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my underarms get sweaty a lot! and ive heard secret is the best brand to use a lot but it doesnt work well for me.. i need something stronger..do you guys think using babypowder would work? why or why not.. thanks!!

I'm not sure if baby powder will work but I know something that will. It's called Certain Dri. You put it on at night and your regular deoderant over it in the morning. It works amazingly well. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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hello i am 13 and a female and i have this boyfrend and like all we do is hold hands and then wen i ask him if he wants to do more like him put his arm around me he says yeah but it never happens whatshould i do about this ?

cunfused girl 666

He may be a little a little shy to do more. You may need to make the first move. Start becoming a little more cozy with him, kis him on the cheeck, and stuff like that. This may make him open up a little more to you. If he still is a little closed to you should tell him how you feel about this. Mainly that you both always agree to do more but it never happens. However, don't try to plan when you guys will kiss and such. That will make it feel fake and the relationship will get colder and colder. So what I'm trying to say is wait until you're both completely comfortable with doing more. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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My mom is bananas.

She doesn't listen to me. Ever. Like, for example, today, I asked her to pick me up a block away from school. She was standing RIGHT out front, so I told her how appalled I was at her behavior and she cancelled my manicure. Her excuse was 'You have a friend'. Yeah, a friend that I carpool with every day.

I always get in trouble, and this summer is going to be full of fun, so i need ways to deal witht his. Thanks!

Calm down a little. Your mom made a mistake everyone makes mistakes. However, you mom shouldn't have any right to cancel your manicure. Next off it seems like your mom is a forgetful person. Try telling her a few times that she needs to do something. As for her punishments tell her you just get annoyed when she forgets something. You overreacted a little but she did too. Sit down and have a conversation with her about how she needs to remember the stuff you tell her.

I'm now sorry but I must do it:

This shit is bananas b-a-n-a-n-a-s
This shit is bananas b-a-n-a-n-a-s.

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I have a boyfriend. I love him a whole lot. But, he never shows up to any of our dates. He says he has other plans, and he usually does. But every week he turns me down for something else. When he suggests a date, I'm usually busy that day. I don't see him very often and he doesn't really talk to me. There is this girl that flirts with him all the time. I get really jealous sometimes though she's my friend. I'm really confused right now. Can you help me sort my emotions? Thanks. -Carole

OK I know love is usually sponatious (sp?) but you guys should talk to each other about what days will work for dates. That way it should work for both of you. Possibly could you guys go to any of the other plans each of you may have? Then after that you two could do something. About this girl who is flirting with your boyfriend tell your boyfriend this is bothering you and he should drop some hints around to the girl that this isn't right. If you are friends with the girl you could talk to her too. It's natural to get jealous. So make sure this girl learns her place. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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O.K., Im thinking about downloading AIM onto my computer, but Im afraid it will give me a virus. If I get a virus my parents will KILL me! Does anyone have it and can tell me whether its ever given you a virus or someone you know? Thanks! All my friends have it and they've never gotten viruses before, but I need to make sure. THANKS!

AIM should not give you a virus. AIM+ sometimes does so don't download that. The only way to get a virus is if someone sends you an attachment with a virus. So make sure you always know who you are talking to.

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im a witch and i m trying to be a christian, i just went to this teen revial {aquire the fire} and felt all on fire for God, and then i just played 'light as feather w/my coven. am i stupid for trying to do both? do i have to be one or another? can i be both? so confused....

Most people would say it is aganist the church to be a witch. However, if you want to be both be both. God forgives and understands. If you are faithful to Him but still want to practice your pervious religion He will support you. He loves Jews, Gentles, and in your case Wiccans. You just need to find a way to come to an understanding with Him. Pray for a while and see what you find. Possibly talk to a local Priest or Rervern (sp?). They can help you find where you want to be in worship. However, if none of this works you must chose. Look at both views. Choose the one that you believe you are truly faithful to. If worse comes to worse and you must chose God or whatever witches you worship in Wiccan (I'm sorry if that offended you I just am only faithful to God NO OFFENSE TO YOUR BEILF) will still love you. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Hey. I'm going on Islands of Adventure (a theme park in Orlando, Florida) on Thursday on a field trip. I was wondering if someone will give me some advice about it.

