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hey umm my cuzin wants to know shes 11 turning 12 next onth how much is the maximum of normal wieght (link)
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How tall is she?
I think the average weight for a 12 year old is between 85-110 lbs. Some are more than that, some are less.
It's really a height thing. If I knew how tall she was it'd be easier to say.
-FunnyCide
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months now and i still havent given him a handjob yet because i am so nervous (ive never given a handjob before).. can you please tell me everything i need to know.. like should i use lotion or not? etc.. and just any tips would be great.. if you can't say it on here then you can give me your sn for aim.. thanks (link)
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Well, hun... I'll just tell you some things I've picked up along the way.
I'm as new to this as you are. My boyfriend and I have been dating over nine months and we haven't even kissed; though that is our choice. I will try my best to answer your question.
Make sure your hands don't have cuts on them. If your boyfried has an STD or an STI (whether he's aware of it or not) you could get it from an open cut. Always use a condom. Some people like to use lotion, some don't. It's up to your and your boyfriend.
Considering my lack of knowledge... maybe you should ask someone more experienced. Mackenzie [http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=Mackenzie] would probably be of more help than I am.
Before I sign off though, I've found you a helpful website... you could always try Google, too.
http://www.alwaysuseacondom.com/gs/howtogiveahandjob.html
-FunnyCide
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ok girls...
how do you get you eh hem...down there...smelling better?
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Hmm...
Take very good care of yourself - excellent personal hygiene is incredibly important. Use scented soap / body wash if you're not too sensitive.
Of course, hygiene also includes wearing clean underwear, socks, pants and shirts every day, bathing regurally (every day) and using deoderant.
If you have the time, spray your underwear with a good smelling [but not too strong] perfume, then gently iron them on the lowest setting. If you don't have this much time, try this alternative :
Get a Ziploc sandwich baggie and fill it half way with Epsom Salts. Add some of your favorite sweet smelling purfume to the the salt, and, if you wish, some food coloring. Zip the bag up and mix up the purfume, coloring and salts well. Make two+ of these, and place them in your underwear drawer. If you want, leave the bags slightly unzipped for a stronger scent in your drawer.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/teens/girls/sexloveandlife/atozofyou/sexandbodyfiles/bo.shtml
http://www.kidzworld.com/site/p2765.htm
-FunnyCide
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From a female,
When you are sexually active is there supposed to be hair uhh "down there"? or do you shave it off or what? sorry if this is like a stupid question or whatever but i'll rate. (link)
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When you start puberty, your body begins to grow pubic hair [that's the hair "down there"], just as hair begins to grow under your arms.
If you're asking if you should shave if you are sexually active... that is your's, and your boyfriend's, preferences. There is no reason you need to shave unless you want to do so.
-FunnyCide
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I have a friend, and whenever I go online, she almost always Instant Messages me. I was cool with it for a while, but no it's just irritating. I've put an away message up, but I always eventually come back. What can I do (It has to be nice)? (link)
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I don't have the "low down" on AOL, since I don't have it. But if she's really bothering you... why don't you tell her that sometimes you just want to be online, not talk to someone? Or ask her if you can start the conversation next time.
I don't know if AOL has this feature, but with AIM, you can go invisible (click the eye on your buddy list. You're still signed on, but you look signed off). That way you only talk to the people you want to talk to. This is just a temporary fix.
AIM also lets you talk to people with your away message up. I practically live with mine up, only taking it down when there's someone I really want to talk to.
You could make a new SN, and "forget" to tell her... but then the confrontation wouldn't be pretty.
Basically, your best bet is to ask her to cool her guns.
-FunnyCide
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what goes best with a black tube top..
- dark blue jeans
- denim mini skirt
- or white white
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All of it would be okay, but if I were you I'd go with the jeans ore the white skirt. Well... not really, because I don't wear skirts, but the jeans or the white skirt will be the cutest.
-FunnyCide
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my hair is very hard to straighten..what are sum products i can use to straighten it.
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When you get out of the shower, blow dry your hair. This will usually help straighten it a little. Use a wide "paddle" brush to help straighten it while you dry it.
You can always use products that will help calm your hair, such as shampoos and leave in conditioners, but they never work for me.
Once I tried chemically straightening my hair; and it helped... some. But I still had to straighten it with a flat iron. It may work for you - to chemically straighten it. You can purchase chemical straighteners at Sallys for under $10. Most hair dressers can chemically straighten your hair too, but the woman who cuts my hair said that it's so frizzy and curly that it wouldn't be worth the $50.
It also could be the flat iron you're using. I had a ConAir flat iron and it didn't work AT ALL. I had to straighten my hair for 2+ hours and it still wasn't straight. Now I have a CHI flat iron and my hair is board straight in 45 minutes. It's wonderful.
-FunnyCide
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whats your opinion on a freshman dating a junior?
Please Help all i want is opinions
I RATE!
