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My sister found out i have a boyfriend and she's 13 im 15 and im scared she'll tell my parents i just want a sister i can trust and talk to but as much as i try to she just back fires i want her to tell me when she has a boyfriend but she always thinks im gonna tell my parents which i won't i want her to trust me as much as i try to talk to her she won't listen and now she knows i havea boyfriend i can't even look at her anymore
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Its great that you want to be there for your sister ad that you want to have a close relationship, I admire you for that. If she wont listen to you perhaps writing her a letter expressing everything will make her realise a few things and maybe a close bond will be formed. At the age of 15 it should be fine to have a boyfriend of course your parents may be a little bit funny because they will realise there little girl is growing up.
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Your parents won't let you have a boyfriend? That's weird, esp. for a 15-year-old. Just act like it's no biggie and it wouldn't bother you if she told them. It's a classic trick; it won't be blackmail anymore, so she'll become tired with it, and leave it alone. Try talking to her about other things, just casual small talk. I hope this works for you, because this always works for me with my sister. Good luck.
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What's the question here?
Tell your parents you have a boyfriend.
They'll find out eventually anyways.
If you want you sister to trust you, stop hiding things from each other.
If you edit this and actually clarify what you're asking we can help you out better.
EDIT: Well if you want to be closer to your sister, talk to her more, and not just "hey don't tell Mom&Dad that I have a boyfriend k?"
And if you were referring to your parents never finding out, they will eventually despite what you might believe.
-LM
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