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Take him back?
My boyfriend, well currently ex, cheated on me a few months back. We were dating for over 1.5 years, almost 2 so when I found out about it, I broke up with him.
I really wasn't planning on getting back together with him because I was really hurt. Besides the cheating however, I thought he was amazing.
Yesterday he came over to get me back. When we first started dating, I used to make him these cute little signs but I always thought he just threw them away. Well he kept them ALL! :D He made then into a book type thing and showed it to me when he came over. There was at least a 100 of them!
I thought it was the cutest thing ever! So it made me think about taking him back. What do you guys think? Does everyone deserve a second chance?
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well babe, it depends on if you trust him enough. he seems like he realized his mistakes and is coming to win you back. personally, i probably would. but it just depends on how much you trust him. just watch out. good luck doll.♥
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With the type of relationship you had with him before. Yes I would give him another chace! BUt be aware they do it once they might do it again! So...... watch out and if he does do not get back with him! I had a guy cheat on me about 7 times then I finally figured out ooo I am so stupid why did I ever get back with him after he did it to me the second time. He said every time he was going to change and guess what! He never has. SO yes ive him another try. Hope every ting works out all right! Hope this helps. Good Luck in the future!
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Aw thats adorable.
i think that a second chance would be nice. but make him want you more. tell him you still have feelings for him and you want to earn his trust back
Good Luck
Ashley
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well, even though this situation is totally up to you, you could probably use some input. there's that saying 'once a cheater, always a cheater' but that's probably not true for every girl/guy. the book shows he cared about you enough to keep those, but he also did cheat. did you talk to him about it?? maybe it was juss a one time thing?? you really have to sit down & talk to him. explain how you feel now, & how you felt when it happened. you don't want to get back into a relationship where things repeat, but you also don't want to blow him off if he truly does care about you. you definately need to talk to him about it & see what he says. explain that you want your relationship to be closed, meaning no other girls/guys involved. you can probably tell if he's serious er not about it by his expressions while you tell him these things. basically, no one can tell you whether to date him er not, & their opinions shouldn't affect your decision. if you truly believe he cares & won't do it again, go for it. if there's any doubts, you might want to wait & see if you guys date later on.
-hope that helped!♥
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Looks like he took alot of effort into making that thing to show you how much those little notes ment to him. Yes he screwed up big time but I think you should give him another chance. You said besides the screw-up he was an awesome boyfriend. Take him back but just keep your eyes open ya know. Let him know this is his LAST chance with you. Remember this: Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
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