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So I'm a 17 year old girl and my boyfriend is a wee bit older. He's 25.

We've been going out for about a month and he's a great guy to me - he buys everything (not just dinner, like he asks if there's anything I want in stores etc.), he opens doors, he always says the kindest things to me, and yes he's great in the bedroom.

But I've just been wondering lately if this is the best time for me to date someone his age. He's so perfect but it's kind of difficult when I get the weird looks from friends and classmates about dating an older guy. He hasn't met my friends yet and I don't even know if his friends know about me. The whole age thing is just kind of throwing me for a loop.

So, do you think I should keep pursuing this relationship with the chance of getting hurt or just let it go for now with such big differences?


P.S. Remember that I'm only a senior in high school, still dealing with stuff like homecoming and prom. He's already out in the working world...it's a tough choice...

I think 17 and 25 is no good. I mean, think about it, when you're able to drink, he'll be almost 30. You should be living it up with guys your age, who also only have to worry about which person they're taking to prom, instead of getting that big promotion at work. However, if you think it will work, then continue it.

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my boyfriend wants to finger me and im okay with that but like what do i do while he's fingering me do i just sit there or what?

You could always paint a picture or do homework.

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okay Today my dad and i went went to go and do two of his jobs because he is a cable guy well i went to go and do both of them with him well the first job he did i had to stay in the house with three strangers well they weren't really around but still but I was on the phone with him telling him what was going on with this persons tv well i got all shakie for some reason when i was inside the house then I left and i was all shakie then we went to go do his next job I had to stay in the car the whole time he was at a apartment so i didn't know where he was at and I got shakier then what I was is this normal does this ever happen to you????? please help me

Please, if you're going to post a paragraph, use periods. It hurts the eyes to read all that. As for your question, no that's not unusual, you were uncomfortable and your ody reacted.

I do use periods ALL THE TIME when I'm typing. You wanna know why? Maybe it's because IT'S PROPER. I just asked that next time you ask a question to use periods (hell, throw some other punctuation in there as well) because gigantic run-on sentences are hard to follow.

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Is it normal to want to go out shopping by myself if I'm only 15. I really just want to go out and have a fun time-by myself-at the mall, just shopping and browsing without having to entertain anyone. But I dont know if that would be weird, seeing as the mall has alot of ppl my age in it (and some that know who I am) if they just see me walking by myself, would you think I was a loser with no one to shop with? Because I really just want to go out shopping. I dont want it to sound like a conceited question, but I'm really just wondering!

Nah, I see movies by myself and I'm pretty damn cool.

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To give a little background, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year I'm 16 and he's 17. He would always get things in the mail from the Army, Navy and the Marines. He would save them, show it to me and I'd rip it up and tell him he's not going. The thought of my boyfriend going away to war is something I just CAN'T handle.

I was in his room, cleaning it up while he was in the shower like I always do and I found a flyer that had the information about the Navy on it... I was getting ready to rip it up when I saw that he had signed up for it..

I always told him that I'd be heartbroken if he would sign up for anything that COULD get him killed.

I'm trying SO hard to understand... But I can't. I don't know why he would do this to me. He keeps saying it's for the best but I KNOW it's not the best for him. He always told me he'd never leave me, but by doing this I feel like he is. He always told me, "You don't know what I would give just to see your beautiful face every day and just to have you in my arms, even if it's for 5 minutes." He's told me he wants to be the father of my children, my husband, my one and only.. If he's at war, how is he going to do that??


I really want to convince him NOT to go, but that's just being selfish... But at the same time I want him here with ME. I don't want to live every day in fear that I'll get that knock on my door and having someone tell me that the love of my life was killed.


So my questions are... SHOULD I convince him not to go and explain to him why I don't want him to?


If not, how can I get over this? How can I deal with it every day knowing that my boyfriend is risking his life?

You're only 16, you're acting REALLY selfish and irrational right now. If he wants to join the military, then let him. It is HIS life, not yours, and you shouldn't get mad at him for making choices. My advice, let him do what he wants. I've seen some kids go from futureless to having happy successful futures by joining the militry.

You're right, I don't know what it's like. But, if I were your boyfriend, and you did this, I woudln't want to be with you anymore. Let him live his life, and also learn not to rate someone low just because you want people to give you pity and say, "If he goes he doesn't love you," and they didn't.

You shouldn't feel hurt. Feeling hurt only makes you more and more selfish. You only want the truth to be fabricated, you're waiting for people to tell you what you want to hear.

You're completely right, a relationship is all about compromise. You should allow him to do what he decides is his life dream, even if it might get him killed. Chances are he is not going to die, and he's only going to end up with a very nice education and have a great job when he's done. So even with the very slim 99% he'll live, you're willing to ruin his chances at a great future? Selfish.

Ok, he COULD go to those...but he wants to go into the Navy. Notice that one small detail, he. He shouldn't have to base his decisions off of you, neither of you are even legal adults.

