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Q: my friend didn't get a single thing for christmas what should i do? i feel so bad! so should i get something?
That is sad.. I would go and get them something for christmas!! -trix

Q: right they don't know about him i couldn't really tell them cuz yeah there like that...she lives at my house...but i'll tell her that cuz i don't really wanna get into and i mean kevins my friend too so i don't wanna ruin that relationship...thanks you helped a lot
Good thinking. You have a extremely good head on your shoulders. Im glad there are actually people like you that can get into a terrible situation and come right out of it!! Im proud!! thanks!! -trix

Q: ok so i was at a basketball game and i was standing behide my crush and i was with all my friends and these other guys. i was talking fine with all the guys i even met new guys(and im fine with them) but theres just something when im about to go and talk to him im just to scared to go and talk to him i get really nervous when im close to him. and the thing is he knows who i am but i really havnt talked to him.
So your shy? yeah i used to have that prob. Well you know maybe what you could do is go up to him with one your friends. I know that doesnt always help a whole lot but its takes the edge off. Crushes can be hard to confront i know how that all goes. I just got one of his friends that was also my friend to introduce us. We ended up going out. I really hope it works out for you!!! Happy Holidays!!-trix ((plz rate))

Q: but u see i wanted to but my cousins gonna tell my parents about kevin{my b/f} if i don't
Alright let me try and get this clear.. your cousin cant come to your house.. she cant make it but your bf kevins bro "bob" is coming over so bob wants to make out with your cousin "sally" but sally cant make it so you have to act like her? if im right .. thats dumb that'd be cheating on your boyfriend. With his brother!! Not cool. I would just have him go to her house. Or have your cousin come over like another day and have them do it there. Or have her go to his house. Tell them not bring you into the middle of it. What would you cousin tell your parents? .. Your parents dont know about you boyfriend to im guessing.. am i right?

Q: Okay well my cousin likes this guy{2 years older than me basically kinda 1 n a few months} well i like him too and hes my b/f's brother....but anyways hes coming over my house thursday n he wants to make-out with my cousin n stuff but i hafta act like her cuz she can't be there.....should i break up w/ my b/f? or should i tell him what happened? but i like his brother a lot more than him n i don't have a chance unless i act like my cousin a lot....what should i do?
I would just say can you come over another day my cousin cant come sorry you arent being very clear but i would just let him know and i wouldnt break up with your bf.. you probably would regret that so stay with him-trix (rate plz)

Q: hey i just got a boyfriend 4 the first time and im nervous he wants to go out to the movies with me and my friend dared me to kiss him before we went but i said no. He hasnt talk to me in a week and im worried. I like him and hes a good friend but should i break up with him? I dont wont to hurt him because i know ill pay for it later hes one of my close friends out of school. I GIVE ANYONE WHO HELPS a 5 rate.

love sucks
Well Love Sucks if he is a good friend then i dont think you should worry about losing him but i think he was a lil shocked when you turned it down. I would talk to your friend and make sure that doesnt happan again. I would just call him. And say you didnt know if he wanted to or not so that is why you said no.-trix

Q: well theres this boy who likes me (and i am a girl).i like him back too.he already knows that i like him and i know he likes me.but i like his step brother he is really CUTE!.the boy that he knows that i like him is nice,funny,gental well cute but not so much and hes playful alot.his step brother is cool,cute,serious,manly and not so playful.wich one should i go for???????????????????????????????.
Step bro.. but who ever treats you better of course!!

Q: im always sad inside , but no body knows cosz i dont show it... how can i get the emptiness in my heart to go away... signed , confused and lonely.
aww im sorry!! I hope you get better!! It takes alot to show your emotions and i know that because i used to have a hard time. I am in counsoling and sometimes thats the only place i want to show emotions!!-trix

Q: I'dating this boy, I really liked him about 2 days ago. Now I don't. What do I do?????????????



