Cath answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 6:29 pm: Hi Sweetie,
So you're kind of "Passive Depressive" (...now I don't know if that really is a term... I just made it up) I had my dark days of depression. I wrote poety (mostly depressing or suicidal poetry). I made mistakes those days... I was a cutter. Now, that is something I deeply regret. I don't think you should EVER do that because you do hurt a lot of people. Anyway, after that cry for help I went to theraphy. I'm still going (well I have two weeks off for holidays reasons). It all happened about a year ago... But ever since theraphy and since I started a new school year I really changed myself. I was hanging out with other people with negative energy... this year I left them and finally got real friends. I recommend new friends if you are in a similar situation.
Theraphy is really a good way to get yourself renewed. If you are like a teenager or a child and you dont want theraphy due to parents or financial problems or something then you can talk to your school counsler. Otherwise try theraphy. Talking to someone who will not give you any negative advice and will devoote themselves to listening to you is a good idea. OR email me (l.o.l.) if you just wan to be heard by a random stranger m0rbidme@yahoo.com
My best wishes. oh and "don't worry.... be happy.... something something.... I really don't know how this song goes.... lalalalalalalala" Happy holidays! ~Blessed Be.... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
AdviceMistress answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 3:44 pm: do something that makes you laugh, hang out with your friends! be around people and enjoy your surroundings! happy holidays!
DrAnqel answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 3:27 pm: You need to find out what is making you sad and lonely inside, for me, I know that it's because I don't really have a mom, and that's my emptiness. The emptiness is usually from something you lost, or want. As soon as you figure out what is bothering you inside, you can always come to me for help. Best wishes to you, and I really hope that you can find out what's wrong. I'm always here, keep me posted. Hope I helped. -Angel [ DrAnqel's advice column | Ask DrAnqel A Question ]
TrUtH_hUrTs_1 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 3:11 pm: no one else can really answer that. you have to figure it out. the next time you see people doing something that you dont usually do and it moves you to want to do it and you figure you could never do it, maybe that is it. or you might need to get a religion. =)
x0x_surfergirl_x0x answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 2:49 pm: Dear confused and lonely :), I feel the same way as you. For me, it was a guy, family problems, and friends, and being insecure about myself. I really can't talk to anyone about my problems or I'll break out crying. And last night I just had to let it all out. I took my journal and just wrote what I felt inside and cried and cried, and cried myself to sleep. Sometimes thats all you need. Even though I'm still not okay, I feel A LOT better. I also pray to god, I pray "God, please, why does my soul ache?, Make it go away...please..." It really works. Sometimes we need to feel pain, in order to grow and go on with our life, and learn. If you still need me you can IM me on AIM at xOsexychicaoX416 I hope your heart becomes full again & I hope so does mine... :) Pura Morena xo0x adriana [ x0x_surfergirl_x0x's advice column | Ask x0x_surfergirl_x0x A Question ]
x0x_surfergirl_x0x answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 12:13 pm: Dear confused and lonely :),
I feel the same way as you. For me, it was a guy, family problems, and friends, and being insecure about myself. I really can't talk to anyone about my problems or I'll break out crying. And last night I just had to let it all out. I took my journal and just wrote what I felt inside and cried and cried, and cried myself to sleep. Sometimes thats all you need. Even though I'm still not okay, I feel A LOT better. I also pray to god, I pray "God, please, why does my soul ache?, Make it go away...please..." It really works. Sometimes we need to feel pain, in order to grow and go on with our life, and learn. If you still need me you can IM me on AIM at xOsexychicaoX416
I hope your heart becomes full again & I hope so does mine... :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana [ x0x_surfergirl_x0x's advice column | Ask x0x_surfergirl_x0x A Question ]
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