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Hi, I'm going to high school this year and I want to make a splash. I have changed a lot over the summer to more of a fun-loving and more confident person. I just got a great haircut, but I want some advice on clothes that I can wear that aren't too expensive and are modest (also, any ideas of stores that have good clothes, but not too expensive). I'm 15/f, blue eyes, blonde hair (shoulder length and layered) I am 5'3 and I weigh 105 pounds, so I have a thin frame. Any advice would be great!

I am about the same as you, and the places I shop at are Abercrombie or Abercrombie & Fitch, Hollister, and American Eagle. You can sometimes get good deals from them on sale. Aeropostale maybe? Umm Anchor Blue, Forever 21, Charlotte Russe..:]

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my boyfriend who ive been with for a very long time wanted to finger me today..but im on my period! hes already done it many times before so when he started to go for it and i took his hand away he was like whats wrong? i didnt want his hand to touch that he'd be DISGUSTED! so i just said"not now"but he kept trying to later on! i wear pads most of the time but even when i do wear tampons..i still cant tell him im on my period cause thatll make everything so awkward! how do you tell a guy without being embarassed and it is it gonna make them freaked out?? cause frankly, its the only thing thats stopping me from doing it and i have no idea what to say.

simply say.. "wrong time of the month" & just give him a quick kiss

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I told this kid that knows my boyfriend that my boyfriend poped my cherry and we had oral sex on a.i.m. So before i could tell him i was lieing he signed off! Now i'm scared he is going to tell my boyfriend. The only way i can think of to fix the problem is if the kid signs back on a.i.m and i tell him i was joking. What should I do? And what if he tells my boyfriend?

just be like 'omg he is such a liar' to your boyfriend. haha its what i would do:]

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16f
my mom caught me mastubating and watching porn and now i'm crying and i'm mad and i don't know what to do.... i feel awful... i cant stop crying i think i'm gonna cut myself... dammit i dont know what else to do!!! please help me i'm not some emo kid but im considering killing myself...

Dont worry about it! It will be awkward most likely but just remember she has probably masturbated! She should be happy your doing that and now running around having sex you know?

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Ok, so this may sound lame but I really need to know this. How old do you have to be to get a job at HOLLISTER, ABERCROMBIE&FITCH, RUEHL or abercrombie. I hear the have real good salaries but I've never asked how old you need to be to be able to work there. Also they say on their website that you send in a resume. What should it look like? Is there any sites with examples of one and help on how to make one? Please answer!

abercrombie and fitch have computers in the walls where you sign up for a job there and they tell you all the requirements and things. my cousin works there and shes 19 but i dont know haha.

hope i helped

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how can i get my limewire music to go to my itunes after downloading w/out having to go through && dragging the songs??
--thnx♥

the button is either shift or control but hold it down and click the songs at the same time & yea

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hey does anyone know what the hollister shirt that says "yeah? bfd" means?

big freaking deal


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how can imake my breasts look bigger with out stuffing.

push up bra!
padded bras also, but make sure you go to victoria secret because they have the best bras ever and they really do make flat people look like they have something up top, LOL.

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Me and my friend are trying to save up around $1150.00 to take a trip in august 9-12. we need money fast, easy, and soon. Does anyone know anything we can do to start raising money? any suggestions?

garage sales and a car wash.
also things like babysitting, ha, and recycling maybe?

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i really just want to commit suicide. i just can't stand my life anymore. i just feel like i would be better in heaven where i would have no worries. someone please help. i can only take so much. i don't know how to cope. i'm just going to end up killing myself. i know i am. i have no reason to live.

please please please do not commit suicide.
there will be a horrible effect on the people that love you. think of your mother and how hard it was for you to get here and how she took care of you and raised you. it just wouldnt be fair. you should get involoved in a club or a sport. change your look, cut your hair something that will make you feel better about yourself. remind yourself that you only have one chance to live, then you have heaven forever. heaven is a reward after a long hard life. appreciate what you have now, because you dont have very much time to live if you think about it. Take care

