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does anyone know of a free spyware blocker?

here's a website-

http://www.download.com/Anti-Spyware-Blocker/3000-8022_4-10383060.html?tag=lst-0-3

you can DL it from that site. it's totally free. if you don't like that program, use that website & type whatever you want in the search bar.

-hope that helped!♥

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ok so i'm 14/f. i'm 5'5" and like 105 pounds or around there. I don't want to lose weight, I just want to be more healthy. even though I appear skinny, I don't feel as in shape as I should be. Like I ran up the stairs today like once and I was out of breath by the time I got up. what exercises or other things can I do to get in shape? or food I can eat? thanks :]

wellp i'm pretty athletic & i like staying in shape so i can help ya out.

exercises-
start with a plan. it'd be a lot easier to do. i'd suggest running, situps/crunches, 6 inches, lunges, etc. with running, it will probably help you the most. start out slow. don't try doing miles er anything. since its summer, its nice out & you can go running easier. start by running a certain distance that's easier for you. maybe around your block twice er something. start at a slow jog & work your way up to a run if you want to. if you are going to do this, keep yourself hydrated with water because it will get hot. if you want to work out certain areas of your body, then you can go to google & type in '(body part here) exercises'. that way you can target certain areas. other than that, definately run. if you keep yourself motivated & add on distance every time you run, you'll stay in good shape. plus, running is the most efficent.

eating-
you can eat basically whatever you want with portion control & limits. eat all 3 meals like regular. basically it should be a meat & veggies. for snacks, fruit & crackers would probably be the best. even by changing your snacks into fruits can help a lot.

-hope that helped!♥

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My boyfriend, well currently ex, cheated on me a few months back. We were dating for over 1.5 years, almost 2 so when I found out about it, I broke up with him.


I really wasn't planning on getting back together with him because I was really hurt. Besides the cheating however, I thought he was amazing.


Yesterday he came over to get me back. When we first started dating, I used to make him these cute little signs but I always thought he just threw them away. Well he kept them ALL! :D He made then into a book type thing and showed it to me when he came over. There was at least a 100 of them!


I thought it was the cutest thing ever! So it made me think about taking him back. What do you guys think? Does everyone deserve a second chance?

well, even though this situation is totally up to you, you could probably use some input. there's that saying 'once a cheater, always a cheater' but that's probably not true for every girl/guy. the book shows he cared about you enough to keep those, but he also did cheat. did you talk to him about it?? maybe it was juss a one time thing?? you really have to sit down & talk to him. explain how you feel now, & how you felt when it happened. you don't want to get back into a relationship where things repeat, but you also don't want to blow him off if he truly does care about you. you definately need to talk to him about it & see what he says. explain that you want your relationship to be closed, meaning no other girls/guys involved. you can probably tell if he's serious er not about it by his expressions while you tell him these things. basically, no one can tell you whether to date him er not, & their opinions shouldn't affect your decision. if you truly believe he cares & won't do it again, go for it. if there's any doubts, you might want to wait & see if you guys date later on.

-hope that helped!♥

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okay me and my ex broke up 9 days ago.
and i have been kinda asking him questions abou the break up the last 8 days. and yesterday i had someone else ask him questions and he found out and we got in a fight. and like hes been going in a circle with girls and its like.. he will forget his most recent ex and try to talk to his old one and become there friends and when we broke up he told me he wanted to be friends.
and now its like i dont matter anymore he went threw a break up before me like. 2 yrs ago. and hes trying to feel what that girl left but its making him go out with other chicks ( one of his ex's told me this) and. i was trying to talk to him about it yesterday and he got mad and started saying stuff about how he doesnt want to go out never again and how he never want to talk to me again and never wants to see me again.
and he said this to me b4 and he ended up talking to me and going out with me

i dont know
i need real advice
should i wait until he wants to talk to me

or send him a sorry letter for being annoying

or just leave it alone...
because you really cant say your never going to go out with someone becaue highschool changes people and you never know how you will feel about someone in 2yrs or even months

btw we are both 14


SORRY SOO LONG!