For example, how much money should I bring?
Do I need a bathing suit?
Or a towel?
Are there any specific souvenirs I should buy?
Can I bring a camera?
What are some good rides?
What's the best ride?
How long is the average wait ride?
And some other information would be helpful.

Thanks. =)

You should bring about $10-20. At most, $30. It would be a good idea to wear a bathing suit underneath your clothes. It's not nessicary though. You do not need a towel. There really aren't any specific souvenirs you should buy. It all depends on your taste. If I were you I would try to but something with Islands of Adventure on it. You should bring a camera as long as your school permitts it. Some good rides are the dinasour log flume thing (sorry I forget what it's called), POsiden's Furry, The Hulk, and the Spiderman ride. I would have to say the best ride is the Spiderman one. The average wait should be about 15-45 minutes because it i on a weekday that you are going. If it turns out there are more people there get one of the space holder thing. It resevres you a spot on the ride at whatever time you want. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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What are Shingles?

There are two meanings for the word shingles. The more common one is the word for the little rectangluar tile-looking objects on your roof. The other is a rash caused by stress. It is bad for adults but if you are young it isn't a problem. If you have this see a doctor. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Ugh I'm chinese..yeah yeah..the first thing that comes to mind are those tiny tiny eyes..whatever..but yeah i'm so insecure of myself.. is there anything i can do to make them look BIGGER?! pleaseeee..(don't say surgery!..im only like 13) but yeahh please help..here is my ratins system: (5)-great advice, (4)-ok advice but somewhat questionable :-\ (3)-about to fall off the curb kinda ok but useless advice, (2)-unhelpful and useless,(1)-if you critisize me or basically give useless advice..thanks in advance!

The best way to make your eyes look bigger is to only use eyeliner on the ends of your eyes. That makes the middle seem larger so in turn your eyes look big. Curl your eyelashes are use black mascara. Only black because If it is lighter it won't really look much bigger. Try using a darker shade of lighter sahde of eyeshadow. With the black eyeliner and mascara. Lastly, if you do not take off your mascara and eyeliner properly you will get wrinkles when you are older and that will make your eyes look smaller. Put vasaline ( or any type of proturlem jelly)(no I can't spell proturlem) on where you put the mascara and eyeline. Let is sit for a few minutes. Then gently rub it off. Just wash off the eyeshadow. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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My brother died 2 weeks ago and I really don't know what to do. I lived with him because my mom died 3 years ago and my dad used to beat and rape me. He was more like a father than a brother to me and I really don't know what to do. I've been staying with my friend until I get a foster family and she is always asking me if I'm ok and I'm really not. I don't know what to do with myself. I even tried drugs and I've been drinking a lot. I just want to kill myself and I'm so scared of what's going to happen next. I love him soo much and he was pretty much all that I had and now he's gone. I haven't even cried because I just can't, does that mean that there's something wrong with me? Why can't I just cry like normal people do when something happens to them? I really think that I'm a horrible because I can't even cry for my own brother. Please help me

OK you need to get a grip. Get off the drugs and stop drinking. I know I sound harsh but if you do this to yourself you will tear yourself apart even more. So stop or it's pretty much over. Don't kill yourself. ou will be taking yourself away from the people who still care for you like your friend for example. Get in threapy. It will help you get through this. However, make sure they have good recomandations. As for the crying thing there is nothing wrong with you. People's emotions towards these situations are different. You probably have a slower time with your emotions. That happens to amny people after they lose someone so close. They have slower reaction times to emotions, if that makes any sense. I'm not going to lie. You're not going to get over your brother instantly. It's going to take a while. And threapy will not help you unless you make an effort to get some relief. Honestly, you will always have that scar in your heart. There is no way to forget. Threapy just helps you to stop drinking and to take hold of your life again. You need to come to an understanding with yourself for your own emotions to sort into place. But I have confidence that you can do it. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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ok so after my sweet 16 party we are going swimming in the indoor pool from like 10-11:30 or whatever...problem is..the hotel says a lifeguard must be present? I guess i have to accept this rule being that its the hotel's rule, but would the people there think its lame and not want to stay in the pool being that the lifeguard is there? or do you think they will accept it and still have fun. Answer honestly..if you honestly think they wont like it and would want to leave..tell me.
Im hoping my friends will be ok with it and still have fun swimming and playing music, etc.

