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Q: I'm am in the seventh grade and I'm not interested in guys. I am not the girly type of person but for some reson, guys are attracted to me. I want to turn them off but then again, I don't want to. What should I do???
Just say your arent interested

Q: my family and i have a major probleam.... we get into arguments a lot!!!! i think it happenes almost everyday!! and i get pissed by my family so does anybody know how to not have an argument and juss talk???
Family cousoling-trix

Q: I have this friend in the 8th grade im in 7th and shes an only child and she thinks shes soo hot but shes dont wanna be rude but really ugly....she has this crush who has a boyfriend now and she thinks he likes her but he doesnt and shes just ugly im sorry but i cant help it I need help and shes always braging about her looks and clothes and voice and stuff.


friend dinial
Yeah i hate that sort of stuff! i would tell her straight up.. your ugly :-P naw im kidding just tell her to stop bragging-trx

Q: hey, I'm 13/f and i might have a four or five friends over for a slumber party soon. What are some things we can do?? We LOVE comedy and we aren't very into make-up. What are some good movies we could watch?? And what activities could we do??
The jerk! Good movie!! When i was 13 i had lazor tag and we played that or we played n go seek in the dark haha i still do its fun!! or call sum hotties!!-trix

Q: i've been friends with the friends i'm with now for a long time.. we've always been close but now, they're all obsessed over like.. iunno being popular or w/e.. they act alot more .. iunno.. they flirt alot more and the diss ppl alot more.. and my guy friends always plan these outtings or w/e they always seem to forget about me and theres this one guy whos always the only person who remembers me.. wut shud i do? plz dunreply and diss me up.. ps. i'm a girl
I would just talk to them and see whats up and see if you can tag along with them. I would do that because noone should be left out. -trix

Q: i'm in 8th grade and i liked this guy since like.. grade 5 or 6.. sumwhere there.. i was pretty stupid then.. i'd do these stupid pranks on him and i feel really shitty about it and all.. hes acts like a shithead to me and i no that thats my fault but i wanna know wut i can do about it now.. i can't seem to get over him but i want him and me to be friends again.. i cud tell him i'm sorry or w/e but he seems like a really. uh... u no.. like unforgiving kinda guy or w/e i'm totally freaking out! plz help! thx
I would just right a note to him apologrizing to him. Wishing that he will understand that you were dumb and immature. -trix

Q: hi i'm 16/f and ever since i have had my period i have had a heavy discharge everyday and ihave 2 wear a pad even when i am not on my period. resently i went 2 the gyno and she put me on seasonale and said that that should help and i have been on that for 2 months now and it hasn't helped. Having to wear a pad everyday and everything is really started to annoy me is there nething that i could b doin wrong like eatin something or idk what or do u know of neways that i can reduce it?
thanks for anyhelp
I would go get checked I know someone that had that problem and she had something wrong with her.. but that was like 25 years ago.. So i am pretty sure they can fix it now. Just talk to your mom and see what she says. Maybe go on birth control.. that might help it-trix ((plz rate))

Q: My mom seems to think that only black people wear brands such as Roccawear, Baby Phat and Ecko. I like the clothes and she wont let me wear them because on the websites the people who are modeling them happen to be black. So tell me really, do these brands are truly only worn by Africans?
No!

Q: 13/M and i have liked this one girl for about a year now and her and her bf (my friend) of about 1 year and a half just broke up. How long should i wait before i do anything and should i just drop hints. i'm a really good friend of hers and i dont want to do something at the wrong time.
p.s- i was thinking of sending her flowers w/ a card in them or something any good ideas greatly appreciated.
I would wait until he doesnt really mention her. Or she doesnt really mention him. I like the flowers idea.. but i'd wait on that.. maybe for valentines day.. that'd be a good time!!-trix

Q: there is this kid i like but he is in rehab and he kinda perverted but he said that terapy and rehab are going to help change him and i reallyt like him and i dont know what to do. i just broke up with my boyfriend but not for this guy and now i lied to him telling him i didnt want to hurt my friend b/c she liked him and he founf out and he knows i might go out with the other kid and now he is mad and i just dont want to hurt them but i really like the kid in rehab so what should i do?? signed,
rehab boys?
hey rehab boys.. i would just not rush into any relationship. I would just say no you just got out of a relationship tell him you wanna be friends and get to know eachtoehr better but your not ready for anything yet-trix

