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is she straight i don't think she is
i have this friend lets call her "L" for now.All my friends and I think she is bi-sexual but i don't know what i should do.Basically on new years i invited her over to hang out and she kept touching, playing with my hair,tickling me,laying on me(so i moved and she did it again),jumping on me, and always looking other girls, and she is always checking out me and my other 2 friends saying oh my gosh! your butt is so small and stuff.So, i don't know do u think she is bisexual because she has a boyfriend so she cant be a lezbian.What should i do? Should i ask her? If I do though she will deffinetly take that offensively because she is like that.I have a boyfriend so i know i am not like her.
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DONT bring it up. let her come to you. and she can be a lezbian. just like the girl before me said, they are just fronts.he may know that she is, or not. who knows? but dont approach her. she may be hurt and you can lose a friend.
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ok. dont bring it up to her. if she is bi, she will tell you when shes ready. but if you dont like her acting like that around you, maybe you should just tell her. oh, and just to let you know you can be a lesbian and have a boyfriend, its called a coverup, but if your friend does turn out to be lesbian or bi, support her. because that is what she needs in a time like that.
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yea i would say she's bi. it's not really certain unless she tells yu that she's bi, but don't ask her either. i actually have a bi friend, or so she says, and she has a boyfriend too. she practically does the same things to me. what i do is to just go along with what she says. if she makes fun of you or something, the best thing to do is just laugh and go along with it. be a good sport about it especially since she's a friend of yours. if not, ignoring her criticisms the best of your ability is the second best thing to do. i can't really think of any other advice. sorry. but i hope it works out!
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wat do you mean you cant be like her because you have a boyfriend? so does she! and anyways, your friend might be friendly. if she is bi, please dont call her on it. but if your uncomftorble then dont sleep over her house by yourself, and when she talks about your butt ask her not to, and that it makes you feel wierd. just dont bring up bisexuality (idk if thats even a word but i didnt no how to say it) in conversation because it might make her feel like you think that about her, wich would be awkward if shes straight!
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I am bisexual so im advising you as someone who knows :-)
If your friend is bisexual, she may not yet even realise it to be as serious as you see it. She could just be having a laugh not realising how she acts is causing these thoughts to arise...However, if she is bisexual she may not say anything due to the fact that she is worried about losing you as mates.
You need to ask yourself...does this make any difference? Are you asking this question because you are 'afraid' she is bisexual or 'worried' she is hitting on you? Will it change your friendship if she is? If not then you should just forget it...It doesn't matter if she is or not as she is still your mate.
However, if this does matter to you so much you need to think about just how good a friend you are and where your loyalties, and thoughts lie
I hope i have helped
Biker_chic -xXx-
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I should give you a trite answer of "Talk to her about it" to make my life easier but my life's already complicated so why bother.
And yes, it will be very hurtful to L if you ask if she's bi especially when she's not.
She can be just rreally friendly and outgoing like that and outspoken not really caring what others think. She may be a real extrovert.
I'm guessing oyu guys are teens...maybe she's just confused about her orientation right now and she's acting out to see if she's bi, les, or straight.
Just give her time and she'll eventually stop or continue on. If she seems as if she's not going to stop anytime soon, ask her in a joking way. I don't know how but you can think of it. But personally, I'd make a fake sn, say you got her sn from myspace, chat room or wherever and you thought she was cool. And pretend like you're bi and see how she responds to that. If you can't tell, ask her...as this total random chick around her age...heh
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well im not sure what to tell you about if shes bi or not but i do think you should maybe talk to her about how you feel when shes around and doing that to you! but don't just pile it on her so fast though like maybe say u need to talk to her about somthing and don't talk to her about it with other people! just tell her how you feel and ask her if she is let her find sometime to explain everthing or think about what you say to her and also tell her not to take it personal just that ur kinda concerned if she is and wanted to know...
well hope i helped :) Chloe
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