i really like this guy and we were at a party and i thought it would be fun to go to and have sex. ( hes really cool and popular) when we got to the bed i quikly changed my mind and said i didn't want to have sex. but i guess he didn't care. i don't feel like myself anymore since that nite. what should i do?
Erinn_the_bamf answered Friday April 22 2005, 7:58 pm: I'm very sorry to say this but you have been a vitcam of rape. Call the cops. Press charges. It doesn't matter how cool and popular he is you need to make him pay for what he did. Take action immediatly. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
EJ47 answered Friday April 22 2005, 7:40 pm: Dearest poor thing, you have been a victim of rape. I dont care if yo ulike him or not, ot if he's popular, drop that fucker to the cops like a rock in a well. He had sex with you, when you said that you didn't want to, even at the last second. That is wrong, IMO, this coming from a guy. I don't care how amorous a guy is, he'll just have to go to the bathroom and masturbate or something. Tell a police officer, a teacher, your principal, mother, father, etc. Just tell someone. You were taken advantage off and thats unacceptable. No man deserves to take a womans virginity, if they don't want that to happen, with them anyway. I can't ever imagine how it would be to be... forced into such an act, out of pure lust and no love at all. Just report him and get a pregnancy test. If you are pregnant, get an abortion, be damned anything anyone says. If you conceive a child that even you didnt want to risk (obviously he didnt care here either) you DESERVE an abortion. No way should you be a teenage mother because of some raunchy asshat.
iWALKintoWALLS answered Friday April 22 2005, 7:24 pm: girl, you got raped. if you said you didnt want to do it, even if in the beginning you said you did, but you said no, and he still continued with it....you should talk to your mom about it because you can file him for rape. if you really dont want to go to your mom for this you can go to your school counsolor, they can help, and if you ask they wont tell your parents anything. but you have to do something. he did something that you didnt want. dont be afraid to do waht you think is right...dont leave just leave it though...i hope i helped...
...remember you only live once...
...xox...youll be in my thoughts... please rate [ iWALKintoWALLS's advice column | Ask iWALKintoWALLS A Question ]
zapreth answered Friday April 22 2005, 6:55 pm: That is called date rape. You will need couceling and to make chioces on what actions you want to take against this guy. No is no, but date rape is very hard to convict on because you have so much guilt thinking you are to blame. A guy CAN control himself. If you say no, what he chooses to do afterward is HIS crime not yours. Big hug and lot of love! [ zapreth's advice column | Ask zapreth A Question ]
russianspy1234 answered Friday April 22 2005, 6:38 pm: not much you can do now, if it was right afterwards id tell you to go to the police and say he raped you. not much you can do now, get back at him by spreading a rumor such as him having a 3 inch dick. [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
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