Q: My b/f and I have been talkin a lot about goin to 2nd base. I'm pretty sure I'm ready, but don't worry I'm gonna make sure I'm 101% ready b4 I do nething. He's also very supportive of me and not pressuring me b/c this would be my first time goin there and he wants it to be "special" so he says neway. But yeah, I just wanna make sure that I'm able to give him what he wants and be able to satisfy him if we ever do decide to go there. So if you have any tips on how I could satisfy him better while doing it please let me know.
You 2nd base must be diff. then mine. Whats your second base?

Q: In school theres this kid who is always annoys me and when im around this guy I have A HUGE crush on he always say SHE LIKES YOUUU!! practicily screaming! I feel so embarassed and mad at this idiot. Before winter break let out about a week ago I told him he was a dirty bastard and to never talk to me again since then he hasnt but he keeps coming on to my friend and hes being REALLY PEVERTED and saying peverted things to her? What do I do?
Have her say the same thing-trix

Q: On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks..
You could be. And how do you know if he wants to? You are right you are young. And you might later regret that.. so.. i would really think about this.. long and hard-trix

Q: my ex b/f told me that he likes me yesterday...hes a year younger then me, and a grade below me... he knows that i dont like him...he said that he liked it alot the last time we went out. we are supposed to hang out this week. he says that i shouldnt feel bad, but i do.... things wont be very bad for me, but hes a shy person and i dont know if hes gonna talk to me when we hang out...is there anything i can do or say that will help him any...???
I would just say we've gone out before.. i dont want to go out again i dont have those feelings for you sorry-trix

Q: MI go to Texas like, every summer. And two years ago my older cousin met a boy (let's call him ****). He hung out with us, and I didn't think much about him. This year they became A LOT closer. They love each other. And now that I think about it, **** is really hot and funny and nice. I LIKE him. And my cousin has him, what do I do??
I would just leave it alone. You dont want to mess that up i hate it when people mess relationships up thats something people should learn to leave alone-trix

Q: i like this guy.. and he likes me too.. well see he says that he likes me but he doesnt want to get together.. whats wrong with him!?!?
He just wants to be single. There was a time where me and this guy liked eachother but i just wanted to be single-trix

Q: My period is really weird- it comes every 2 to 3 months, lasts for ages (around 10 days), is excruciatingly painful and has a VERY heavy flow. Is there something wrong with me? Please help,
Zoinatrobe.
You could go get checked out-trix

Q: I decided to get a hair cut today but I don't what kind i want! I have dirty blonde hair and it's very long! I'm 17 and a female! Any suggestions?
I would get layers-trix

Q: ok.. i dunno what to do. me and my bf well he used to live here, and he moved to florida. and we talk all the time, every free minute he has, we are talking. and, he has been talkin to me bout movin to florida when i graduate this summer. and i dunno what to do. i keep thinkin bout it. but all that comes out of it is negative things. like.. what if he dont wanna b with me no more. b/c i dont have a car or anything and he said he would put me on his insurance, and help me find a job and stuff.. but then it just worries me that he will like a girl that looks better than me. i dunno what to do.. there is alot more but i dont feel like sayin it all
Well dont take this all in right now wait until your graduate-trix

Q: 15f, okay ive realized that having like 2 or 3 best friends is perfect, no drama no nothing, and then they started hanging out with their old friends who are totatlly bitches, sry, but i could care less then at 300 in the morning last night i get these stupid phone calls of them making fun of me and my boyfriend, i just feel really hurt and betrayed by them because it wasn't them saying things but they were telling them to say things obviously because i tell them everything and to only them. i just wished that they could have made the other girls stop calling me. i just hope that you guys got that, its hard to understand, but what should i do, now all i have is my bf and his friends? should i talk to my best friends about what they did?
Yeah i would talk to them and see why they would do that. 15 is a hard age.. but life goes on. Although it doesnt seem as if it will but it will-trix

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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