these situations are tough. the sorry letter would be a good idea but maybe not right away. i think it would be cute if you sent it in the mail actually. rather than online er anything. you should put that you know he said he doesn't want to talk to you & that's why you sent this instead. he might forgive you if you do that, but it's not a gurantee because everyone is different. you definately don't want to push to try talking to him because he can get even more annoyed. the letter would probably be the best idea for this situation. you could include how you're sorry & still care about him & you'd be happy to be his friend. you might not want to say too much relationship wise, only because he said he didn't want to date you. of course he could juss be saying that, but juss tell him you want to be friends. you don't want to stop talking to him totally do you?? probably not. it might not be a good idea to leave it alone, because then its like an unsolved problem & you'll never really know what would've happened. if he doesn't reply to your letter er doesn't try to talk to you, definately leave it go then. it'd be worth a try.

-hope that helped!♥

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I have like really horribly spoty legs. My skin is brown and they are just these really nasty looking black spots on my legs the doctor said it's cause I have sensitive skin and I used either the wrong kind of soap or cream and that they will be on my legs for life they're like scars and now that it's summer I can't show my legs meaning I can't wear skirts and it's HOT i suppose i could wear tights but then I get all hot and sweaty and start to stink any idea how I could cover them up? oh and please don't try to be funny by saying plasters

is there any medicine your doctor can give you to lighten them up?? if not, try the long skirts. there's really cute ones out. they go down to about your ankle, so covering your legs won't be a problem. i'm not sure what type of clothes you're into, but they sell them at places such as JC penny, Macys, American Eagle, Gap, Abercrombie & Fitch, Hollister, Old Navy, etc. they come in different colors & patterns are are flowy, so they don't stick to your legs er anything. plus they look really cute with flip flops. sometimes jeans are okay at night anyway.

-hope that helped!♥

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Okay. Well I have alot of guys that like me. I like a few of them, some more then others. This has always happened to me. Always. Guys like me, I like them, nothing happens. As soon as i find out that a guy likes me, I become distant. I dont want to be hurt again. I dont. I want a boyfriend, but I just cant seem to get one. I am afraid. How do I keep myself from distanting myself and keep the guys interested because they seem to think that I am not when I am. So how do I get the guys to know that I like them, without telling them, and how do I keep myself from becoming distant? Anything would help. Thanks.

this isn't such a bad thing. instead of going into the whole 'i like a guy, he likes me' & then nothing happens, you might want to approach it differently. try being friends with the guy first. that way, there's no need to be distant. you can like someone & they can still be your friend. plus, you'll know him a lot better if you do decide to date each other. it might be a lot more fun, ya know?? having a whole bunch of guy friends rather than a bf & then becoming distant. it's normal to want a bf even if you do become distant. i think if you started with closer friendships, rather than telling them straight out you like them, you'll become more comfortable with them. okay so let's say you do date & it doesn't work out?? you're still friends & you'll most likely still respect each other. i think in most situations girls & guys get hurt because they date right away & weren't friends to begin with so it all falls apart. you can tell guys you like them by flirting & paying attention to them. this doesn't mean all the time but once in awhile & they'll get the hint that you like them.

-hope that helped!♥

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is it true that if you charge your cell for a certain amount of time ..then it wont be able to charge ever again? and is it the same with ipods? because my friends ipod cant charge cause she said she has charged it for a certain amount of time.. i was just wondering if this was true or not for the cell phone..

and i have the razor one from cingular if that helps

ehh i kind've doubt that. maybe if you charged it for like a day er something. it could probably make the battery worse but im not sure about not being able to ever charge it again. ipods are a bit different than cell phones. juss make sure that when you do charge it it's almost dead er has a half a bar er something & you don't overcharge it over the same period of time. like you shouldn't leave your phone charged even when its full. other than that it should be fine.

