Rachel- The names Rachel, Rach if you prefer.
I have awesome friends - they are the coolest people you could ever meet.
I LOVE FOOD!
I have a ton of inside jokes.
I have been told im a blonde at heart, i ghess i cant deny it.
Alot of people ask me for advice and i give it to them - most of the time it helps =]
Me and Ashley Horowitz have fun jumping off my brothers truck and taking pictures while doing it =]
I'm very random and I plan on staying that way.
I'm a floridian but I've never been called one.
I like getting dressed up for nothing.
Me and Ashley Landolfi have the best times making princess movies toghether =]
Sammy- Hey,My names Samantha.but call me samster or smamy.idc. i love music.i love food.i love to party.i have three best friends.my school sucks that i go too.i like going to playgrounds.i play sports.mostly soccer.im not straight edge.i'd like to become a cheerleader. so yeahh.:]
Gender: Female
Location: sammy-boca raton,561;rachel-acreadge,561
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Member Since: January 4, 2007
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okay there is this guy right..and i talk to him everyday.I like him alot. But i never know what to talk about..what do i do? what do i talk about with him? (link)
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Talk about random stuff.....say like OW I just ran into the door....even tho you didn't , he will laugh about it, as long as you laugh to and not take it to seriously. Also if theres nothing to talk about say oh I have to eat dinner or I have to take a shower or my phone is about to die, I'll call you later. Good Luck.
Hope I helped, Rachel =]
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ok so i see this boy in the train every morning. and he is really cute. i want to get to know him. he goes to my school but we dont have classes together. what can i say to him witout looking stupid?. (link)
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okay.
what i would do if i were you.
is one morning on the train.
just go over to him&be like.
"hey,dont you go to my school?"
&then that would get a conversation started up.
&then like when he answer&all tell him yr name.
&all like that.
then get to know him some more.
&when you do get to know him a lot.
like realy good.
ask to hang out sometime.
hope i helped.
[:
-Sammy
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So lets see I don’t really hate her but I hate how she treats people
But before I get to that you should know that I don’t have many friends, and that I would say it is because of schools I’ve been to in the past where I was treated like absolute shit and my best friend was my super slicer (razor blade), but im not like that anymore but out of all of that came me not trusting people thus why I have no friends..anyway I hate my best friend because shes sooooooo judgemental of everyone and everything and I used to be just like that last year and I think that’s why we got along so well because im not like that anymore and I don’t want to be friends with her anymore because of how she is, but she makes me laugh and I know that when you get to know her shes a good person, but I know that I cant stand her judging, but if I stop being friends with her ill have no friends and then well yah I don’t want to go back there. SO WHAT WOULD YOU DO because im lost…and please if your going to just judge me dont say anything please.
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well, if you want to have friends i would stay with her cuz she's your only friend.... as you say....but if i were you i would get into sports and stuff and give people a chance! You have to get over not trusting people and start to try because not everyone is mean. once you make SOME friends.... then don't be friends with her.
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hey
well theres this boy who really likes me...
and at 1st i didnt like him just friends.
But now we talk and weve gotten closer which is good=] but like people wouldnt concider him hot... so if we started going out i mite loose friends... because wed be an odd couple... but then again go with your instincs dont listen to what people think... i dont know what to do!!! helpp (link)
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If your friends leave your cuz you go out with a "not so hot" boy then there not your real friends...... your real friends would stick with you. and i went out with a "not so hot" boy once and people didn't care........ so do what you want if you like him then go for it.
- Rachel
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hey guys
im usually in good moods whenever i talk to my friends, but sometimes i get really depressed and i have low self esteem, im not bi polar, i went to the doctor, but i was wondering if you know any good tips on boosting self esteem it would really help.
kk thanks (link)
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Well one day you should write a whole list of good things about yourself and a list of the bad.... then try to fix the bad and see if you feel better about yourself.....you could also do fun things like go to the mall or something.... stay away from depressing things......ask your friends what they like about you then take that to heart and don't think of the bad things about yourself..
hope i helped...
- Rachel
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why did the chicken cross the road? (link)
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idk.
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im your age..my friend knows you that how i know...female..[before i ask i need to fill you in..my friend went out with this kid lets call him jay. they broke up and we were friends when he was going out with my friend. except we never talked in person...we've seen each other in person but havnt really talked] ok what if someone likes you [yea "jay"] and wants to see you like hang out and everything but you dont like them back and you dont know what to say like how to tell them you dont like them without being mean..like i mean they didnt acctually "say" [i like you] but you can tell i mean im moving way up on there top what ever on myspace and they keep asking "hey call me"..i know friends say that to but...i dont know..i just can tell you know?...and im nice to practily everyone you know and i love all my friends but i just dont know how to tell this one i dont like him?
help!
sincerly
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okay.
i would tell "jay"
that you love having him as a friend.
&since you havent talked that much in person.
i would start to hang out ith him.
but when you start something up like.
"omg i love us beign friends.
i so hope we can say friends forever"
&if he doesnt get the hint by then.
idk.
my other friend could help you out a lot more than i could.