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my ipod nano screen is frozen.. what should i do?

omg that happened to me last night.
i plugged the charger into my laptop over the night and then in the morning it was back to normal

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Who sings that song "Eye to Eye"?
Its from the goofy movie.
Thanks for the help!

i looked it up and all i got was Tevin Campbell?
LOL sorry if thats not really it:[

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16/F, You know that typical story of if the most popular guy likes a girl who is considered a geek/loser that everyone likes to pick on and his friends don't approve by saying that you're reputation will be ruined etc. Then his friends would give them both a hard time in school. I'm in that type of situation and I'm wondering why does this happen?

if your a popular jock, you are expected to have a popular cheerleader girlfriend right? it happens because his friends are worried that the boy will make them lose their 'status' as being popular. it is so retarded i know.

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ok well i have aim triton and i have made my profile and everything but no one can see it, so does anyone no if i have to like turn something on/off so people will b able to view it?
thanx

aim triton reallllly sucks so you should just download an older version like I did.

Hope i helped!!

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How come whenever I run, I get a cramp like on my side.. usually on my right side.. I know they're not menstrual cramps, because they feel way different.. but idk, I've had them for a while, and I think it's a common problem among people.. but does ANYBODY know what they're caused by? And how to prevent them? I also get them when I walk alot sometimes.. but especially when I run on bumpy ground, at softball for example. Any input would be greatly appreciated, thanks! Oh websites are great too =] Thanks again! ♥

your drinking too much water before you run.
seriously.
that used to happen to me and i have a running coach & yea.

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Iam 16 years old and my math teacher has been really mean to me like she calls me fat and miss piggy and it's really lowering my selfesteem.mrs.Trapnell that's my teachers name asked me how much my mom weighed and she asked me was my sister fat and all kinds of things like that.mrs.Trapnell also made me sit in the counsler's office for 2 hours for something that didn't even happen in her classroom I was stretching and my shirt was kind of short and this boy was next to me and mrs.trapnell saw it and this happened 2 days before she sent me to the counsler's office she said I was showing off my body in front of this boy named carl is this ok for a teacher to do this can I get her in trouble can she get fired.Is this right or is it my fault?

you really really need to tell the school's principal about this witch because this is abuse. The next time she says anything, just be like, I have to be excused, I can't listen to this, then walk right to the principals office. This is very wrong what she's doing.

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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself.

Moderators or however you spell it DO suspend people. Well they, 'ban' them, so thats just like the same thing.

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how can i get my dog into modeling? like everyone always comments on what i beautiful dog she is and she is very photogentic (yes i am a camera whore) and i would love to get her involved in doing ads for like petco and places like that. like not calendar modeling (although that would be nice) i believe she has the skills to get into it and shes almost a year old a very well trained. I dont want to get her an agent or anything fancy like that. how do i go about getting her into modeling?

What I would do is to try going to the most local main petshop, such as petsmart or petco, and asking an employee. But I`m not sure of course haha, just an ideaaaa:]

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I recently found out that one of my best friends has eye cancer. If it spreads to her brain, which it probably will within the next year, she'll die. She refuses to do anything about it, surgery or chemo, and is just giving up. I've tried to convince her to do something, and she won't listen. What should I do?

oh gosh i am so sorry about this situation. Tell your friend you really care about her and because of this, she should take care of herself. If nothing at all works, tell her mom how you feel about everything.
good luck, best wishes.

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hey! i'm 14/F and i think i have a problem, but i've been to embarressed to ask anyone about it.
i don't know if it's important or not, but i haven't had my period yet.
anyway --
whenever i go to the bathroom, and look in my underwear, and see stains in them - but they're yellowish-whiteish. it's been scaring me, `cause i dono if it's a problem! ..do you know what to do? thanks.

heyy
nope nothings wrong, your just going to have your period probably soon. all girls have discharge, so yeah your fine haha:]

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