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are you allowed to use "you" (second person)? like "you haven't lived life until.."?
does anyone have any tips on college app essays btw? (link)
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"You" is okay to use, however, I believe "one" is a better way to put it.
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i have a problem. wherever i go i sweat under my arms and it shows because i wear tight shirts and it's really embarrassing. i don't even have to be hot or nervous. it just ... happens. i wear antiperspirant deodorant. i don't smell, i just sweat. and i don't think i can buy anything for it so what are some home remedies that WILL stop it? i'm really desperate. thanks. (link)
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Try "Certain Dry" deodorant, and "Certain Dry Underarm Refresher."
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Over all, my om and dad are pretty cool with letting me do things, but there is one that that really gets under my skin and bugs me!
They dont allow me to go to the mall by myself, i mean, sometimes they do, if im lucky, i just asked them for freedom and they said they'd allow me to do more things on my own. Which is good, but i know they wont let me go. In the past theyve let me go with my friend, but they know her and her mom real well. But i just got invited to go to the mall with a bunch of friends, and they said no! How the heck am i supposed to make friends, im a freshmanin high school, and made tons of new friends, theyve all asked me to go places with them, but i feel embarrassed telling them that im not allowed. They also said that I cant go to the mall with these kids they dont know (AKA: new friends) how will i ever have friends if they dont allow me to get together with them??!!
So my questions are:
How do i prove to my parents that ill be okay by myslef?
And how do i send the message that my new friends are really good kids, and that they have nothing to worry about?
Im really cought in a pickle and need you guys! (link)
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The only way I know of is to prove to your parents how responsible you are. Talk to them again, and tell them you can show them how responsible you can be. Let them choose a task or if you can come up with one, that will show them how responsible you are. This usually wins parents over.
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i'm kind of lost as what to do for a holloween costume. what are like cute easy holloween costumes to be? i need good ideas help!
and like if theres any cute boy/girl costumes that your with a boy like those ideas would be greatly appreciated, too. thanks! (link)
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Here you go. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=518322
By the way, I think it'd be cute to be Sonny & Cher.
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does anyone know a really good brand of eyeliner? i usually wear alot of eyeliner and right now i use rimmel london kind, but it always seems to smear (link)
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Here are a few that I love. All of them work wonderfully, and they don't smear.
*Maybelline (Turbo Boost Mascara is great)
*CoverGirl (Lash Exact Mascara has the best brush)
*Wet n' Wild (Amazing liquid liner!)
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I just moved to North Carolina about 2 months ago and I don't really know
that many people and not too long ago I met this boy and he and I started
dating about 2 and a half weeks ago.
The first week or so of knowing him was great..and we talked constantly
until one of us had to go. And then once we started dating it seemed like
we'd just run out of things to talk about.. I barely know him so I know its
almost impossible for us to have run out of things to talk about.
I just want to get to know him.. but i don't know what to ask him. Can you
help me come up with things to talk about? What about dating ideas? (link)
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I think this guide will help you out. =)
http://www.myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/flirting.htm
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where do i go to download photoshop, without it costing anymoney? (link)
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Unfortunately, you can only download a free trial (that I know of).
http://www.adobe.com/products/photoshop/index.html
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Okay,
ive liked thousands of guys, but i never know when im flirting with them. I try, and my friends are like "thats not flirting!" Then when i dont mean to theyre like "I saw you flirting" When i didnt even know i was. So what i want to know is what IS flirting, and how do i do it?!!
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I think this should help you out. =)
http://www.myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/flirting.htm
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ok i didn't really know what to put this under, but...
It says on the box of secret clinical strength to apply at night. so do you apply a regular deodarent during the day?? or something else?
help! thanks! (link)
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I apply it in the morning after my shower, then usually in the afternoon once, and finally I apply it at night, before bed.
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okay i'm not fat but i'm not in shape. and i just recently signed up for modified girls' basketball. i really wanna make the tryouts but i don't know if i'll make it. i never played sports on a team before except one year of amateur soccer when i was like 11. so how can i get in shape before tryouts? thanks. (link)
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A workout routine is a great idea, I personally love the ones in Seventeen Magazine. They have TONS of workouts that will get you in shape for basketball. I've played basketball all my life and have used these routines many times.
Incase you don't buy it, you can try this below...
