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I dont know she never talks to me anymore and she always thinks if i post a built on about someone she thinks it about her and hse puts words into my mouth saying i said she was a beoch and i didn't even say anything about a beoch in the builton shes turned into a slut she always hangs out with even she blows me off to hang out with her she never talks to me in school anymore she barely does if i ask if she wants to go somewhere next month she already has plan with eve she never has anytime to hang out with me anymore my sister was her best friend to and she doesn't like her anymore because shes being a beoch i dont know but my friend she acts like she hates me and she says she doesn't and stuff but i dont know i trued talking to her and shes like i can have more friends than you and im like all im asking if you can make room for me and then she starts yelling and blah blah she never calls to talk she only calls to ask if she can borrow something i hate it i call he and thats when she only talks and like i dont know it makes me sad im losing her she says that im not but i tihnk i am slowly idk what to do (link)
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I have a friend just like this, she moved away now, but we still talk. At one time, she changed dramatically and what I did is talked to her about it -- she denied it and wasn't going to change at all, no matter what I said. So I let it go, went on with my other friends and we didn't speak for the longest time.
Now we're good friends, but it took A LOT of work. But your friend has to be willing to work on your freindship too, it can't be a one-sided thing. I'd try talking to get one more time, if you can't get anywhere, I wouldn't worry about it. I'd go hang out with some other good friends, instead of worrying with her. She may come around later on, just don't let her use you for things.
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is having sex on the 5th date too early?!?! (link)
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I think this is really a personal preference, it's not something I would do, but if you feel that strong of a connection, I don't suppose there's anything wrong with it.
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i gave my boyfriend a blow job, can i still get pregnant if i swollowed the cum or whatever it's called? (link)
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Absolutely not, the only way you can be pregnant is the sperm comes in contact with your vagina. That obviously didn't happen here, so you're definitely not pregnant from that.
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does anyone poke their ear with a stick to get junk out? or is my family just weird. it hurts so much! (link)
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I wouldn't call your family "weird," it isn't a very safe or healthy thing to do though. Best thing to do is use a Q-tip, and that'll take care of it.
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When a guy and a girl stand together, who puts their arm where?
Whose arm goes around the waist and whose goes over the shoulder? Can both put the arms over the shoulder, or both put their arms around the waist? (link)
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It goes either way, sometimes the guy puts his arm around the girls waist. Then, the girl puts her on his shoulder or around his waist too (like a hug). And other times, the girl puts her arm around his waist, and his arm goes on her shoulder.
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I like this kid, Alex. Well, we hang out A LOT. he's knows I like him and stuff, but it don't bother him... Well, at least that's what i thought until today. This is embarrassing, but he touched my boob. He likes to.... 'touch' me. Like poke and stuff. Well, he reached out and grabbed my boob. I asked him what that was for. He said, it was fun and interesting. Let's cut in here. Why would I guy say that??? Anyway, on word! As we walked down to the bus, he kept rubboing my arm. He was rub his face on it and say it was funny and stuff. Then, he touched my lips and my cheek. he even touched my eye! which was creepy... Oh, and during.... Reading class thing (Core Skillz) He makes these jokes about blow jobs and perverted stuff like I do. Then, he said my dicky go in da pace up there! I was like what? and started laughing. I blushed though, which I fucking HATE! anyway, does he like me? If so, can I ask him out? I need asking out guidelines from experts. Like, i can get a guy *snaps fingers* like that. PLEASE! Thank you so much!
p.s don't say, stop talking shit about perverted fuck. I like to, it's funny! I'm an immature freak! Wo0t! anyway.... haha (link)
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Hi, this has all the info you need. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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well i have this kinda girlfriend. and well we used to be together when i lived in the same town i moved to live closer to family and she got upset. whenever i go see her it is like we never broke up and she begs me to move back so we can be together. now i love her sooooo much but i dont think i want to go through all the drama. i go toschool and i like where i am the thing is i love being with her and i love everything about her. what do i do? (link)
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If you get back together with her, it would be a long distance relationship. I personally don't recommend moving back only because of her, something else could come up and you two may breakup. Then you're still stuck living there, so I don't think that's the best idea.
Now as far as the long distance relationship, it's definitely possible, but not easy. I've been in one and don't regret it, but it was extremely difficult. So that would be totally up to you and the girl if you both can handle it.
And also, I'm telling you not to move back because of her because I've been in that situation too, my boyfriend moved back because of me. And we just didn't work out, so not something I would suggest doing.
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how do you online? like what do you sayy?!
and what do u say or do when ur flirting in person too? (link)
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You can scroll down to the flirting guide, it will help you out -- online or off. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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Okay, really stupid question here, but what exactly are dreams? And do you have one every night? Someone told me that you may not always remember the dream you had once you've woken up, but you always have one. Is that true?