&Rachel has been in this postion.
but hasnt really understood it.
so here.
my friends name is alexa.
her link to her advice colum is.
http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=askmissalexa&prev=1
she could help you out a lot more.
sorry.
i've tried to give people advice in this section be4.
but havent been able to.
so hit my friend up.
im sure she can help you more than i could.
but i'd also try doing what i sed.
sorry i couldnt help more.
-Sammy
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My friend Mimi (size 6, but looks like a 4) went to a flea market and a woman was trying to sell her jeans. The vendor says to Mimi in a sheepish voice “I have jeans I am selling. You are a size 10, my daughter is a size 10.” That night when Mimi went home she told her friends what the vendor said and her friends said to her: “The vendor just wants to sell her jeans, she would say the same thing to a size 2.” My question: Do you agree with Mimis friends? (link)
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yes i would.
some my friend that i go to the mall with.
or a flea market with.
that sometimes happenes to me or my friends.
but we just ignore it.
all the person or poeple are tryig to do.
is sell the jeans.
hope i helped.
-Sammy
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hey
well lets just start by saying im in highschool.
my mom married dis guy "jon" 3 years ago.
Hes a total drunk nd he sumtimes hits ma mom
I got rele upset 1 day, so i yelled at him and threatned to call the cops he started yelling at me and i ran upstairs in ma room and i locked the door. He stayed next my door for 2 hours, i didnt kno if he wuz still there cuz he wasnt makin any noise so i opened the door and he came in my room, and well lets just say im no longer a virgin. He threatend if i ever told on him tht hed kill ma mom and me. He and my mom are still married 3 years later I didnt dare tellin ma mom i dont wanna put her in danger but i kno she knows sumthin is wrong. "jon" sumtimes comes in ma room at night and touches me in my places
i have no clue what 2 do.
got any good advice? (link)
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oaky.
what i would do.
is since yr in highschool i would go to my counsler.
i'd tell them everything that happened.&tell them what he sed about killing you&yr mother.
&tell them to try to keep you safe.
&get them to get yr mother in with you guys someday.
so you could tell her about whats been happening with "jon".
&that he took yr virginty.
&tell yr mother what he sed.
about killing you guys.
&call the police.
&tell them you need to stay safe.&farrrrrrrrr away from him..
hope i helped.
sorry rachel is probably much better at this.
-Sammy
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what is the best way to ask a girl out. and where. (link)
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for me.
i would to think the best place to ask a girl out is @ the beach.
right when the sunset it happening.
just look into her eyes.
& ask her.
"do you wanna be my girlfriend"
if yr shy &all.
i would practice it in front of the mirror a few times.
hope i helped.
-Sammy
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hi,
most of my friends say im skinny, and my family does too, but honestly i dont think i am. I tried starving myself, and it didnt work, i dont want to become bulemic, but i think i am on my way. im afraid to admit to this problem because if i do, my parents will freak out on me.
Help! i dont know what to do.
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well confused1226.
i actually have felt the same way.
my friends tell me im skinny&so do my family.but i just dont think it.
what i think you need to do is.
try eatting more if you think yr becoming bulemic.
&yes.its a really bad thing to be that.cause it will get you to become aneroinx-sorry cant spell-&then you may end up in the hospital if it goes to far.
so try eatting more.dont think about being skinny or fatt.just eat like you would normally.
&when people tell you that yr skinny.tell them thank you.&all.
but after that dont think about it.
cause it may get you back to thinking about bulemic.
so just say thank you.then try thinking about something good.
hope i helped.
-Sammy
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Well there's this guy I like and me and him talk alot, which I know is good and everything, but know we've talked so much there isn't too much to talk about anymore, and the conversation starts to die after awhile.
I mean we do the casual "how was your day? school? what'd you do?," and everything, but after that, it's hard to talk about anything else cause you've already talked about mostly everything.
Helpppp? (link)
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okay.
i have totally been in this situation.
thats how i usually am with guys that i like.
okay.
what i usually do is.start asking random ?'s&then saying "I'm really bored so i feel like asking random questions".
also try like getting him to laugh.
try by telling him jokes&all.
plus.
if you still dont think you know that much about him.
ask him ?'s on what he likes to do? whats he wanna be when he grows up? if he plays an instrument.
try doing all that.
it usually helps&pick us some point with me&the guys i like.
hope i helped.
-Sammy
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hey well i need some major help...
im think im kinda fat and i wanna lose weight like 20 pounds!as fast as possible but i dont know how! i tried eating less and i walk to school everyday (as a way of excercise) and somtimes i go on bike rides i dont know it seems like im not losing weight does anyone else have some simple or easy way on how to lose weight at all???
sincerely
wanna lose weight!!
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You could always buy some light weights to start off with - to get the fat off your arms and you can run around your neighborhood and do crunches to lose weight in your stomach.... that's what I do and it kinda works.KINDA because nothing is 100% affective.
P.S. Also at dinner only eat one plate of food don't go back for seconds.
- Rachel
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im 14/f and i have the symptons of bipolar disorder. i thought only older people could develop this order. is it possible that at my age i have this? (link)
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yes it is possible for you to be bipolar @ this age.
many people are bipolar at this age.
some even younger.
hope i helped.
