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22/f going to a housewarming on the weekend. It starts midday having a BBQ and goes until midnight. After that either go home or go clubbing. I have absolutely no idea what to wear. Any suggestions? I don't want to be overdressed but also not underdressed. Ps it is hot where I live.

Try Forever21 or Wet Seal. Summer/floral pattern dresses are good for that kind of stuff.

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Here is my current situation. I am a 20 year old female, been in my current relationship for 3 years with a girl I fell head over heals for, I never knew I was bisexual until I met her, she was so nice and caring towards others, she made me laugh all the time and she taught me a lot about life, she is my best friend and i love her very much. Just before we started dating I was getting out of a 4 year on and off relationship with my high school love (boy). We had the typical break up make up relationship until I left him for her. I have been thinking about how my life would be if I never jumped straight into a relationship with someone just before I graduated high shool. Her and i have been living together for about 2 years. She hates my family because a few of them had a "meeting" about how they didn't want us to be together because she has no aspirations but they still try to get along with her, she wont come around, so for the past year I have hardly seen any of my family in fear of her being upset. I physically cannot take the stress anymore. About a week ago I tried to break up with my girlfriend, she wasnt having it and tried to overdose on pills, begged for me back. So I did. I now live pretty much everyday thinking why I did that. I love her very much but we argue so much about the littlest things and we never have sex. I feel like the past 7 years I have never gotten to do what I want because I have been with another person. It's not that i don't want to be with her anymore, it's that I am wondering what it is like to have my own life. I don't know how to break it off clean with her and leave things okay between us. Here's the catch.. She is from another state and has no family where I live , no one to rely on if I leave her. I feel so bad and I love her so much that's one of the reasons I let myself be unhappy, she has no money saved up to go home by yet if I break up with her I may as well be handin her a ticket and saying goodbye forever. She is my best friend. I don't want her out of my life, I just want to have my own. How do I break it clean?

Everything you typed about how you felt regarding the situation you should tell her. You need to be honest with her and explain exactly how you're feeling. It's the best way to do it. You made it pretty clear in your question. By reading it, anyone can see you still care for her and that's what she needs to keep in mind when you are explaining it to her. You worded it pretty well.

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alright so... i don't have the best skin. it's oily as hell. and the pimple... i'm not worried about that it's the blackheads. the makeup i use doesn't cover them nor the bumps they have NOR the holes they leave when i pull them out. and i'm not sure what to try now. i mean i'm cheap so i use drugstore, walmart type store makeup like maybelliene and covergirl... but i've been looking at MUFE, MAC, Smashbox, and other stuff...
but before i buy them i want to be sure they'll work because they are so expensive. so if you know any makeup good for covering blackheads or can find out some.. or even can find me a good article on this or a internet makeup tutorial please tell me.
and don't give me a lecture on how makeup won't help it, i'm not a retard i know that. but i would appreciate the help, not a LECTURE.

High end brands such as MAC and Smashbox for example are of better quality usually. However, make up works differently for everyone. Just because someone loves MAC and it works best for them doesn't mean it'll work best for you. Maybe Cover Girl works best for you. Everyone's skin type is different and not everyone gets break outs from the same products. With that being said, if you are looking into a new make up brand then I would suggest getting samples first. Go into MAC and tell them you are interested in trying their products for covering blackheads but you want to make sure it works with your skin before you buy something. That way you won't be wasting your money.

http://www.ehow.com/how_4485514_cover-up-blackheads-makeup.html

That's a good website to show you how to cover them. Also, you should try those blackhead remover strips. You can find them at CVS or Wal-Mart. However, if you really want to see an improvement then you should go to a dermatologist.

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What type school would be best for Registered Nursing?

It depends on what area you're looking in. There are a lot of great schools for Registered Nursing. You should Google it and see which ones you'd be interested in. Nursing is in demand and a lot of schools provide you with the education you need. Some even get you a job after.

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hi
passover is coming up this friday and i am really scared for my health and body.
i am on a strict diet and with passover coming up its really hard to diet and enjoy the holiday without gainging weight.
i really cannot afford to gain weight esp this close to summer.

anyone have any advice on how to help me not gain over this holiday and stay motivated and not cheat!

You have to count your calories. You're allowed to eat what everyone else does but just in smaller portions. Have a little bit of everything. When you feel full, stop eating. Also, you should exercise even if you just go for a walk.

