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Ok this might sound bad, but I want everyone to think about it. I want to become anorexic, and it's not because I want to be skinny. I'm already pretty thin. The problem is my cheeks(yes face cheeks). They are chubby and not cute at all. I think not eating would make them thinner right? I'm not going to make it a big thing and not eat until I die. Once they get thin ill eat regularly again. Theres no other ways to lose weight in your cheeks right? I mean I know it sounds really dumb to do that but I'm kind of desperate here. Is it that bad? Do you think I can get really sick? Will it work if I become anorexic?

No. It won't work. Your checks will develope as you get older (assuming you are a teenager). And it's not as simple as "oh I'll eat again." You'll not want to eat. It will become a mental disorder. I'm sorry you either have to wait for your checks to develope or get plastic surgery (I'm not kidding that's your only other option). So don't become anorexic. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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I really like supporting charitable organizations, and I want to buy bracelets for the tsunami relief, Livestrong, and breast cancer. I have heard the footLOcker and Sport Chalet sell them. I was wondering if this is true and where else I could fing these bracelets! Thank you!

All those places sell them. So does Nike and Limited Too (I know a childish store but I got a tsunami braclet there). However, I have to say the best place to get them is www.wearyellow.org. They never run out there and it is the main site for them. You have to order at least ten though. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Hey what progran can you use to make icons that move like?

What I do is first make the frames I want in paint. Then I use a program called movies12 to animate them together. Go to this website and scroll down. Past all the links. It gives you a turtorial on how to make icons using that program. And downloading it is completely free.

http://forums.buddy4u.com/viewtopic.php?t=13299

I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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ok - i need a prom dress, and FAST. i don't want anything too crazy - like no zebra print, or anything like that, relatively simple cut. does anyone know where i can get one? and what style and color do you think would look best on me?
more info - i'm 5'8, but have a small frame, 125 lbs, long brown hair, big brown eyes, fair skin, and a small bust.
thank you so much!!

For websites try going to www.gojane.com. For stores all the department stores like JCPenny's and Macy's have good dresses. Also I'm pretty sure Forever21 has good dresses. Something that would look good on you is pink, green, gold, or black. I hope I elped! ♥ good luck

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ok, everybody has a different deffintion of love, and i want to know what you think about it. it can be serious, or just goofy. i dont care, but i wanna know that you all think of it. and do you believe in love at first site?? thnx

Love is th strongest bond in the world. It is something almost everybody feels, yet, doesn't understand it. It is an emotion and cannot be held. It is a care two people have for each other that let's the other know they would do anything for them even die for them. Love helps you find strength you never thought had but found it for the other person. It is knowing you two are ment to be. Nevertheless, the love you feel thatr isn't for your family probably won't be understood untill you're older. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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ok here the thing. i like this girl & me & her have went out before. well when we went out it didn't work out. but i still like her. so a few days ago i wrote her a note askin her y she hasn't talked to me in almost a year. i also asked her if she was mad at me cuz i kind of said some mean stuff. well she wrote back sayin she ain't mad at me. ok i got a friend who told me that he talked to her today and she said that she was goin write another note that was longer and it would have something in there i would like. well my friend likes to lie alot and i really like this girl. so should i wait for a note or ask her out? (i rate very well)

I think you should ask her out. Of course, you don't know if the note will be good or if there even is a note but you should really try. It's honestly worth a shot. If you like her go for her. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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i really like this guy and we were at a party and i thought it would be fun to go to and have sex. ( hes really cool and popular) when we got to the bed i quikly changed my mind and said i didn't want to have sex. but i guess he didn't care. i don't feel like myself anymore since that nite. what should i do?

I'm very sorry to say this but you have been a vitcam of rape. Call the cops. Press charges. It doesn't matter how cool and popular he is you need to make him pay for what he did. Take action immediatly. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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i want to join cross country next year, and i was wondering... what all do you do and how far do you run?