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Okay, so my mother is allergic to everything except like...20 items total on this planet, and is extremely against all forms of chemicals such as nail polish and hair dye.
HOWEVER...
My roommate got a free salon-type-thing from her boyfriend, and on it, it says you can bring a friend, so we kinda decided she was bringing me...Lol. So we're getting our hair done this weekend.
I'm thinking
Thinned, re-layered, Cut a liiiiiiiiittle longer than shoulder length (or exactly shoulder length, not sure), side-sweeping bangs.
Now here's the hard part.
I kinda wanna get highlights. I'm thinking brownish red highlights 'cause I do have red in my hair.
My mother, however, would MURDER me if she saw highlights in my hair or knew that I borrowed my roomie's shampoo to see what effect scent had on my hair.
What do you guys think I should do? Should I get highlights anyway and beg them to make them as not-noticeable as possible? Or forego the highlights and possible making-worse of hair until I'm far away in grad school?
Should I ask them if they have temporary dye so I can see what they look like?
Opinions, please. ^_^

It doesn't sound like you live with your mom, so you shouldn't really have to worry about her.

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What are some good stocks to invest in that look like they're doing well right now and will continue rising? Thanks!

Starbucks, that company will never die.

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I need help I feel like I want to end my life and I don't know how to over come this feeling. I get so down I can't get back up! What should I do? My friend don't understand and my dad doesn't know. I am so scard of who I am!!! Any advice will help!!!

I don't know why this is a school question, but oh well. You didn't really give us reasons as to why you want to end your life, so there isn't much advice I can give other than "don't."

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around 2 or 3 months ago my best friend claimed i did somtheng that she knew i would never do. she said that i started a rumer that her ex-boyfriend beet her. so i have stopped talking to her . what should i do


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Continue to not talk to her.

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How often do TSUNAMIS occur?

It depends on how angry Poseidon is.

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Yeah - I keep asking questions about tsunamis...

What are some things that Asian countries are doing to prevent them from happening again? Like the one in December 2004?

Learning a level 4 tsunami block spell.

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hey i was wondering if anyone could help me. i need to find lyrics to a song for school that somehow relate to my life and are school apropriate (no swearing, etc). im a 15/f. i will rates for 5s if its atleast some what decent

it doesnt matter if you dont no me i need a song that is not a love song and could somehow relate to a teenage girls life

anything will work im desperate

Www.lyrics.com

I gave you that to find one, but try Sugar Cult, they sing lots of songs about girls.

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My boyfriend recently broke up with me & now we're friends. We're not the kind of friends that don't talk, but we actually hang out & stuff. He's not telling ANYONE (even me) the reason why he broke it off with me. I want to start dating him again & get things back to normal but I'm not sure how. Any advice?

By the way, I know that part of the reason he broke up with me has to do with his parents but they said they liked me so I'm not sure why.

It's obvious he doesn't want to date right now. Don't try and force him into something he doesn't want. Just be friends and be happy that he wants to be your friend.

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ok well im a bi guy 14 and i dont know how to meet other gays and im too ashamed to relle tell everyone and ppl i know arent gay and dont know any gays i even have a friend searching. What can i do????

Not many people have decided on a sexual preference at fourteen, just wait.

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well i just got my period and everytime i go to tell my mom i get really nervous and start to like shake and i don't know what to do!!!


5's for any answer

You should tell your mom, it's natural. She wont beat you or anything for having it.

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My problem is quite simple you see we have some kittens that I have been taking of since they were born. Since it's close to the holidays everyone is against me and are going to get read of them no matter what I say. But I thinks that is so unfair since I have been the one who's taken care of them this whole time. They mean alot to me but my parents and brother can careless can someone give me some advice ASAP.

Well, it is your parents house, so they do have the final word. Your parents may not want kittens in the house, so you should repsect that.

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a few questions for the fellas...
1. whats so hot about boobs?
2. big ass and wide hips, good or bad?
3. does it really matter if she has a lil meat on her bones, i mean do you really like them super skinny?
4.no makeup at all, turn on or off?

1. Not all boobs are hot, like the over-sized ones, or the ones with nipples the size of grapefruits.

2. I guess it depends on how big and wide...or whether the guy is into that.

3. I'd rather have a little meat on the bones than a pole.

4. That all depends on how ugly the girl is.

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How do you make a big wide butt, look smaller and sexxy?

I suggest finding one of the other questions about this, it gets asked everyday.

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two girls like me and i dont want to hurt either one and (they are both hot other dudes) I like them both how do i decide

Whichever one has the better chance of becoming rich and famous.

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My dad smokes and im really worried about him. I really want him to stop, but i dont know what to say and i dont want him to get mad at me...what should i do? thanks in advance *i do rate8

Tell him your concerns, but don't force him to do anything. Smoking isn't an easy thing to just stop doing, and some people really enjoy doing it. It's ok to care for your dad, but at the same time it's selfish to force what you want on him.

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