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My 8 year old Bichon started limping the other day. Yesterday, she stopped using her back legs completely. She hasn't been eating or drinking water. Does anyone have any idea what's going on?

Please don't tell me to take her to the vet, I know I'm going to have to, I just don't have the money at the moment. :/

I know you don't want advice that's "take her to the vet" but you need to. No one can give you a diagnosis online. However, it sounds serious enough to take her ASAP. It could even be fatal. She might have broke something or pinched a nerve. If someone is wrong with her spine, that's very dangerous if it's not taken care of. You don't have to pay everything all at once. They have payment plans. At least call the vet and ask what your options are.

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Ok so I've been with this guy for about 6 months we met online and we believe we were meant to be together he lived 3 hours away before going to basic I was kinda talking to a frirnd of mine but NOTHING happened my friend was just trying then he did something horrible to me my boyfriend found out he said he still loves me I'm just scared we wont make it and its all.my fault

You have to stay honest with your boyfriend and be truthful to him. If you are completely honest and have an open line of communication then you are showing him it can still work. People make mistakes.

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There were a couple piano songs i listened to on youtube about a year ago and i cant remember the names of the songs or the artist... On the album cover there was a man who looked like he hadnt shaved and one of his names had started with an "M" The name of the song started with "who" or something like that, but i really cant remember anything... Can anyone help me please??

Too vague but if you have a Youtube account it will be in your history.

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I've always wanted to get a rose tattooed somewhere, just in black ink but not a black rose just the minimum shading. I drew it myself and its perfect just not sure where.
Roses have always been the symbolic meaning of loved ones to me. I lost most of my relatives and loved ones to cancer and only being 18 it’s been hard. I have also had skin cancer myself but am cured. They have always left me roses and rose objects so I just need it. For now i just want a rose but does anyone know of any good quotes along the lines of staying strong or hope that would go well with it/for me? Also what are your thoughts on placement of it? No arms, legs, lower back…only feet or torso. Where wouldn’t get warped for kids or for being very athletic/tiny?

A thorn defends the rose, harming only those who would steal the blossom.

Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies.

“We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.” (Oscar Wilde)

“Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow.” (Albert Einstein)



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I really want to ask this guy if there is any chance of us getting back togther in the future if its a possability but i dont know how to say it?

Say it like you just worded it. Being blunt is better so he knows exactly what you're asking.

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Ok, I've seen EVERY episode, and I'm a little confused.

I looked it up on google, and it says that Dan wanted off the show, to focuse on his acting career in movies, so thats how they came up with him having a heart attack and dying at Darlene's wedding.

But if he wanted off the show, and that was suppose to be his final episode, why is he still apearring in the final season?

I know Roseanne said that he died at her wedding, and she kept him alive because she loved him; but it doesn't make sense.
So he really finished off the series with them, and than left??

Im so confused! haha. I love the show; and I know they never won the lottery, and he never cheated on Roseanne; because she made that happen because when he died, she felt like he cheated her out of life and what not.

So please explain!

The series finale of Roseanne is very good. Basically, you find out that all of the characters were written by Roseanne when she was unsatisfied with how her life was going. Remember how Dan built that "writing office" for her in the basement? That was her space to vent and write whatever she wanted. And from then on, things began to change between them. Her sister was really a lesbian but she always saw her as straight and didn't really want to deal with that. Her mom was straight but couldn't really deal with what happened between her parents that well so she made her a lesbian so no one could replace her father. Darlene and Mark were together but she always saw David more fitting for her. David and Becky were together but she saw Mark more fitting for her. Fred and Leon were not actually married. Fred was just her lawyer. She was very depressed with her financial situation so wrote that she won the lottery instead. Dan died at Darlene's wedding because of his heart attack. She couldn't handle it because she felt so cheated and angry that he "left his family". She was grieving so much that she wrote it out like he cheated on her instead. It was easier to deal with a cheater than a loved one dying. Not sure about Dan wanting off the show completely, but if you noticed in the episodes where he's cheating he's not in them as much.

**I did answer it. He isn't on as much in the last season but he decided to finish it. I don't understand your question?

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Ok so theres this guy in my class that i think likes me. There's this one incidence were i was talking to friends and i saw him look at me. When he comes into class theres a garbage not to far away from me but its not infront of me its on the other side of the room and he walks infront of me to the garbage and when i was talking to my friend he was looking at me and then walked away but he doesnt do this all the time. It's rarely.

