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help me get his attention
ok so i was at a basketball game and i was standing behide my crush and i was with all my friends and these other guys. i was talking fine with all the guys i even met new guys(and im fine with them) but theres just something when im about to go and talk to him im just to scared to go and talk to him i get really nervous when im close to him. and the thing is he knows who i am but i really havnt talked to him.
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So your shy? yeah i used to have that prob. Well you know maybe what you could do is go up to him with one your friends. I know that doesnt always help a whole lot but its takes the edge off. Crushes can be hard to confront i know how that all goes. I just got one of his friends that was also my friend to introduce us. We ended up going out. I really hope it works out for you!!! Happy Holidays!!-trix ((plz rate))
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Just try to pop up a simple conversation. Most girls get the same way, but once you get to know him better the shyness will go away.
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same prob. just swallow your fear and talk to him. dont get nervous and dont talk about stupid things.
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well the way to a guys heart is to be yourself!!! and gurls want to act all funny and all that around them but maybe he wants some1 who is there self!!! hope i helped happy new year 2005 (((indeed2)))
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Okay,well,what you should do is not be scared to do stuff like that,because if you are,then he will think less about you. So you shouldnt be scared like that. For an example,I"ll use the Florida Gators. When they are about to play the game of football,they arent scared to play. They go after there target and they sucseed in doing that.
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congratulations: you just won your first expeirence of adolescence love! Sometimes its fun, sometimes its miserable, sometimes its just plain confusing. Usually, these type of things go away eventually, or you finally score him. Then, your feelings may change. But it is very unlikely that your first REAL crush will be your soul mate and true love (i am soo sorry about that!) What you need to do is just try to be outgoing, when your nervous and you try to be overly outgoing the nervousness and outgoingness usually even out to a perfect attitude! I dont neccesarily believe in girls making first moves, so just hint him on, flirt with him, but dont flirt with his friends whatever you do! It will give him mixed signals. If you feel you really, REALLY need help, buy a copy of flirtology or some other book that helps you deal with boys. I hope i was help!
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well try to find out what he likes.then talk say hi, and let him talk carry on with him. like b-ball(basketball).take a friend and pretend she or he is him .then talk to the real guy.maybe he likes you.
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i think that you should try to get one of your friends to talk to him. have your friend say that you're kinda shy and then get her to give the guy your phone number and ask her to tell him to give you a call sometime. good luck & hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
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to solve your problem. i would say that you should try and ask 1 of your friends to ask your crush if he likes you. and maybe you should try practicing saying what ever you got to say. thats the best advice i can give you right this instent but good luck:hope i helped:rate me please:GRAPE:
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Sweetie, you have to overcome your fear and just go up to him and start talking to him. If you can't think of a way to start up a conversation, compliment him on something. Start talking about the game. Everyone usually has this problem. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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I know how you feel you just lose all thoughts of what to say when you like someone. All you have to do is break the ice and it becomes soooo much easier. Trust me.
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Hey sweetie,
You have to get over your fear. Just talk to the guy it's not like you are asking to move in with him :) Just be like, "Hey, I've seen you around, I thought we might get to know each other." Guys like bold girls. I say...Go for it... :)
Hope I helped and I hope you get to snag your crush as a guy friend and maybe even more :)
Pura Morena ;)
xo0x adriana
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