Cross country is mostly running over hills. It isn't exactly like track. You don't exactly run laps. As I said, you run over hills and such. The distances usually range from 1 mile-2.5 miles. However, depending on your age level it may be more or less. I hope I helpd! ♥ good luck

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i am a christian,but i relate much more to the catholic ways. Is it sacriligious to be from a different form of christianity before becoming catholic, and is there a procedure to take before u can be one?

No this is not sacriligous. Yes, there is a procedure to become a Catholic. You go to an RCIA program at a Catholic church. That means once Holy Saturday comes around you will make the sacrments of welcoming to the Catholic church. Those sacrmaents are Baptism, Euchrist (sp?), and Confirmation. After that you are fully a member of the Catholic church. (Note: you may not have to make a Confirmation that day because you may be too young to do so). I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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first of all, i apologize for the misspelling of 'skating', and the general idiotic appearance of the title. but it worked, didn't it? you came in here to correct me! :P

i am a 16 year-old rookie skater (female) who can't ollie yet.

i was at the skateboard-city.com forums, and this guy posts a rather mean post about how most of the girls that skate are posers, who skate to try to get with 'skater boys', or to get the whole 'skater punk rock' look.

whe someone calls you a poser, the first reaction is to deny it. so of course all of the female skaters on that site protested, but it made ME wonder...

am i a poser? i wish i could say no, but i honestly don't know. there are various reasons why i started to skate (about six mo. ago).

i can definitely say that i didn't start skateboarding because i thought the 'skater style' was hot or anything. i am a "girly-girl" however, i'm not so sure about the skater boy factor. what if i unconsciously DID start to skate because i wanted to meet skater boys? i know it's definitely true that i wanted to make some friends (regardless of gender) through skateboarding.

also the fact that skateboarding - just skateboarding around your town and on the streets itself looked "cool" was a part of the reason why i started. but is this necessarily bad? don't guys get inspired, after seeing a skating video, to do better because of how 'cool' it looks?

and, is it possible to start off as a poser (start skating to look cool or meet guys or whatever) but to change along the way?

sorry about the length. however, i'd really appreciate it if someone (hopefully a skater themselves) replied. thanks in advance. i rate.

No. Not all girl skaters are posers and you definatly don't sound like one. Seeing how cool skating looks is how most people start. This does not mean they are posers. How did the people who have been skating for a while start? The same way. And yes you can change from a poser. However, posers are people who lie and make fun of people just likethem. And you are not one of those people. And as to the female skating issue there are many female skaters who started out when skating was still not as popular as a sport. So males started after them too. So what I am trying to say is you are not a poser and the male who said all females are posers was terribly mistaken. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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I am so tired of people writing "liek dis" Spell correctly so that you can actually get some advice! I don't even know how those questions even appear on the site if it's not even understandable...Does anyone agree with me or am I just illiterate?

I agree. I'm a mod and always rate questions that I can't read a one. I mean honestly if half the people on the site can't read your question do you expect to get decent advice? It's not too hard to type properly. I agree 150%.

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my mom puts me down so much and i dont know what to do anymore...like if i do sumthin shell jus say sumthin rude about it and leave it at that...nothen i do ever is good enoguh for her..all the rude things she says to me makes me cry so much and she dont even think whut she says hurts me...i try to talk to her but she never listen...my dad is even doin it now to..i dont kno whut to do ne more..help

Get another relative to help. Either an aunt, grandma, grandpa, or uncle (from your mom's side). Have them tell your mom how much this is hurting you. If they tell hers he'll probably listen to them. As for your dad, if he started because of your mom he will probably stop when she stops. I hope I elped! ♥ good luck

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I hate myself and want to die. There is no way out. There is no definite answer to anything so how can you ever be right? Why do my friends always want to know what i am thinking when they dont care, they dont listen so why ask. Counsellors get PAID to listen to you. no one will remember me a year from my death. Anti depressants leave you numb and emotionless. Doctors dont issue sleeping pills coz I am a depressant but I cant SLEEP all i do is stare into senseless nothing seeing nothing but black shadows. The only releif is a razor blade and salt. Nothing will ever get better i will have this hopeless feeling of nothingness and desperation for somekind of peace of mind which i wont get. Things will always be the same and then ill die anyway. Im a selfish ugly fat bitch and the only way out is death. nothing can help me. im searching for a solution to get past my pathetic problems asides from counsellors, therapy, rehab, cutting, not cutting, anti depressants the only thing i can think of to a solution is death. no will will ever be able to stop this drowning feeling