Not sure what your question is. Does he like you? Only he can answer that. Everyone is different.

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18/f
Basically speaking me and my ex had not so great a relationship for the past two years. no, he is not my first boyfriend. weve been broken up for technically a year, but we still texted and talked everyday. he was fooling around with girls while i was crying over him every night. i basically just got fed up with everything and i had sex with one of my best guy friends. (first person ive done anything with since my ex) i told my ex what happend and he freaked out on me, even though he was messing around with other girls it was okay.. cough hypocrite. anyways hes like i can see you as my future wife blablabla. but i just dont feel the effort from him. my best friend is in love with me, we have the same interests and hang out all the time.. its just i miss my ex, and i think about him a lot. deep down i do know i love my best friend, just in a different way then i love my ex. i feel like my heart belongs to my ex still though. but as much as i miss my ex, when i was with him all i was, was depressed. i guess its just my inner heart holding onto him. the thing is my best friend is nothing like my ex, they are complete and total opposites. i just dont know if i can love my best friend, the way i loved my ex. my best friend doesnt currently drive so its annoying. my head says be with your best friend while my heart says is this really what you want, or are you using him attempting to replace your ex. & ive refused to text my ex back the past three days because im done playing the texting game. if you really wanted me youd call me or make more of an effort, i cant keep going on like this. im sorry if this is long/confusing just i dont know what to do anymore.

What would hurt you more? Losing your best friend or your ex boyfriend? As in, they didn't want to be with you anymore. If you can respond to that question pretty easily then you have your answer. If not, you need to really see who's best for you. It seems like your best friend is there for you. Yet your ex boyfriend was out with other girls. Either way, you can't keep leading both of them on.

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Hi, my name's Sarah. After my freshman year in high school, my family and I had to move to a new school. I'm in band, and near the end of August, there's always band camp, where you spend all day for a week at the school to learn a half-time show. WELL, when I arrived, a boy caught my eye... (Let's call him Jack). I play trumpet, and he was in my section. He only interested me at first because he was so quiet and mysterious, and reaaally good looking. Incredibly thick, curly hair and mature eyes... ANYWAY, I was going to be a sophomore, and I could have SWORN he was at least a year older than me. Come to find out a few days later that he's actually a freshman, and he's 11 months younger than me. After a while, school started and I made friends with this big group of people, most were in band. Well, a girl who is now one of my best friends, let's call her Mary, and I were talking at lunch one day, and we both had crushes that we wanted to share. Freakishly enough, we found out we both had a crush on Jack. We didn’t mind that we both liked him because it was just a crush. WELL, we both got a little obsessive for a while, and were not able to shake off our feelings! We were both perplexed as to why we would maybe notice the crush fading, but then see him in the halway the next day and have our hearts stop. Even when Mary had a boyfriend for a bit, (didn’t last long, maybe a week?), she still couldn’t help looking at him. Well, fast forward to today, my senior year. I am STILL hung up on this guy! It’s a crush but stiiillllll, it will not go away! And I’m positive he knows my feelings, (one of my friends has a loud mouth, and he overheard her talking about my liking him.), and after 3 yrs he hasn’t asked me out, so I know nothing’s ever gonna happen. But… Mary now has been dating this guy John for 6 months, and she’s totally gotten over Jack. Jack’s now kind of a taboo subject since those were embarrassing times, so we haven’t talked about him in long while. So she assumes we are both over him, and I act like I am. But I’m nooooot! And Jack’s recently acquired a girlfriend, in his grade, and she’s really nice. SO, Mary’s over him, and he has a girlfriend. I want to just move on, and forget him! And now that he’s quit band, I don’t see him as much anymore, so I thought maybe that would be a chance to forget him. I do have study hall with him though. I’ll think I’m starting to get better, and then I’ll see him in the hall and it starts all over again… I haaaaaate it so much! I feel so pathetic. Is there anything I can do?? I really just wanna forget him. I really do.

Sometimes it's not that easy. You should just keep remembering that you need to move on. Not talking to him will help.