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I'm a freshman. My boyfriend's a junior. No problems. Girls are usually more mature than boys anyway, so the age gap between my boyfriend and I makes us have about the same maturity level.
-FunnyCide
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Yesterday i just put god in my heart, because my life was going bad and i was doing alot of bad thigns that i shouldn't have been doing. and i'm going to follow the path god wants me to now and do what i think he thinks his right. And i was just wondering if there was anybody out there who could give me some pointers on what to do and not to do because i am new at this. And could you please name some christian bands cause i used to lisen to metal and i dont' want to anymore because i think it would go against god because of the stuff they say i dotn'w ant to lisen to any more hate singers anymore. Please help i'll rate 5's for good anwsers. (link)
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I know this is an old question, but I wanted to offer my two cents worth anyway.
Metal doesn't really go against God. Some bands which sing / play metal may go against God, but metal itself does not.
Great Christian bands :
Pop / Contemporary :
- NewSong
- Natalie Grant
- 4Him
- FFH [Far From Home]
- Big Daddy Weave
- Avalon
- Jeremy Camp
- Casting Crowns
- Steven Curtis Chapman
- Bethany Dillon
- Sara Groves
- Jump5
- Shawn McDonald
- MercyMe
- Bebo Norman
- Plus One
- Point Of Grace
- Chris Rice
- Salvador
- Matthew West
- Joy Williams
- Building429
Punk / Rock /[includes classic rock]:
- 7Thunders
- Relient K
- Beggars Fortune
- John Michael Talbot
- Kutless
- Thousand Foot Krutch
- Todd Agnew
- Audio Adrenaline
- Barlow Girl
- Day Of Fire
- Hawk Nelson
- Jars Of Clay
- Newsboys
- Larry Norman
- Sanctus Real
- Sixpence None The Richer
- Switchfoot
- Third Day
Hip Hop / Rap :
- Superchic[k]
- The Ambassador
- Apocalypze
- KJ-52
- CHRISTyle
- John Reuben
- Lingo
- Manafest
Ska :
- OC Supertones
- Nifty Tom 50
- Five Iron Frenzy
- Israelites
- Insyders
Metal / Hard Rock :
- Underoath
- Becoming the Archetype
- Narnia
- POD [Payable On Death]
- Pillar
- Dizmas
- Kids In The Way
- 12 Stones
- Haste the Day
- Acoustic War Against Satan
- Demon Hunter
- Sacred Warrior
- Disciple
These lists are no where near complete, but maybe... even though they're late... help (or be at least half amusing).
I, personally, listen to Kids In The Way, The Dizmas, Underoath, Skillet, Pillar, Superchic[k], The OC Supertones, and some Relient k.
God bless you.
-FunnyCide
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 month,tomorrow.We have been planning on going to the movies, but neither one of us thought about it being our anniversary. I just now remembered.So, I'm just wondering if I should get him anything for it? or what?
any help would be appreciated!
I rate 5's!
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Well... it's only been a month. I think if you go to the movies or something and tell him that you care, it should be enough. But if you really want to get him something, go with his favorite candy or get him a sweet card.
Guys typically don't... care that much about sentimental cards. Some do, yes, care about them, but the majority are like "Eh, card. So what?"
My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little more than nine months, and we've never given each other anything for "anniversarys."
But that's just us.
-FunnyCide
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can people instant message eachother if lets say, one has aim and the other has yahoo instant messager (link)
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Yes, you can. I have several friends who use / have used Trillian in order to instant message people over all sorts of different messaging systems (MSN, Yahoo, AIM etc.)
http://www.download.com/3000-2150-10047473.html
-FunnyCide
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Does making out have to contain using your tongue?
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Only if you want to add it, but usually that's considered "Frenching" or "Snogging."
http://www.thefreedictionary.com/make%20out
The definition of "make out" which you were referring to is near the bottom of the page, item number 8 under "physical verbs."
-FunnyCide
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If some guy says you're both dating, but not officially going out [boyfriend/girlfriend], then does that mean you're single or taken? (link)
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Single. You are free to date other people as you choose.
-FunnyCide
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i've never used a tampon and i haven't had my period yet but does using a tampon feel like sex (link)
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No. It does not. A woman's body is usually hypersensitive to things like this, but during the time that she's on her period (especially at the begining) she will probably have little to no desire for sex / sexual activity / masturbation etc.
-FunnyCide
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Hello there,
I'd like to thank whoever is gonna give me advice in advance.
Anyway, I've always had this problem:
I'm the president of the Student Council, and honestly I expected people, including my friends, to be happy for me.
However, two of my friends ( a boy and a girl), who are also on the Student council, started rumors about me being a show off and reminding the teachers about the homework, eventhough it's not true.
The boy's girlfriend is on the Student Council too, and I wanted to ask for her opinion about something. And as soon as I even opened my mouth, he cut me off! And stupid me didn't say anything! Not "Please man, I'm talking to her", nothing!
