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my friend shes changed
I dont know she never talks to me anymore and she always thinks if i post a built on about someone she thinks it about her and hse puts words into my mouth saying i said she was a beoch and i didn't even say anything about a beoch in the builton shes turned into a slut she always hangs out with even she blows me off to hang out with her she never talks to me in school anymore she barely does if i ask if she wants to go somewhere next month she already has plan with eve she never has anytime to hang out with me anymore my sister was her best friend to and she doesn't like her anymore because shes being a beoch i dont know but my friend she acts like she hates me and she says she doesn't and stuff but i dont know i trued talking to her and shes like i can have more friends than you and im like all im asking if you can make room for me and then she starts yelling and blah blah she never calls to talk she only calls to ask if she can borrow something i hate it i call he and thats when she only talks and like i dont know it makes me sad im losing her she says that im not but i tihnk i am slowly idk what to do
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I have a friend just like this, she moved away now, but we still talk. At one time, she changed dramatically and what I did is talked to her about it -- she denied it and wasn't going to change at all, no matter what I said. So I let it go, went on with my other friends and we didn't speak for the longest time.
Now we're good friends, but it took A LOT of work. But your friend has to be willing to work on your freindship too, it can't be a one-sided thing. I'd try talking to get one more time, if you can't get anywhere, I wouldn't worry about it. I'd go hang out with some other good friends, instead of worrying with her. She may come around later on, just don't let her use you for things.
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Welcome to the brink of friendship.
where People change and friendships drift.
you have to decide weather its worth fighting for or over. If she is constantly trying to pick fights with you she is not a good person, espeshily when she only calls you to borrow your stuff (ever heard of the phrase..being used)
Or else maybee shes going through a faze needs to figger things out. just give her some space. put down the phone, dont call her. she if she Accualy cares if your there for her or not. if she doesnt call you[exept to borrow a new sweater you bought],not talk to you, fight with you, then you should NOT be wasting your time. you deserve better. but if im wrong and shes only going through a thingg or whatever let her know your here for her but nows not a good time. Let her know that this friendship accualy means somthing to you and that she cant just swing by trying to pick it back up everytime she drops on you. -hope i helped =]
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