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21/F
Recently my ex of 4 years and I started talking again, although we had a lot of problems (cheating (him not me), jealousy, fighting (verbally), trust issues on/off breaking up to date previous exes (again him not me)) in the past we both have discussed in order for us to try again we both have to accept the past and keep moving forward and take it one day at a time. sounds good right? Wrong. The day we started really talking through it I couldn't be happier, I never wanted that moment to end because I felt like he actually cared. We broke up a year ago and I've dated other people but I never felt as happy as I do when I'm with him, he's honest to god the love of my life. Well the day after (today) we discussed all that he text me and we were just having a normal conversation but I just felt completely and utterly sad and I have no idea why? I was so happy to have him back the day before but yet today talking to him doesn't make me smile it just makes me want to cry. The past year I've been so depressed not having him and now that I have him I still feel sad... I don't get it? Our conversation we so pure and refreshing that you would think I would be happy to start over but I'm not. Is it cause I still haven't gotten over what he's put me through or what? He even noticed my mood was different (I wear my heart on my sleeve) cause he asked if everything was okay and I just said yea and he hasn't texted back. I really just need to know so I can be happy with him and not let this ruin us... cause I know if I continue being this moody he's going to leave again.. What should I do?

Talking to him probably brings up a lot of your past and since you said he cheated on you then it's probably not all good things. You need to decide if talking to him is what's best for you. It might seem like it but if all you're going to think about is cheating and the fights then it's really not. However, you should at least try to forgive him whether you decide to talk or don't. He is human. That doesn't mean he deserves a second chance but if you forgive him then you might feel better about it. If you think he does deserve a second chance, make sure he really did change and won't cheat on you again.

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Does anyone remember what episode that was when, I think it was Piccolo, showing someone (I think Gohan, but maybe not) how to see the really fast fighting.

Piccolo's Secret Ace! Gohan the Crybaby. Was it that one?

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last date of periods is 13 march i'm trying to consive but after two hours of intercouse i got bleeding.next day(26 march) i went to dcotor & she did a blood test of BETA-HCG in reports my HCG level is 18.5 weather I'm pragnant or not ?

Anything under 25 won't be picked up on an HPT. You will have to wait and see but keep in touch with your doctor.

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Me(MICKEY) and My Ex Best Friend(DREW) haven't talked in like almost 3 years now since we graduated high school and we have been friends for 6 years and i was there for him all the time thru when his dad past and when he moved and when his mom got remarried and when he needed me to be there and i made a post the other day about it. Well, He admitted it about beening gay about a week ago. I know about beening gay because i'm gay and i do know about it. I just know alot more than he does about the life ahead of it cause i known for myself 6 years.Which i didn't know about til i read a post on twitter about it. His New Friend(DUSTIN) who has known now for like last past 2 years has been around him alot and So Drew transferred to the same school as dustin.Which he will be attending this fall. So, I'm not sure if dustin is gay too because i use to think he was a long time ago. Now, Drew has had a girlfriend for over 5 years. Until Drew met Dustin. Drew has changed so so so much. Attuide, Personality, looks,Interests in life. Drew ignores my calls,texts etc. He wants to be friends again but everytime i say lets talk about it or lets meet to talk about what happen between us. I don't receive anything back. I'm not jealous of drew in any way. I realized i had feelings for drew after we stop becoming friends and it was way before dustin came into the picture. That's all i think about during the day and in my dreams at night. Is me and him beening together. How can i actually get him to talk if he keeps ignoring me. :/ I really need advice. I was told just to let it go and move on and because he was happy. Well, I should at least let drew know how i felt over this few years about him but i don't know how that's possible. Dustin and Drew are always together. Taking vacation trips or just around the town or off somewhere or going out. How can i contact him without him ignoring me???

If he doesn't want to talk, you can't make him. You should let him know how you feel and if he still ignores you then you have to move on. Maybe write him a letter or send him an email.

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I have naturally pin straight hair. I'd like to get a product that would make my hair like curly, wavy, and/or scrunchy would I put it in my hair. (Like during a shower or after). Curly my hair and dong things like that to it take a lot of time and I get tired just wearing my hair straight every day. So if anybody can suggest to me some good products that know that work (And are affordable), that would be great. Thanks!

You should try Herbal Essences Totally Twisted. It comes in Shampoo, Conditioner, Mousse, Detangler, Hold Creme, and Scrunching Gel. It's all in purple bottles. You could also use a flat iron to curl it or a curling iron. Using hair spray will keep the curls in.

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how do you line people up to take pictures on stairs

The best way to do it is by height. Shortest to tallest.

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