And on the same day, we had a "crazy dress up" competition and the Student Council members had to judge.
I was dressed as a gypsy, and was wearing a red shirt, red bandana, and red sandals. So from the beginning of the day, he keeps trying to provoke me: "Is it Valentine's day today or what?"
All I said was "What do you have against me?" and I walked away from him.
And in front of everyone, EVERYONE, he practically yells at me saying: "This crazy dress up must've been your idea!"
I just stared at him and walked away again.
And guess what? The crazy dress up day wasn't my idea! It was the other girl's idea and he would've known if he was even paying attention in the meetings! And guess what else? I didn't say that to him!
So my question is: How can I show this guy, whom I've known for almost 5 years, that he's being immature and is disrespecting me and hurting my feelings? :(
And how can I tell the other girl that I know what she's been saying about me? (link)
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DO NOT BEAT THEM UP as skater suggested. Bad, bad, bad. You get caught / turned in, and you're out of the school for a while. Suspended or even expelled. No. No fighting.
Outside of school, in a relaxed, private situation, pull the girl aside and ask her why there are rumors going around about you. Ask her why the boy is being so rude. (Don't say anything that would be considered offensive or harsh. Don't call anyone names. Then they'll just be pissed off at you.) Ask her if it was his idea to spread rumors and if they're jealous. Ask if you hurt her feelings.
As for the guy, ask him to meet you somewhere. Somewhere that there will not be a lot of people to overhear, but so you're not totally alone. Tell him gently that he hurt your feelings. Let him know, kindly, that you feel disrespected and you're afraid that you're going to lose his friendship.
It'll be hard - VERY hard - to be kind and gentle when dealing with these people, but remember to keep your voice down and your head calm. If you're hotheaded about it, they'll come back with three times the hotheadedness. But if you're gentle and cool, there's more of a chance they'll listen to you because you are non threatening.
-FunnyCide
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can any body tell me the importance and significance of gurupoornima for a sadhaka? and how he should celebrate? (link)
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Ignore skater. You're not making words up.
I, personally, don't know anything about it. However, these websites may be able to help you some.
http://www.yogamag.net/archives/2004/4july04/say404.shtml
http://www.viswaguru.com/year2003/dec03.htm
http://www.dlshq.org/download/gurudevaki.htm
-FunnyCide
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Would anyone recommend a tampon brand that fits these requirements:
~easy to get in and take out
~has an applicator
~good for girls who are just starting out on the whole tampon matter.
*brand websites highly welcome*
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ok Tampax Lites / Juniors. Those are great because they're small enough for girls who are starting off with the whole tampon thing. They come in sizes larger than Lite or Junior of course, but those are the two that I use (but I'm really small and have a light flow).
http://www.tampax.com/
http://www.tampaxpearl.com/
http://www.beinggirl.com/
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Does anyone know the average height&weight for a 14 year old girl? thanks (link)
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I would say between 5'1'' and 5'5'' and between 100 - 140 pounds.
http://www.am-i-fat.com/ will tell you a good BMI for yourself as well as other things. http://www.coolnurse.com/ will be able to help you with any other questions you might have.
http://pediatrics.about.com/cs/growthcharts2/l/blgirlstwo.htm
^^ Height / weight chart for girls 2-20 years old.
-FunnyCide
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I tryed to put my picture on my advice column, and it said it was to big. I went to pant, but had no idea what i was doing. How can i resize my picture, in an easy way?
thank you!!
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Go to Paint.
Open your picture. If you're not sure how to do this, click on File, then Open. Find your picture and select it.
Now that your picture is open, at the top menu bar find 'Image.' It should be the fourth item from the left. Click on Image, and a drop down menu will appear. Select "Stretch/Skew" - which is second from the top - or press CTRL + W. Don't do anything to the "Skew" part. That changes the angle. Tilts the picture - basically screws it up.
On the Stretch part, enter numbers smaller than 100 to change the size of your picture.
If you have any more questions, feel free to IM me. [ my screen name is on my column. ]
-FunnyCide
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ok well i love this guy and he loves me..but i mean howw do i tell him i love him? im very nervous, and im really shy.. but hes already told me he loves me.. and i want to tell him the same. but i cant because im too nervous...help, please
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Do not feel pressured to say these three words to him. The first time my boyfriend and I said it.. he said "Love you" and I said "love you too... bye." It was a little scary at first, to expose your deepest and most vounerable emotion like that.. but it was good.
If you are too afraid to actually say it...
- Write him a little note.
- When you see him, and there's not too many people around, catch his eye and mouth the words 'I love you.'
- Write 'I love you' on your hand/arm, take a picture of it, then IM/E-mail him the picture or just give him the picture.
It may be scary now to say it, but it'll come. If you're not sure you do love him, or you're not sure that you're ready to say it, don't feel pressured to do so.
-FunnyCide
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