OK just shut up. Right now. There are so many ways out. Killing yourself is gay and it's going to prove to all the people that put you down that you are the weak person they always thought you were. So don't kill yourself. And I know you won't. Now to get out of this depression mode start writing everything that makes you want to die down. Now either throw them away (which you really should do) or make poems/lyrics out of them. Talk to your parents. No mattter how much you hate it threapy is your best way out. Now you are either just an attention seeker or you are really going to kill yourself. But I have known a few people who have commited suicide. And on many people's myspace's who knew them it said "**** is my hero. Rest in peace" when it was that person's own damn fault that they are putting them through that misery. Now that person had a mental problem so it wasn't really their fault but still. Death is never the answer. Get on an anti-depressent pill or get some threapy. Just don't kill yourself. Because that means you are weak and only wanted attention. They will say things like *coughattentionseekercough*. Don't let them do that. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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My friend told me that if you rub vegetable oil on your skin and then go outside and lay in the sun you'll get a really nice tan. Is this true? Has anyone ever tried it? Does it work?

NO! And to your additiional info the answer is no. Any type of oil (except tanning oil, of course) will cause skin to burn terribly. It might cause skin cancer as well. Stay away from cooking oils.

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Lately, my rating average on my site is really messed up. The other day I had 65 ratings, and today I have 61. There isn't anyway to delete a rating after giving it, is there? Whenever it says I have let's say 64 ratings now, my average doesn't change at all. I heard some where in your profile settings you can get your average right away. Any clue about that? Help.

http://advicenators.com/faq.php?f=25

http://advicenators.com/faq.php?f=26

Read these two things.

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well...tomorrow me n some of my friends might make a movie. well what are some ideas we could do for a movie? thanks ill rate 5!!!

I constantly do this and I have some movies to do for school so I could help you out here. One great idea I usually use is remake the Blare Witch Project. Make iit a little different but redoing some kind of horror movie is always fun. You should also try an action movie. The movies that are most fun to make are action and horror. I hope I helped! &heart; good luck

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ok i need help yesterday 4/14/05 i was baby sitting my best friends little 4 year old brother because she went on vacation and we were playing hide and seek in my woods and after a few minets i could not finde him then i herd him scream!! i finally found him crying and screming on the ground a stick got poked rite in his eye im not sure how far back it got i pulled it out but half of the stick broke off into his eye he is getting very sick and i can't get any thing done with out his parents permission and they don't even kno their coming back on 4/19/05 in 5 day and i don't kno wut to do HELP ME PLEAS!!!

First off call 911 imedatley. Forget the parent's permission for right now. This kid could go blind. Next call the parent's and tell them what happened. They will get mad but they will be happy you were responsible and got help and called them. After that all you can do is wait. The doctors may operate or there may be no hope. However, you need to get him to the hospital ASAP. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Hi people this may seem like a totally weird question but I'm going to a costume party next weekend and I have no clue what to wear! Do any of you fashionable girls out there have any ideas or suggestions? Oh yeah, I'm a girl and I'm fifteen. I RATE 5's!!!

I think something different would be to dress up like a performer. Like a dancer or actress or something. Not like a "pop-star" or anything but like one with class. I hope Ihelped! ♥ good luck

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why is it that ma average falls wit out ne bad averages? it just like falls... i had like ova 70 feedbacks and now i only got 54 and there only my worst ones. neone no why? i'll ratei guess

http://advicenators.com/faq.php?f=25
^^Read.

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Is there any good brand of masacra that anyone knows about that makes your eyelashes seem longer and doesn't look clumpy and flake under your eyes? Im currently using Maybelline mascara and by the time half the day is down some of it flakes and lands under my eyes and makes me look like I'm dead...which is not good. Can anyone help me?

I use mascara by Wet and Wild. It never goes underneath your eye unless you rub it too much. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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