|
boyfriends..
ok. well my friend & her boyfriend have been dating for a year. he broe up with her a while ago..
well, yesterday, her boyfriend told me that he likes me. dont like him back& i told him that. well myfriend found out that he likes me& now she thinks i was the reason they broke up&she's mad at me. i've told her multiple times that i dont like him& that im ot going to date him. but she stil is mad& wont even talk to me anymore.
this girl is my best friend & i need serious help with this problem.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Apparently your so called 'best friend', isn't a good friend after all. You two are best friends and she chooses to believe someone who just broke up with her over someone who she turns to to hang out and tell secrets too?
Maybe she's just a little stressed out, depressed, or just angry of the fact that she's just gotten out of a relationship that lasted a year.
My best advice would be to stay away from him. Don't even talk to him or look at him. Maybe he'll get the picture that what he's doing after their break up is wrong and that you don't like him in that way. And because of him, your friend doesn't even want to talk to you.
Give your friend about a week or so, so she can clear things up.
Before you know it, she'll probably turn to you to talk to and wants to keep her ex-boyfriend out of her mind.
But if she ignores you or doesn't want to talk to you, thens she wasn't a best friend after all.
Good luck!
-MADLYxINxLOVE
]
I say that you let it cool down. If you follow her around telling her that that's not how it is, she's just going to get mad. But if you tell her "I am not going to keep telling you non-stop. I told you the truth when I told you that I'm not going to date him, and I'm sorry that your ex likes me. I don't like him. If you aren't going to believe me, that's your problem. Personally, I don't think a guy should come between us. He likes me, I don't like him. That's that!" And be through with it. Don't drag on, maybe don't even say that much, just tell her the truth once more, then that you are telling the truth and it's her problem if she doesn't believe you. If she doesn't cool off, it's her problem. She's not going to just believe you becuase you say something. That's like telling a girl that her boyfriend is cheating on her, she's not going to believe it becuase she hasn't seen it for herself. I hope that I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice. Thanks. (sorry if the answer was too long)
]
This is a toughie. I would give her some space, some time to think, about a week. I know it's hard, but it might help her realize that you are her best friend and would never do anything to cause the break up. If she still hasn't talked to you after that, I recommend trying to talk to her once more and let her know again, that you're her best friend, would never ever do anything to hurt her, and have absolutely zero feelings for this guy. Good luck!
]
More Questions: |