Your friends should still have fun if there is a lifeguard there or not. They probably won't even realize there is a lifeguard there. If they're real friends they won't care if some is watching or not. All they'll care about is celabrating your birthday. And it's better to have a lifeguard than to get hurt. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Ok there is this quiz thing that you can have your friends fill out, and they think they are going to find out about their future love life, but really it emails the results to you. I know it is called like 007crush or something like that, but I don't remember the exact website. Can anyone please tell me the website? Thanks I rate

http://crush007.com

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Today im going out with this guy i like and i dont know what to wear hear are ideas from what i have (Where going to the mall)
Abercombie skirt thats white and says abercombie on the back with blue top short sleeve.
Green Capris with a brown shirt shirt logo(One bad'69 with a car on it looks pretty cool)
A pink straped holter to with capris that have a pink like stiching
Or blue jean pants with one of those shirts
thznk yall

I think the best outfit would be the green capeis wuth the brown shirt. It's something I would wear. And it is perfect for the mall.

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okay so theres this guy at my school who i like ALOT and well its my last year there and i want to date him. and i think he likes me back bcuz hes always flirting with me so of course i flirt back! and the years almost over. what do i do?

-Ck

Ask him. It sounds like the feelings for each other are mutal. If they aren't it's OK. Asking him would be the best thing to because if you sit aroud and wait someone might take him first. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Im going out with a guy and hes a year older than me. Im 15 and hes going to be 16 soon. He says he likes me but shows no affection to me at all. What should I do and should I be worried?

You shouldn't be too worried but ask him a few questions to be sure. Tell him how you are feeling about this situation and how you sometimes wonder if he truly has feelings for you. Ask him to be completely honest so you can end it if he doesn't feel the same. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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i love my friend but i afraid he doesnt like me and i scared to comfront him b/c i dont no what he will say i cant eat or sleep please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


xoxo
Emily

The best thing to do is just tell him and see how he feels. I know it will be hard and if he doesn't feel the same you will be heartbroken but it is the best thing to do. If he gets a girlfriend that isn't you you will be heartbroken and it will be even worse that you will have to be happy for him because he is your friend. Believe me I've been there. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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this is gonna sound stupid but what does ghetto mean?

During the hollicost (sp?) Jews were put into ghettos by the nazi. Today it refers to any ethnic neighborhood. Most people use it to places where people of Africian American decent live or something that is "hott". However, that is not the proper term people are just stupid.

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two of my friends are coming over next friday for the first time...they are going to spend the night too...but the problem is that one of the girls has a proem of talknig about it infront of this other girl(who is not coming) and i feel bad cause she is getting left out...but lately she has been kinda annoying..like getting mad for no reason at all...so is it ok to still have just the two girls over or should we invite her too?? one of the girls says that she needs to relize that she dosent have to do everything with us...but i feel really bad....thanks!

You do not have to invite this other girl if you do not want to. If you just want it to be your two friends then just let it be your two friends. It's natural to feel very bad. Ask your friend that keeps talking about it to stop. She should understand. And if she doesn't then let her know that is annoying you as much as your the girl your not inviting can get sometimes. THat should stop her. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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i have sweating problems.. i sweat when im not even hot it just happens.. i got secret deoderant bcuz its a good brand but that didnt help.. do you think i should get a strong mens unscented deoderant? or get like prescribed deoderant? HELP! i dont want to sweat during the day anymore. thanks!!

A good deoderant to use would be Certan Dri. It closes up your sweat pores. You put it on at night then in the morning you put your regular deoderant on over it. If that does not work then get a prescribed deoderant. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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OK this sounds stupid - But everyone around my locker is a random freak. They sing,dance, fight,hug, and yell. They always annoy me and shut my lockers. I told my teacher Ms.BErube atleast 4 times but she doe not care. I have confronted them but either a) Alex calls me a loser cuz he thinks hes all that , b) Jodan shuts my locker or c) they ignore me. Also, some of them have really bad BO and some are so careless that they kept their fingers in my locker so they end up getting crused!Help ME!

Screw everyone at your locker. Go on a rampage and kill them all. And if Ms. Berube yells at you kill her too. But then that should be all you kill for the time being. That will solve everything.

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