"Simple exercises like lunges (both forward and side lunges), squats, and leg lifts. Gyms and sports clubs have resistance machines that can help you tone up specific areas, like your upper and inner thighs. If you’re not sure about proper technique for these exercises, check online or with a trainer to make sure that you are doing them correctly. If you’re feeling especially frisky, you can do an exciting activity like bike riding or inline skating that not only works the legs, but also gives a great cardio workout as well."
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I dont know the name or who its by..
but it goes like this..
one love one shot. thats all we ever got.
girl you got me started now im not gonna stop.
now slide along side, yeah baby thats right.
im gonna show you the time of your life.
oh goody goody. come and dance with me
move everybody, come close to me.
now slide along side, yeah baby thats right.
im gonna show you the time of your life.
thanksss. (link)
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*Shifty- Slide Along Side
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-Ugh Okay Well Im Going Crazy Thinking About It But Really Wanna Know
Okayy;
So My Best Friend Asked Me The Other Day How OD you know If You Like Some One?
And My Answer Was Ugh...
"IDK"
I reall wanna help Her So Yeah
She Says HSe Thinks About Him Alot Hes The First Person on her mind when she wakes up and hes the last person she thinks about when she goes to sleep at night; and she talks about him ALOT she said hes amaningly cute and hes funny and she likes the way he acts and stuff but she she keeps saying she doesnt like him and even if she did like him she says she wouldnt ever have a chance?!
i dont understand does she
and how do you know if you like some one
guhh help please :) (link)
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She definitely does like him a lot, basically because you know you like someone when you feel the way she does.
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ok. well my friend & her boyfriend have been dating for a year. he broe up with her a while ago..
well, yesterday, her boyfriend told me that he likes me. dont like him back& i told him that. well myfriend found out that he likes me& now she thinks i was the reason they broke up&she's mad at me. i've told her multiple times that i dont like him& that im ot going to date him. but she stil is mad& wont even talk to me anymore.
this girl is my best friend & i need serious help with this problem.
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This is a toughie. I would give her some space, some time to think, about a week. I know it's hard, but it might help her realize that you are her best friend and would never do anything to cause the break up. If she still hasn't talked to you after that, I recommend trying to talk to her once more and let her know again, that you're her best friend, would never ever do anything to hurt her, and have absolutely zero feelings for this guy. Good luck!
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im pretty sure a "blemish" is what im talking about. the things on your face little like red places not like zits or pimples their just little red areas where pimples used to be? anywaysss are there any ways to clear that up? thanks :) (link)
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Yes, here you go =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507367
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17/f
ive got a Halloween party coming up and i need some ideas for a cute halloween costume..anyone?? (link)
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Here you go =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=518322
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I know alot of girls these days who shave there arms. Is that weird? there arms are so soft and i want to, but then again I don't. what would happen if i shaved my arms once, how long would it take to grow them back?
p.s., i shave my belly, and the next day its pokey but it's really soft(:
help, is this weird?
should i do it or not (link)
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I'm not sure how long it would take the hair to grow back, however I DO NOT recommend this. I use Sally Hansen's Shower and Shave Off product. I swear by it, it works so well and it's a really long time before the hair starts to grow back. I definitely recommend this product.
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If all your classes are academic but you take applied math every year, can you still graduate highschool and university? (link)
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Yes, unless that university has a requirement of academic math. I would ask someone at the university about it, then you'll know for sure.
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what are some realllyy good rap song remixes..
like i love pop bottles remix by lil wayne and birdman. and the big girls dont cry remix.. not really rap but i still like it. ! any help will be rated a 5 ! :D thanks (link)
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*Chris Brown - Run It Remix
*Shop Boyz - Party Like A Rockstar Remix
*Avril Lavigne - Girlfriend Remix
*Soulja Boy - Crank That Remix
*Chris Brown - Gimme That Remix
*Rihanna - Umbrella Remix
And bank roll is a roll of money.
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where can you buy that shampoo i read that it makes your hair grow faster and thicker? is that true? (link)
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At my local CVS, I can buy that shampoo. I've tried it, but I don't think it's as good as some other shampoos I've used before.
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i like this guy and i think he likes me back, but we only talk online. we go to different schools (freshmen)
how can i ask him to get together without sounding to anxious? or how can i get him to call?
please be as detailed as possible!!! (link)
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My recommendation is to talk to him, even if it's online, and let him know how you feel about him. Or you can ask for his number and tell him you have something you need to say, and let him know on the telephone. I think face-to-face is always better, however, since you go to different schools it is probably a lot harder to do that.
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