* I'm really bad at breaking up with ppl too
Well sometimes that how I am.. well i was.. i would just have a friend do it.. or you could do it thru emaail! good luck hunni!! -trix

Q: Okay I am 40 weeks pregnant. I was due xmas day. I still have not given birth! What could be taking so long? I am becoming so miserable, uncomfortable and irritated, not to mention impatient. Please if someone has any suggestions please help!
Well i would go get checked out. Its pretty normal for late babies.. but i would still get checked out! Dont worry hun! Things will work out thats why dr. r here! trix

Q: ok well im 13 and i like this guy but hes older, much older. We became friends cuz hes my friends older brother. we started to chill and talk everyday and got really close. then my mom didnt like that he was really old so she didnt want me to see him anymore. what should i do i really miss him??
well if you said he is alot older i wouldnt mess with it. but if you mean like your like 14 and he is 18.. still a diff. but try and call him write him IM him.. ect. (trix)

Q: How do you ask a guy out without making it seem like your completly stupid? Like, how do you make it come up in a conversation? because I'm talking to this boy online, and I really like him, and we're awesome friends, and I want to know how he feels about me. How do I do it? None of my friends will do it for me because they say thats "cheating"
Thats not cheating. If you want i can ask him im always doing it for my friends. If you are to nervous. But you could be like hey.. i have a question.. its kinda of hard to ask but i just want to know.. You might find this one a lil wierd to believe but i just asked a guy what he thought of me.. and i said i mean honestly lol it took me forever to hit enter but i did and he like i think of u umm what? wut do u mean wut do i think of u like wut? and i said u no what do u think of me and i got a pretty good answer :) hope i helped!!-trix!

Q: I have been weight lifting for a couple of years now and ppl are scared of me cuz they think i am too big what should i do?
Just show them that you are a good guy!! Which i am sure you are!! Or just say you want to be a body builder! Hot!! -trix

Q: Yes i like someone from my school and he claims to also like me but he also likes someone else. he said he likes her more but wont make his finaly decision yet. We talk alot and have hung out once but if he goes out with the other person than he mite get hurt because shes a bad person and i dont want to see that. what should i do?!
Just hang out w/him more and make him see that your the better person-trix

Q: My ex recently came back into my life and I admit that I do have strong feelings for him. He also said that he wants to be in a long-term relationship with me. He said that I was on his mind alot and thats why he felt he had to find me. Things keep happening like fate wants us to be. If I do decide to talk to him again, it will be a risk because he do have a past behind him because he's a bad boy. I still want to be with him in a way. We both said we will take it slow to see what will happend. So do you think that I should give it a try because I think fate is bringing us together for a reason, I just need to hear it from someone else.
Yeah.. I would defintly try it again!!-trix (plz rate)

Q: what's the best shaving razor to use for legs?
Venus

Q: Im still hooked up on my ex, and he has a new gf. I just found out that his new gf doesnt really like him. He asked me if i was mad that he had a new gf but im not. Im just mad that she doesont like him and he likes her. I just dont want him to get hurt. Should i tell him that she doesnt like him or just stay out of it? I think i should stay out of it, but i really dont want him to get hurt. as much as i love him, i couldnt bear to see him so hurt if they broke up. i think it would be good though since she doesnt like him. any advice?
I would tell him but i dont think he will believe you.. nobody would want to believe that. -trix

Q: 23/f my holidays were ruined.... when my chritmas tree fell................on me. i was rushed to the hospital but they were unable to get out all of the pine needles. i do smell like a car freshener, but the pain where the trunk hit me wont go away. i have been recomended for a therapudic setion to get over the terror but i couldn't pay for it becuase of the hospital bill, so i decided to use my computer to ask before i had to sell it..... how should i get the pine needles out? and, while im at it, how do i stop smelling like a car freshener...... and which pain reliever should i use?
Jump in the shower.and use asprin-trix

Q: Ok well I played with my little sis today becuase she asked me to and reluctantly I was like ok. So I did and after a while I didn't wanna play anymore and so I told her and left and she got really mad. I told her I'd play tomorrow but she just gets mad and throws stuff and it happens everytime something like that happens. We always argue and I hate it becuase I'm always to one that gets blamed- which isn't always right. What should I do? Help fast. Thanks and I rate.
Tell your mom to watch .. like when you get up to leave-trix

Q: i met this guy mike whos kinda cute, shy, extremely sensitive, and over mature. he likes me but we seem to be fading inour conversations. we barely talk at school so we always talk online. ive tried everything to keep the converstaions goin but i give up. i kinda like mike too but im losing interest faster than the speed of light. then my best friend, xris, told me he just about loves me. mike knows and hes mad. but i told him i liked him and xris would have to deal with dat but that might have changed.i think i lyk xris, wut do i do?
Give up with that one guy.. the overmature extremely sensitive guy.. mike.. and go for xris-trix

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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