the money?

resently they've asked me to come babysit while they go christmas shopping. for 7 hours. noon to seven. now i was planning on having that night for my bf and i but now its shortened because i said yes...

i feel horrible and don't know what to do. (link)
well i think you should still babysit since you said yes because that would be rude to tell them you can't when u already said yes i mean i know you wanna hang out with your boyfirend but heres an idea how about you just bring your boyfriend over to help or to keep you company so you can babysit and also hang out with your bf and since you need the money you should probably take every chance you get to babysit and maybe if its cutting into a lot of your plans tell them and maybe ask for a raise since you choose to babysit over your better offers or your plans!
but dont get to caught up with babysitting that it takes up all your time and you have no you time!!!!!

hope i helped
sincerely Clo-Bo (Chloe) :)


theres this kid in my class that constantly gets picked on. i feel so bad for him.. I mean I thought at first he had autism, but my friend said he was just real stupid. Even though he made fun of me once.. really stupidly. then my friend shut him down. but i cant be mean to him! i just think its wrong.. cuz hes a person too. but like nobody else seems to care but me. i mean.. these are the people who do the high school shootings! i dont want to be his friend.. but like.. I dunno. I dont like seeing people get made fun of like that.. I dont even know if he takes it personally.. cause hes really weird... but....... AHH! why am i so nice? (link)
this kind of like how i feel somtimes like i alays somehow feel bad for people who get picked on even if they were mean to me i would feel soo bad i dont know why though but now that i think about it is probably because we have a good heart and are just loving people i guess i mean im a christian i dont knwo about you but yea i guess its just because i care and stuff you know? i dont know but yea i think its just beause were good people and we care so yea i dot know if i answered your question but i hope i helped a lil!

sincerely chloe :)


Is it true that you get cravings around your period? cuz ever since i've gotten my period (I've had it for a while, but its "the time o' month again") I've been craving cheese and jellybeans. like alot. (link)
well jelly beans and cheese sounds really new to me lol but yea usually when people have there period you get cravings i dont know why or how to explain it but you do haha usually i get cravings for chocalate! but yea you do and its normal!!


okay theres this kid i like in school. lets call him bob. I guess you'd call it love at first sight.. or.. attraction.. or like getting a crush. I liked him since the first day of school, but didnt admit it for a while. I've never known him before, so yeah its fresh. I was never really his friend.. or his enemy, it was like neutral but I didnt really talk to him that much, because of me being shy.

Im not really a shy person, but.. sometimes I just am, like if Im uncomfortable or something. Anyway, once he stood up for me to this stupid kid who was dissing my instrument, when he had an instrument himself, so he shouldnt even have been talking. It was nice, but me being so shy, I was like "um thanks" but couldnt bring myself to see his expression (I'm a bottom locker and his locker is like.. above mine, 1 space away) And some other stuff too.

Today, he talked to me like twice.. first he asked about like if we had homework, because I was working on this thing for our class that I didnt finish.. but it was due a long time ago. then like 2 periods later he asked if I got 100% on some writing piece. okay.. why does he know this and why does he care?

I dunno whether to be happy or like not be, cuz I'm overthinking things as usual. Anyway, then I kept on seeing him in the hallway and stuff, and whenever I'd look at him he'd be looking at me back. And then like in the last period I just came from the water fountain and he like caught me off guard because I just like moved a piece of my hair away from my wet lip.. haha I hope I looked hott then.

anyways, then i couldnt really concentrate in that class because that was just plain awkward. OKAY, so what are your ideas with this? i really dont want to get heartbroken, nor do I know if I like.. love him and would wanna go out with him. its so confusing! im not even much of his friend yet, but we have some similaraties, too. (like, we're really sporty) or how do i become his friend? no matter what you say, Im real shy around boys I like. I cant go up to them and say like "hi" and stuff... how can I just find a way to join the conversation.. or make the whole thing easier? GAH this is soo hard!

13/f
thankyou!

and I tried to seperate the wall o' text, hah. (link)
wow well this sounds kinda like me like half well first of all were he was asking you weird questions and you were like okay what the heck u shouldn't of been like um okay or whatever because from what i think he was probably trying to start a conversation with you because he likes you i mean when a guy stares at you and trys talking to you those are signs that show he likes you!!!! so next time he ever talks to you try to start a conversation or somthing then like try talking to him everyday even if it somthing stupid like what did you get on your test just talk and you'll probably grow to be friends or even more than just friends!


hope i could help! :) Chloe


any have any tips to get clear skin?

my skin is VERY VERY sensitive so I can't find a product that won't make my skin turn all red and get dry.

and i want to get rid of my pimples because they make me feel very self-concious. : / (link)
hey im chloe well to answer your question thats kinda like me i don't really know exactly what to tell you but i have a suggestion try to always wash your face in the morning! not with soap or anything but just water! and also try noxema i use it and for the most part its pretty good i mean when you first put it on its nice and cool and then when you leave it on you feel like your face is burning a little but its not like really bad like oh my gosh its just like a tingle and then when you feel that you wash it off well at least thats what i do i think its good so yea just try it!

hope i could help
Chloe


i have an iPOD nano, one of the newer ones(the silver one). ive had it for about 3 months and had no problem, but recently when i plug in my iPOD it doesnt pop up on the itunes screen and i cant put any songs on it. i thought it had to do with what cord im using but ive used all of them(i have 4 cords total because my sisters have ipods).i would like to know whats wrong with it and how i can fix it if there is a problem.thanks (link)
hey im chloe and to answer your question i don't know whats wrong with it but i have a sugestion take it to an apple ipod store thats like in the mall or someplace and have them check on it and see whats wrong with it or if you need something but whats best is its free! i went there because i had a problem where i ould download music and they hepled me out in less than 5 min for free no joke!

hope i helped at least a lil
:)Chloe


OK well this a total girl question..

I am 13 and I still dont have my period

is that abnormal??

And what are some "signs" that

might tell me if it is coming?

thanks for the help...

signed,
Confused*&*Curious (link)
hey my names chloe and the answer to your question is no its not really that weird i mean im 13 also and i just got it last year to i also thoguht it was weird that i didnt have it but then i thought about it and i was glad i didnt have it because like everone i knew always complained about it but yea anyways believe me its not abnormal i mean my aunt got it really late she was 14 when she got hers so yea just enjoy not having it!and i dont know much signs bcecause i got mine out of the blue! but i guess like when u start getting like crankyier than usual and i dont know i kinda felt i was gonna get it last year.

hope i helped
sincerely Chloe :)




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