-hope that helped!♥

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there's this party tonight. i went shopping yesterday and got an outfit to wear but im concerned its too wintery. its inside and its not like HOT out, so idk... some of my friends said it was cute, and a couple said it might be too wintery. it's a cute tank top under a sweater w/ a skirt. the sweaters kind of wintery but its at a country club so i have to get dressed up and i can always take it off. what do you think? thank you!!

i think it's fine. i mean if it's a country club you don't want to look too casual. the tank top & the skirt makes it summery. i'd wear it. plus, you said you can take it off soo it's not a problem. if not, maybe you can find another shirt instead of a sweater to wear overtop?? i think it's fine though.

-hope that helped!♥

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Ok on saturday I went to my cousins grad partyy and I met this guy. but the problem is he is 17 and he likes me alot. hes not the kind of person who would try to take things far so thats not what im worried about but i reeally do need to get over him cuz i dont get to see him oftenn but hes like the perfct guy. how do i?

Completly sadd=[[

to get over him, you have to go out & meet new people. that way you can hang out with others & try taking your mind off of him. since you don't see him that much, it might be a little easier, but if not that's okay. make yourself busy so you're not thinking about how you like him all the time. if you meet new guys e w/e, you'll probably focus your attention on them instead.

-hope that helped!♥

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Um so this is weird but my nipples are like crooked. one goes down and the other is like striaght. is something wrong with me?? im really sorry this is weird.

im 15/f if that helps

put it this way. they're all differen't. nothings wrong with you. it's juss how they are. i don't think you can do anything about it but get surgery & that would probably hurt & might not be the best idea, but it definately doesn't make you weird.

-hope that helped!♥

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Hi I am a 14/f. I have liked this guy for liek ever. I told him so many time so he knows but somehow doesnt care. he used to tell me he liked me and everything just to like get soem and it would make me like him more and more evrytime and i felt i couldnt say no cuz i liked sooo much. and then he did all this and got a GF. wel now they are broke up and they liek eachother still and hr still trys to use me. what do say to him?

miss him

this guy doesn't seem like he's totallllly looking for a gf if he still likes her & she likes him. talk to him about it & see how he feels. if he's still interested in this girl, would you want him dating you?? that's making a huge mess out of drama. give him room. let him see how he feels. as long as he knows how you feel, if he doesn't tell him, then you did what you could. you definately don't want him to use you. let him sort out his feelings & see how things go from there. even if you guys don't date right away, you can still be friends.

-hope that helped!♥

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everytime i click on my profile settings and change them i click submit at the bottom but it still doesnt change my settings this mean people cant send a question to my inbox how do i stop this from happening, and how can i change my settings

the best thing would be to ask DN about it. you can do that by going to the site & asking a question in the inbox. i think DN is the first name on the moderators list. if not, go to the FAQ section of the site.

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Why when i'm singing, do i yawn every verse or so. I try to hold it back, but i just feel like i need to yawn. Espacially when i take a breath
If anyone knows why this happens or how to fix it, it would be a great help!

it's all about the breathing while you sing. here's a website-

http://www.dummies.com/WileyCDA/
DummiesArticle/id-2013,subcat-ARTS.html

sorry it's a dummies article haha =) it's really good though & should help you.

-hope that helped!♥

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So I like this guy named Ryan and he likes me too so he says. But hes like in love with this girl named Karly and so he doesnt really want to like me too much casue of her or anything so what do i do. Help Please~!

since he has a girlfriend, you can't do much. let him know how you feel, but don't expect a lot out of it. if he was your bf & she was hitting on him & stuff, you probably wouldn't feel great. you should juss tell him how you feel & leave him go for a bit. wait it out. it might not last, but who knows. if he does like you, then he might want to date you later. let him decide that. don't interfere with it. it could juss make things worse. if he truly likes you, he'll do something about it.

-hope that helped!♥

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I had asked a question almost a week ago about my boyfriend dumping me out of the blue. Well, I find out today that he and one of my GOOD friends had sex.


Now, this is for anyone to answer. She thinks there is nothing wrong with it because we broke up. Tell me how FUCKED up it is that she would do that when she KNOWS I'm not over him and we broke up not even a week ago.


