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Okay. Well I have alot of guys that like me. I like a few of them, some more then others. This has always happened to me. Always. Guys like me, I like them, nothing happens. As soon as i find out that a guy likes me, I become distant. I dont want to be hurt again. I dont. I want a boyfriend, but I just cant seem to get one. I am afraid. How do I keep myself from distanting myself and keep the guys interested because they seem to think that I am not when I am. So how do I get the guys to know that I like them, without telling them, and how do I keep myself from becoming distant? Anything would help. Thanks.
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honey, you're not gonna get anywhere if you keep distancing yourself. nobody wants to get hurt because of a guy, but you have to take chances. if you find someone who you really like, make it clear to them that you like them! you should flirt with them, and make plans with them a lot, until they get the picture. and hopefully, if they're smart enough, they'll ask you out.
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this isn't such a bad thing. instead of going into the whole 'i like a guy, he likes me' & then nothing happens, you might want to approach it differently. try being friends with the guy first. that way, there's no need to be distant. you can like someone & they can still be your friend. plus, you'll know him a lot better if you do decide to date each other. it might be a lot more fun, ya know?? having a whole bunch of guy friends rather than a bf & then becoming distant. it's normal to want a bf even if you do become distant. i think if you started with closer friendships, rather than telling them straight out you like them, you'll become more comfortable with them. okay so let's say you do date & it doesn't work out?? you're still friends & you'll most likely still respect each other. i think in most situations girls & guys get hurt because they date right away & weren't friends to begin with so it all falls apart. you can tell guys you like them by flirting & paying attention to them. this doesn't mean all the time but once in awhile & they'll get the hint that you like them.
-hope that helped!♥
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