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this weird guy..
theres this kid in my class that constantly gets picked on. i feel so bad for him.. I mean I thought at first he had autism, but my friend said he was just real stupid. Even though he made fun of me once.. really stupidly. then my friend shut him down. but i cant be mean to him! i just think its wrong.. cuz hes a person too. but like nobody else seems to care but me. i mean.. these are the people who do the high school shootings! i dont want to be his friend.. but like.. I dunno. I dont like seeing people get made fun of like that.. I dont even know if he takes it personally.. cause hes really weird... but....... AHH! why am i so nice?
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I'm exactly the same! I always take pity on the kids who get made fun, espically sinces its my friends who usually make fun of them. & I always feel so bad. & the kid that I feel bad for is like tottaly weird too, like he had a 'hit list' & stuff. & its not like I try to become friends with him, I just smile at him if he looks at moe or something. Thats all you really gotta do. & then hopefully if these type of people ever do become crazy.. then you most likely won't be on their hitlist type thing too, thats how I think of it. Theres always a good thing about being nice. (:
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Well first of all there is nothing wrong with caring about someone else. You caring could make all the diffence in the world to someone like that. Maybe tell your teacher that he's being mistreated and ask if maybe she could move him up by her so that she can see what's ging on. Maybe even just be nice to him even if you don't want to be his friend it could make his day. you never know you may be the only one that's nice to hi all day but that would be better than everyone being mean to him. Hope this helps. Be blessed and keep being a good person.
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you dont have to be good friends with him..but honestly..you should talk to him ..say something nice to him..make him feel appreciated..even just asking how hes doing and smiling everyday can make a difference!little things would mean alot to him.. i promise you that..WHY ARE PEOPLE SO MEAN?! ugh! next time you see someone being mean to him you should say something to stop them or at least distract them..dont worry about what people think about you!! their opinion means nothing! being nice to him will make you feel really good about yourself also, because unlike the people being mean to him, you made a positive influence in his life. youre caring and thats a very good quality and i think you should always embrace it! by making him feel cared about, you could seriously change his life.. i know that sounds dramatic but i've learned from experience cause a guy i knew was the same way. you have a good heart and thats definetely something to be proud of
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this kind of like how i feel somtimes like i alays somehow feel bad for people who get picked on even if they were mean to me i would feel soo bad i dont know why though but now that i think about it is probably because we have a good heart and are just loving people i guess i mean im a christian i dont knwo about you but yea i guess its just because i care and stuff you know? i dont know but yea i think its just beause were good people and we care so yea i dot know if i answered your question but i hope i helped a lil!
sincerely chloe :)
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