Right when I was just starting to be okay with us breaking up... This happens.

it's wrong what she did, but it was YOUR bf. he shouldn't have done it either & i'd probably be more mad at him, but you're right, she shouldn't have done that. i would say to get away from both of them. no friend does that. there's no excuses either. you can't change it, since it already happened but the best thing would be to juss not be friends with her er him. it's your decision because they're your friends, but really, what kind of friend is that?? if she is going to have sex with your ex bf, not even a week after, don't you think she would do other things too?? probably. plus, she doesn't think there's anything wrong with it. that shows you a lot. why?? she's not even guilty about it, meaning what she did she thought was right. that's messed up in itself. you definately don't need friends that would do that.

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But she told me the other day she had got rid of the photo?


I know I shound havnt done it thou but I made a fake email addy to talk 2 her “bf” and I was talking 2 him and he seems a nice guy but when I askd him are you single he said ye iam but iam just getting off with this girls thou. So I think she finks they are seein each other?then I askd her wot is she doin 2nite ( last nit) and she said iam goin out with kris and havin sumthin 2 eat at his,but when I was talking to him askd him wot was he up 2 2nit and he said “ just a quite nite in watchin the football and I was talking 2 him till bout 11 ( at nite)anyways y is she tryin 2 make me jelious? I thought you only made sum1 jelious when you likd them?
help me plzzzzzz

it definately sounds like it. him & her aren't on the same page. there's nothing you can do about it so if i were you i'd leave it go & let them sort it out. it sounds like she likes you though. she wouldn't be trying to make you jealous if she didn't.

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me and this girl have been friendly 4 bout 5 months and the other month she txtd me sayin she has no got a bf and that she still wants to keep in touch with me cos she will miss me, and when we went on our date she has kept the photo we had taken of us and she has also kept the train ticket and this boyfiend she has now she says is " the 1" if he is the 1 y keep the ticket and photo of us?

the the other day she was meant to send her bf a txt and it appeard on my phone instead when his name is Kris and my name is Ste but K is nowere near S in the alaphbet is it? is she tryin to make me jelious r sumthin?

she says that the date we went on she will never 4get it was 1 of the best days she had and that when we kiss she went all funny but i still dont understand it? when we talk now we just end up arguing and bitchin bout each other then we say sorry 2 each other and that it wasnt nice but y does she still want me as a mate if we argue and then make up the other day she said she "hated me and that i had "blown it "( y had i blown it she says she dont like me anymre) and told me to "piss off" but then she txts bk and says sorry bout b4 . but if she dont like me and i pissd her off y she wanna keep intouch with me she says I always make her happy and smile isn’t that wot a bf is

she seems confused about her feelings. she shouldn't be doing those things to you since she has a bf. she might be trying to make you jealous because she still has feelings for you. it's kind've difficult to mix up when sending a txt msg since your names aren't close. talk to her. it definately sounds like she still has feelings, but not enough of them to make her want to dump her bf. you don't want to be stuck in that mess. so talk about her & see how she feels about it.

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I am/was i'm not sure if i still am pregnate but let's say i lost my baby would i be able to tell by a pregnacy test like of you lost the baby or not througha pregancy test please help me i need to know soon. thanks



i don't think you can do it through a pregnancy test. you would have to go to the doctor. it would be a lot safer. there's signs that you might have that you had a miscarriage. here's a website-

http://tjsamson.client.web-health.com/
webhealth/topics/WomensHealth/
womenshealthsub/womenshealthpages/
Pregnancy/miscarriage_signs.html

definately go to a doctor to be sure.

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are wheat thins good for you? and do they taste good

they aren't as good as junk food obviously, but they're really good for you & they actually don't taste that bad. i actually like them haha =)

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I have and ipod nano video and I was wondering if there is a way to put videos onto your ipod for free without purchasing them on itunes. Can't you like download them from something like lime wire, drag them to itunes, and connect your ipod and it's already there for you? I tried that and it didn't work but is there a different way?

will rate 5s.

you can't put videos on your ipod nano. to put videos on it, you have to use an ipod video, because the other ipods aren't capable. you can actually put videos on it, but you can't play them so it'd be pointless to spend money on it.

-hope that helped!♥

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