Question Posted Saturday December 31 2005, 4:29 pm
ok well i love this guy and he loves me..but i mean howw do i tell him i love him? im very nervous, and im really shy.. but hes already told me he loves me.. and i want to tell him the same. but i cant because im too nervous...help, please
FunnyCide answered Saturday December 31 2005, 4:53 pm: Do not feel pressured to say these three words to him. The first time my boyfriend and I said it.. he said "Love you" and I said "love you too... bye." It was a little scary at first, to expose your deepest and most vounerable emotion like that.. but it was good.
If you are too afraid to actually say it...
- Write him a little note.
- When you see him, and there's not too many people around, catch his eye and mouth the words 'I love you.'
- Write 'I love you' on your hand/arm, take a picture of it, then IM/E-mail him the picture or just give him the picture.
It may be scary now to say it, but it'll come. If you're not sure you do love him, or you're not sure that you're ready to say it, don't feel pressured to do so.
-FunnyCide [ FunnyCide's advice column | Ask FunnyCide A Question ]
Erinn_the_bamf answered Saturday December 31 2005, 4:48 pm: First off all if you are not ready to tell him this you don't have to. But if you are you just have to come out and say it. It doesn't have to be big and dramatic just say it. If you can't get the words out of your mouth write him a note. Write everything you like about him and at the bottom write I love you in big letters. [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
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