-Sammy
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okay theres this kid i like in school. lets call him bob. I guess you'd call it love at first sight.. or.. attraction.. or like getting a crush. I liked him since the first day of school, but didnt admit it for a while. I've never known him before, so yeah its fresh. I was never really his friend.. or his enemy, it was like neutral but I didnt really talk to him that much, because of me being shy.
Im not really a shy person, but.. sometimes I just am, like if Im uncomfortable or something. Anyway, once he stood up for me to this stupid kid who was dissing my instrument, when he had an instrument himself, so he shouldnt even have been talking. It was nice, but me being so shy, I was like "um thanks" but couldnt bring myself to see his expression (I'm a bottom locker and his locker is like.. above mine, 1 space away) And some other stuff too.
Today, he talked to me like twice.. first he asked about like if we had homework, because I was working on this thing for our class that I didnt finish.. but it was due a long time ago. then like 2 periods later he asked if I got 100% on some writing piece. okay.. why does he know this and why does he care?
I dunno whether to be happy or like not be, cuz I'm overthinking things as usual. Anyway, then I kept on seeing him in the hallway and stuff, and whenever I'd look at him he'd be looking at me back. And then like in the last period I just came from the water fountain and he like caught me off guard because I just like moved a piece of my hair away from my wet lip.. haha I hope I looked hott then.
anyways, then i couldnt really concentrate in that class because that was just plain awkward. OKAY, so what are your ideas with this? i really dont want to get heartbroken, nor do I know if I like.. love him and would wanna go out with him. its so confusing! im not even much of his friend yet, but we have some similaraties, too. (like, we're really sporty) or how do i become his friend? no matter what you say, Im real shy around boys I like. I cant go up to them and say like "hi" and stuff... how can I just find a way to join the conversation.. or make the whole thing easier? GAH this is soo hard!
13/f
thankyou!
and I tried to seperate the wall o' text, hah. (link)
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haha i agree you really are over thinking things.......unlike you I'm not shy around the guys I like, but that's ok! I'm also very random so I just go up to boys and say "hi" even tho they look at me weird they say hi back and then we get into a conversation and that's how I meet most of my guy friends. It's really nice that "bob" stuck up for you. Maybe you could just say hi once in awhile, even tho you say your too shy. If you break out of your shell when it comes to boys they will get to know you more and start to like you. So give it a try! =] -Rachel
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ok..somebody help me.. what does "straight edge" mean? (link)
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okay.
straight edge meas that you dont smoke weed,or ciggs. or smoke anything.
&that you dont drink.
if it says not sraight edge
that mean.
the person does smoke weed or whatever.
&does drink.
or it means.
that they will one day&there not afraid to do it.
hope i helped
-Sammy
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soo i just got my period. and im kind of confused- about everything. how long can i leave a tampon in? can i wear one to bed? and how long does it last? one week every month?
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okay.
1.you can leave a tampon in for about..2-4 hours i want to say.but i would also carry some around with you if you ever go somewhere.
2.yes,you can wear one to bed.but it can also give you problems in some ways.like TSS.
3.a girls period will usually last from 3-7 days.sometimes even up to 10 days for some people.
and 4.you usually get yr period 25 or 28 days after yr last period.
hope i helped.
-Sammy
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do your boobs stop growing once you get your period? (link)
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no they dont.
they gett bigger but you wont really notice it.
trust me.
-Sammy
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Im a 14 year old girl. i just recently [about a month ago] tried to commit suicide. but before i could my friend steped in a took my to my school counciler. from there my mom was called in and she was crying.. blah blah. mk well i was fine after that. me and my sister got back on track with each other. about two weeks later i started to cut myslef. in one night i had cut all the way up to my elbow. after that night i stoped. the next day i was happy. i dont get why all of this is happening. i am happy one day then i feel like slicing someone open and i have all this anger. no one ses this side of me. only my family and i am so mean to them its un real. but i hate that after the fact. after screaming my head off and wishing they would die i feel so low; so horrible. i write my feelings down in poems and other ways. i hate when i am in this mood but i dont kno how to ask for help. i tried once and they blew it off like teenage hormons and i let them. now im afride that one night i will have no control and go that extra mile. which i dont want to kill myslef but when i get in that mood i have lost all control and another me is showing... i am never this way with my friends just with my family; when the littlest thing ticks me off. i want so badly to totaly forget my family and leave. let me put it this way; i would rather be put in a mental intitution instead of live in this house. [i dont get betten i just dont conect w/ any family member]
please someone; how can i ask for help without directly asking for it. no one sees me hurting becuase i get this way when i am alone and i feel so emberrsed when i get this way. i dont kno what to do. im so confused. (link)
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okay.
i myself know what its like to be in this postion.
i have felt the same exact way.
&for me my friends thought i was PMSing every 5 seconds.
but then i found out i was bipolar.
being bipolar can make you feel like how yr feeling.
what i would do it.
go to a doctor&ask them for help.
ask them questions&question them on things they say.
you need more help.
come back to me.
&tell me what happened.
then i'll be able to help a lot more.
-Sammy
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