Thanks. (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.dreammoods.com/
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/22697/dreams_what_are_they_and_what_do_they.html
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okay so i want to dye my hair like a shade darker then it is now, its dirty blonde/very light brown now. thing is, i don't know how im going to like it so if there any kind of dye i can put in my hair and will come out in the shower? thanks (link)
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Yes, you can get temporary dyes. The best I've tried is "Loreal Color Pulse." You can get it at CVS and other drugstores, also Wal-Mart has it too.
http://www.lorealparisusa.com/haircolor/ColorPulse/index.asp
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well lets just say i think i like a younger guy..and he is about 2 and a half years younger...would it be wrong to date? (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=517826
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i want to get a pet but my mum thinks they are too much responsibility. I am desperate but maybe i should start with something not so challenging I know she would let me have a cat or dog because the cost a lot of money to keep and you have to worry about them and things. Any suggestions on what i could have. Not a rat because im scared of them and not a fish because theyre boring...
thankz
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Here's some info on pets that may help you out.
http://www.thefunplace.com/house/pets/
But really, no matter what pet you have -- you have to worry about them and take care of them. I have dogs and don't understand why people buy pets if they don't want to take care of them, so please don't turn into one of those people. =)
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http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=64536mo&s=1
how do you do this? have a black and white picture and then a spot with color?
i have photoshop. but i just dont know how to do this. (link)
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I found some info that may be helpful to you. =)
http://photoshop911.typepad.com/help/2005/05/black_white_col.html
http://www.graphic-design.com/Photoshop/Seminars/colorize/index.html
http://www.mandarindesign.com/tutorials/colorizing.html
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So awhile ago I met this freshman guy. We're both in high school, just to clear that up.
And he's way cool, and I kind of liked him.
And I'm a junior.
So I was wondering if it was weird to have that kind of age difference?
It's actually not that big. I think he's almost fifteen, and I won't be sixteen for like 8 more months. I'm a young junior, hehe.
Anyway, a lot of people tell me that that's weird.
So is it? (link)
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I'll tell you straight up -- people are going to talk, if you get together. But you just can't worry about that, those people don't matter. If you really like this guy, then go for it. Please don't let the others stop you from doing that.
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so im planning on dying my hair.
black with purple in it.
but im not sure what i want to do with the colors yet, i was thinking either purple streaks, or purple underneath. i was considering tips, but that will not put that much purple in my hair, so yeah. like would tips and streaks look dumb?
btw, now my hair is brown with light brown/blonde in it and they are highlights. so yeah.
what do you think is a better style? (link)
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1) I don't think tips and streaks would look dumb, but not my personal preference to have both of them. In my opinion, just the streaks would be great.
2) I think it's a better style to stick with the streaks. I have a bunch of info on dying hair, that might be helpful for you to look over. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=519359
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My boobs KILLLLLL when i dont wear a bra its like throbbing pain. and its through out the day. what is wrong??
but once my bra is on everything is okay. kinda (link)
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You're like me. I wear my bra ALL the time, even sleep in it (because it makes them stay up and not droop), so when I don't -- it makes them hurt, or just bothers me to death. So that's what's wrong, you're wearing it so much it makes your breasts sensitive.
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My hands are always cold. Do I have bad circulation? How do I fix this? (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.diagnose-me.com/cond/C221250.html
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1) What color should I dye my hair? How do I dye my hair? Any tips or tricks? And what are highlights and lowlights?
2) What is some good makeup for my skin tone?
3) I need hairstyles (Short, Long & Medium)!
4) I have acne and want to get rid of it. How do I get rid of it?
5) I’m considering hair extensions, but I need more info on them.
6) I want to buy this product, but I don’t know how well it works.
7) What clothing colors are best for me? (link)
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1) Pick the RIGHT Color for your Hair –> http://beauty.about.com/od/haircutscolor/a/colorforhair.htm
Hair Color Q & A –> http://beauty.ivillage.com/hair/color/topics/0,,4t9c,00.html
http://www.chiff.com/fashion/hair-dye-color.htm
http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/tip095.htm
Top 10 Mistakes –> http://ezinearticles.com/?Top-10-Hair-Dying-Mistakes&id=139900
Highlights & Lowlights –> http://beauty.ivillage.com/makeup/makeupartist/0,,nxw8,00.html
2) http://myjellybean.com/style/makeup/makeup.htm
3) http://www.2hairstyles.com/
http://www.latest-hairstyles.com/
http://hairstyles.free-beauty-tips.com/
http://beautifulhairstyles.com/
4) This is my good friend Jack’s idea, it’s amazing! http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507367
5) http://www.hairextensioninformation.com/
6) http://www.makeupalley.com/product/
7) http://myjellybean.com/style/clothing/clothing.htm
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where did this trend originate: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v313/gutefee/image_25179_071004043416.jpg
and is there a name for these shirts? like big text logo tees or w/e? (link)
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1) I honestly do not know where they originated, I couldn't find anything while looking it up. =(
2) They are called, "Logo T-Shirts."
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what do you call this type of necklace:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v313/gutefee/imgcfm.jpg
like the rose part? it looks like its made out of something special. i am wondering if theres a name for those kinds of..porcelain or w/e? because i saw a tea cup set made like that and it was gorgeous. i dont know how to explain. does anyone know what im talking about? (link)
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Yeah, I know what you're talking about. My mother used to have one of these -- they're called, "Porcelain Necklaces."
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