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Boyfriend issues: How do I ask my ex if there is a possibility of us getting back together in the future?


Question Posted Friday March 30 2012, 11:38 am

I really want to ask this guy if there is any chance of us getting back togther in the future if its a possability but i dont know how to say it?

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ArghhJill answered Saturday March 31 2012, 10:51 pm:
I've been here before and my best friend gave me the best advice I could have ever asked for for me so I hope it helps you.

Why ask if there is a possiblity of you guys getting back together in the future? If he loved you then he would come back. In fact, just acting nice and not overcrowding him would bring him back faster. Your giving him all the power when you ask these things because if he says yes. Then he's assuming your waiting around for him.

Instead of being sad and dreaming about the future, live in the present. When your older and married with children. You end up with the person you are supposed to be with. But only if you trust things happen for a reason. If you only concentrate on this guy...then you could be pushing the rest away. So just trust that your break up happened for a reason and if your ex is going to come back then he will. But you asking him won't hurry the process, it may even make it worse.

I'm sorry though :/ Things will begin to look up. I know breakups really REALLY suck and if you need anything else, feel free to ask!

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xomegaroni answered Friday March 30 2012, 12:43 pm:
Say it like you just worded it. Being blunt is better so he knows exactly what you're asking.

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